Telling someone other then wife about CD

[nicole 555]

Last weekend my wife sister was all worry about me and see was talk to my wife about how down I acking . So she did not know about my (problem) and she must call me about 6 time in 3 day to make sure that I would not do anything dumm. So she came over to drop something of for my wife and I ask to talk to her in the other room. I told her I under stand you are worry about me but I know what my (problem) is SO I TOLD HER AND BELIEVE OR NOT SHE WAS SO UNDERSTANDING ABOUT IT SHE WANT TO KNOW MORE . So we talk for about 2 hours and she was so helpful she told me if I need to do it (CD) just drop off the child (4) by her house . She told you need to do what you need to make yourself happy Do you believe how helpful she was it was like someone took 100 pound off my back !!!!!!!!!!!! PS it fell so GOOD

I was so shock that see though was a great and see had no problems just want to know .She told me I am more of a brother to her then her own brother I new her long then my wife I work with her 6 years before even meet my wife.it feel so refreshing

[nicole 555]

maybe I should have not told her but she worry

[Roberta Lynn]

Nicole,
It's good to have a understanding friend.
Does your wife know, if not maybe your sister-in-law can help if you decide to tell her

[nicole 555]

yes my wife was with me

[GaleWarning]

Nicole, your English is pretty good! Well done.
Well done, too, for telling your wife's sister. A problem shared is a problem halved.

And to those of us who struggle to understand what Nicole is saying, just read it phonetically (as it sounds). Then you will find it easy to understand.

:)

[JoAnne Wheeler]

You have a wonderful sister-in-law - sometimes (well most of the time) GGs

are OK with CDing as long as they are not married to one - what did your

spouse think about this conversation ?

JoAnne Wheeler

[Sheila]

You have a wonderful sister-in-law - sometimes (well most of the time) GGs

are OK with CDing as long as they are not married to one - what did your
spouse think about this conversation ?
JoAnne Wheeler

JoAnne can you pack in with the digs at SO's s please it is getting beyond a joke :Angry3::Angry3::Angry3::Angry3:


Nicole glad you havbe some good support in your wife and your sister-in-law

[Deborah Jane]

You have a wonderful sister-in-law - sometimes (well most of the time) GGs

are OK with CDing as long as they are not married to one
JoAnne Wheeler

Jeeze, give it a rest JoAnne :brolleyes:

There are quite a lot of GGs who are very happy to be married to CDers, in fact, even when they know in advance it isn't always a problem!!

Nicole....Isn't it great when a woman is willing to understand and support us.

BTW, i don't think you were wrong telling your wifes sister, she seems to be very comfortable with it and with her help, your wife may come to understand you better :)

[Teri Jean]

Nicole, it is so good that you took the time and sat down with your sister-in-law and explained your life style. My wife passed away a couple years ago now but if she's watching, well you know, but I sat down with her sisters and did something simular and they have really been great and helpful.

You did the right thing and look at it this way, holiday presents may be interesting from this point on. Huggs to you and your wife and sister-inlaw. Keli