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Deborah Jane
04-13-2009, 06:12 PM
After several recent conversations, this subject has been bought to light.....

For those with accepting SOs.....

Do you ever share underwear?

switcheralso
04-13-2009, 06:23 PM
I have my own that fit better.

AshleyCDFL
04-13-2009, 06:24 PM
My wife and I share underwear, but hey we share worse right! We have fun fighting who gets to wear the cutest pair, ironically the ones I always pick out, lol.

Deborah Jane
04-13-2009, 06:27 PM
:brolleyes: ............ KEEP OUTTA MY KNICKER DRAWERS :heehee::heehee:

I was only looking for a biro :D

Tina Dixon
04-13-2009, 06:28 PM
:heehee:Hell I'm speech less, LOL

Karren H
04-13-2009, 06:30 PM
Ewwwwwwwwwww

Deborah Jane
04-13-2009, 06:31 PM
U lying to me :doh:

Course not......Besides, you don't have any in pink :sad:





Biros i mean :D

Tina Dixon
04-13-2009, 06:32 PM
Ewwwwwwwwwww
Oh come on think of the fun you could have at home?

Angie G
04-13-2009, 08:08 PM
There is no way mine would fit my wife. But if it was possible yes we would.:hugs:
Angie

ambe96
04-13-2009, 08:58 PM
Mine steals them! LOL:Angry3:

AmandaM
04-13-2009, 08:59 PM
Ewwwwwwwwwww

double Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!

kymmieLorain
04-13-2009, 09:22 PM
Well we have some of the same panties and they do get swapped at times. but mostly we have our own. She does how ever borrow some of my Lingerie at times.

Kymmie

amanda w
04-13-2009, 09:53 PM
yes we do we have the same size panties but after all most 40 years it is all most right to do it

jennifer easton
04-13-2009, 10:05 PM
No probblemo, I wear bikinis and thongs she wears granny's, mine are 6's hers are 10's

Robertacd
04-13-2009, 11:22 PM
My wife and I do on occasion. She has borrowed my bras, and I have seen her in my panties, and I have worn hers.

What's the big deal?

curse within
04-13-2009, 11:35 PM
Never had that to worry about , my soon to be Ex always wore those dental floss things . She never really ever wore anything sexy for me and she did that on purpose to not entice me. Never understood that train of thought.

Melanie R
04-13-2009, 11:37 PM
We share but she enjoys the cotton panties and my choice are the nylon.

Shikyo
04-14-2009, 02:13 AM
In the beginning yes, as I had no own. Later when I started having my own, I had no need to use hers. At no point has she ever wanted to wear mines, so the answer would be no we do not share.

Gabrielle Hermosa
04-14-2009, 02:41 AM
After several recent conversations, this subject has been bought to light.....

For those with accepting SOs.....

Do you ever share underwear?

Yeah, sometimes.

Usually it's just her letting me borrow her underwear or requesting I wear it. Sometimes I'll literally just remove her underwear from her and put it on myself as kind of a playful thing. If I'm lucky, I get to keep it. :) And sometimes she'll ask for it back. It's all good to me though. Part of the fun of having an accepting wife. :)

luvSophia
04-14-2009, 03:09 AM
In general, no. Not because of the "eewwww" factor, we just like different styles. She likes tangas and boy shorts, mine are mostly bikinis and thongs.

kaitlin
04-14-2009, 04:22 AM
Hey Girls, We have several sets of matching bras and panties! :)(color, style) We can't share bras, mine are way too big for her. But in panties She wears a size 5 and I wear a size 7 so we do swap some times and if hers get a little loose from wear, they are mine:thumbsup:!

Phyliss
04-14-2009, 04:55 AM
I think that'd be a "fun" thing to do. No "eeeeeewwww" factor. Only problem is there is quite a size difference. XXXL and size 5 undies and 48FF to a 34B bra.

I wear the size 5 and 34B

Lori Robins
04-14-2009, 05:11 AM
Sometimes we do. I have better taste than her tho :D

Sarah...
04-14-2009, 07:06 AM
No. We're different sizes.

Sarah...

Bethany38
04-14-2009, 07:20 AM
Yes we do, we are about the same size and have some matching one that get mixed up sometimes. She and I have been married for 14 years so what's the difference. I do draw the line at my toothbrush though lol.

gretchenD
04-14-2009, 07:25 AM
No,my wife Nikki and I wear differant sizes.

karynspanties
04-14-2009, 07:47 AM
My wife and I buy our lingerie matching, whether it be panties, chemise's, full slips or cami's. We generally try and match on a dya to day basis.

Malori Cross
04-14-2009, 08:30 AM
Why would I want her cooties??? :)

Jillt
04-14-2009, 08:33 AM
My wife thinks I have nicer lingerie every once in awhile she will borrow a half slip

Lorileah
04-14-2009, 10:14 AM
Yeah, sometimes.

