The worst thing about being a single CDer is?

[Ediosa]

When you are out dressed and meet this beautiful woman, but can't ask for her number or ask her out cause you are dressed just like her.

[Sally2005]

Why not?

[erica12b]

not being able too show off, the new dress or shoes ect just you in the mirror and taking pics for here , single = alone

[sailcruisn]

Lack of comfort/confidence that a SO brings.

[lisa_e_love]

Not having someone to do your makeup for you!

[MissConstrued]

When you are out dressed and meet this beautiful woman, but can't ask for her number or ask her out cause you are dressed just like her.


Yeah, why not? I do it.

Actually, I don't even need to ask half the time.

[Gabrielle Hermosa]

When you are out dressed and meet this beautiful woman, but can't ask for her number or ask her out cause you are dressed just like her.

I almost think this is the perfect time to ask her out for a cd. You'll never have to come out to her because she'll know up front. I also think a lot of women are intrigued by cd's. This may or may not equate to a successful hook up with a woman, but it may lead to some fun and interesting conversation. :)

That's my take on it anyway. Seem logical to anyone else?

[Adrianna_Sofia]

...being enveloped in the pink fog, trying on an ensemble you've purchased earlier, checking it out in a full length mirror an then turning around and ask "does my butt look big in..." your voice trails off as you realize you're all alone...:eek:

[Princess29]

not being able to get a second opinion about your outfit or your makeup before going out

[Leslie Mary S]

Not having anyone to comment on or correct what you are going to wear out. l.e. what is fashion correct for your figure/skin/hair color. or in my case which wig goes with which outfit combination.

[Rita D]

For me, it's not being able to share that fact with everybody in my life. Only a few close friends know about Rita....:sad:

[Ediosa]

Good one girls, keep them coming.

About asking the girl out, well, I might have the confidence to go out dress, but I still don't have the confidence to go out to a club yet, or talk for an extended period of time. I've only been going out during the day for the last couple of weeks. hehehe, will get there though.:devil:

[TxKimberly]

The worst part about being single is not having someone to hug every night, to not have someone you can hold when your happy or sad.

[MJ]

why not then she knows your hobby nothing to hide. hey you don't know till you try..

[Billijo49504]

When the wife barrows the shirt you planned on wearing. Or she goes to bed early, and you have to unhook your own bra...BJ

[Ediosa]

Does anyone know how to change the title on a thread. I would've liked it to say the same thing except single. I like everyone to add about it. So far, it's about not having someone to be with you.

[Kimmie]

Can you meet a girl while en femme?

For the last three times. I hit it off with a girl while en femme. Once I even asked for a phone number and got it. (Incidentally, she never called back.) Confidence is key. Think of it from her perspective. Here is a guy who can empathize with me, tries to communicate with me as an equal. Knows how long it takes us to get ready, and doesn't mind shopping.

Bear in mind, if your femme self is markedly different from your guy side. Such as submissive personality en femme, dominant en homme. When she meets you outside the dress, she may feel deceived. If you have integrated both sides to the point that you are the same person en femme as you are en homme. It may work better. I have seen it happen.

[Cindy Lynn]

Bear in mind, if your femme self is markedly different from your guy side. Such as submissive personality en femme, dominant en homme. When she meets you outside the dress, she may feel deceived.


You just got to keep the act up until you get to "Hit It". After that who cares what she thinks?

[CharleneT]

... It's like Sammy Davis Junior said: "Being gay is harder than being black. When you're black, you don't have to break the news to your parents."

:lol2: that is great !!



Another advantage about chatting a woman up when you're dressed: even if it gets nowhere, it nails the lie that crossdressers are all gay.

Absolutely !!

I've met, and asked out women while dressed. It can work, really. Two of the times that it worked out we dated for some months. Near misses for various reasons, but it was so comfortable to have "the subject" out on the table, right off. Sure, you are going to get turned down more than likely.... but not always. Plus you never really know if you are going to get turned down anyway.

Charlene

[Raquel June]

I'm more comfortable talking to girls when I'm all dressed up. If they're talking to me looking the way I do, what could I possibly be worried about? I'm much more awkward at school with my "creepy androgynous guy" look.




The worst part about being single is not having someone to hug every night, to not have someone you can hold when your happy or sad.

:yt:

I've been single for most of the last three years. While I love being able to go out and do what I want, sometimes I feel like calling an escort service and asking for their rates on hugs or sleeping next to me for a night. It doesn't seem to get any better with time.

[lisajane]

What type of Girl? T Girl or GG LOL!!:o

[Sam-antha]

When you are out dressed and meet this beautiful woman, but can't ask for her number or ask her out cause you are dressed just like her.

Personnaly I think that she would vanish when she saw her "dress" twin approaching. I would were I her.

~Samm

[JoAnne Wheeler]

It should be te best time to approach her - you will never have to HIDE

anything from her if she accepts you - if she doesn't, then it saves a lot of

grief latter.

JoAnne Wheeler

[Deb The Brunette]

The worst part about being single is not having someone to hug every night, to not have someone you can hold when your happy or sad.


That's what I was going to write :sad: ...still, I've got my teddy and he doesn't criticise me



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[grace@4]

That's what I was going to write :sad: ...still, I've got my teddy and he doesn't criticise me



. same with me wish l would meet some one like me and just go for walk and chat about shopping and new ladies fashions

[Karen__Starr]

I have no downsides to being a single transgender person that any male or female might consider a downside i.e. eating alone, sleeping alone etc.

[SuzanneS]

same with me wish l would meet some one like me and just go for walk and chat about shopping and new ladies fashions
That's what I'd like also, but living out here in BFE, I doubt that there is anyone else like me....I gotta travel some to find anybody that I could chit-chat with in person, which isn't a problem, just not as convenient.

Suzanne

[JoannaCaroline]

When you are out dressed and meet this beautiful woman, but can't ask for her number or ask her out cause you are dressed just like her.

I used to do it. Then I got married. In the end though if you are bold enough to be talking to women while you are out solo, you should at least make some friends.

[CD Susan]

I have no downsides to being a single transgender person that any male or female might consider a downside i.e. eating alone, sleeping alone etc.

I agree with what Karen has said. I was married for 23 years, the last 8 of them being the most miserable time of my life. I have been very happily divorced (by my choosing) for the past 14 years. I cannot think of even one reason why I would want to be married again. Being truely free means being single. I get the impression from so many other members here that us single cd's are pitifully lonely and there must be something "wrong" with us to want to remain free and single. Well, this is simply not the case!

[Nicki B]

You just got to keep the act up until you get to "Hit It". After that who cares what she thinks?

You're planning on staying single, then, Cindy... :rolleyes:

[SuzanneS]

I agree with what Karen has said. I was married for 23 years, the last 8 of them being the most miserable time of my life. I have been very happily divorced (by my choosing) for the past 14 years. I cannot think of even one reason why I would want to be married again. Being truely free means being single. I get the impression from so many other members here that us single cd's are pitifully lonely and there must be something "wrong" with us to want to remain free and single. Well, this is simply not the case!
Oh, don't get me wrong Susan...I'm 34 years old, never been married, dated plenty, but I still really enjoy being single. It's the friends, and 'friends with benefits' that I would like more of.;)

Suzanne

[Linda Z]

I used to do it. Then I got married. In the end though if you are bold enough to be talking to women while you are out solo, you should at least make some friends.

you got to ask or even flirt!:)
linda Z

[Carly D.]

I wish I had someone who could run shotgun for me.. being single and especially closeted cross dresser, if I could ever get the nerve to go out it would be nice to have someone to check the store or whatever I was going to assault by cross dressing.. when I wore my heels in a store I would have like someone to tell me "hey you're shoes are really loud" or in my case not wanting to run into little kids, the person could say not this direction or whatever..

[Cait]

I'm torn as I like the idea of being in a realationship but i'm still a little confused as to who i'm attracted to at the moment. Ah, the woes of a 19 year old crossdresser!xx