If I'm lucky, I get to keep it. :) And sometimes she'll ask for it back. It's all good to me though. Part of the fun of having an accepting wife. :)

Thanks NOW I remember where those panties went. :doh:

Deann Renee
04-14-2009, 11:23 AM
My wife and I share panties as we were the same style and size. she used to gripe about it so i just went and bought a bunch more, so she always has clean ones.

JulieC
04-14-2009, 12:42 PM
For those of you who think your wife's panties are so "eewwwwww" I hate to think of what your thoughts are while "in action" with her. Geez. She's your wife. It's not like you're going to get some deathly illness from her. Besides, there's this amazing thing called a "washing machine" that most of us use before wearing ANY underwear.

My wife and I share pantyhose. Panties have been a one way street. Sometimes she tires of certain pairs and tosses them my way. I can barely fit into them and have them be comfortable, but they'd be stretched out for her so it's a one way street on panties. She's borrowed a half slip of mine before. Shoes and outer clothes we're not close enough in size for it to work.

Raquelle C
04-14-2009, 01:41 PM
Umm, yeah we are about the same size so we share most... and pretty much everything else, including the Sonicare ;)

happygirl
04-14-2009, 01:45 PM
Mine steals them! LOL:Angry3:

Thats what my SO does, she gets into my pantie drawer.

PretzelGirl
04-14-2009, 09:24 PM
We just don't have the same tastes in that area. Her's are so sensible. That's no fun!

Sedona
04-15-2009, 12:47 AM
At the risk of more Ewwwwwwws, we have plenty of our own, but she has no problem raiding my thong drawer, and I've grabbed thongs/g's from her drawer on occasion. Bras on the other hand, she has pretty much taken over two of my more expensive ones, but they look HOT on her.

DanaR
04-15-2009, 02:06 AM
No we don't. We like different styles anyway.

CharleneT
04-15-2009, 09:45 AM
My wife and I buy our lingerie matching, whether it be panties, chemise's, full slips or cami's. We generally try and match on a dya to day basis.

W o W :o

Now that's a fine marriage !!

vivianann
04-15-2009, 11:43 AM
I would not like to share panties, but I would share other clothes if I had an SO, and she was my size. to me panties are too private to share.

JennyBaby
04-15-2009, 03:53 PM
I share panties with my girlfriend at the time. I guess I don't see anything wrong with it. She will sometimes tell me which ones to wear too. I can't complain! :)

cdterri
04-15-2009, 04:13 PM
My wife and I are the same size in most things, therefore we share not only panties but many skirts, dresses, and tops. Only thing we can't share are shoes. I love to see Her leave for work wearing one of my dresses. Makes me wonder what co-workers would think if they knew. And I love to hear the compliments She gets for such a pretty outfit.

Tina B.
04-15-2009, 04:19 PM
We would share, but size and style differ to much, when we where the same size we used to share a lot of stuff. We do share make-up at times.
Tina

Tammy298
04-15-2009, 08:49 PM
In the past my wife has given me some panties and bras that don't fit her any more or that she didn't like. A few were sorta cute, but for the most part, her stuff is pretty boring!

Of course, there are a few things I've bought her that I borrow from time to time.... I have been know to get into trouble for "borrowing" her lingerie and have even ended up with a spanking a time or two!:D

...now lets see, what could I "borrow" from her tonight!:o

kellycan27
04-15-2009, 09:14 PM
I wear my b/f's boxers now and then (around the house), but he wouldn't be caught dead in...er I mean... he wouldn't be caught dead wearing any of my pantys:heehee: Not that they would fit him.

JennyBaby
04-15-2009, 09:31 PM
I wear my b/f's boxers now and then (around the house), but he wouldn't be caught dead in...er I mean... he wouldn't be caught dead wearing any of my pantys:heehee: Not that they would fit him.

Yeah, I also wear my BF's boxers to bed sometimes, but he'd never put on my panties. Not that I've tried! :D

Jocelyn Quivers
04-15-2009, 09:45 PM
Of all the things my wife borrows from me, hose, dresses, tops, make up I'm not aware of her borrowing my panties and I know I don't borrow hers. The closet to sharing would be if she's given a pair as christmas or birthday gift she doesn't like she will give them to me.

jennifer1958
04-15-2009, 09:58 PM
We regularly share Victoria Secret panties...size 7

Jennifer

KandisTX
04-16-2009, 05:35 AM
Just like my signature says. "I wear the bras and panties so she doesn't have to". ;) ~giggles~

Kandis:love::rose2:

TJ Tresa
04-16-2009, 06:19 AM
I don't have aproblem with her borrowing my panties, we share all our clothes male and female, it doesn't matter. We are about the same size. When they are clean it realy shouldn't matter.

DAVIDA
04-16-2009, 06:33 AM
Before Jean and I were married, and before she knew about my dressing, I was at her place one morning:D and didn't have clean underware. She gave me a pair of her's to wear. Later, when I told her about being a CD, I made reference to that day.

JulieC
04-16-2009, 09:09 AM
Before Jean and I were married, and before she knew about my dressing, I was at her place one morning:D and didn't have clean underware. She gave me a pair of her's to wear. Later, when I told her about being a CD, I made reference to that day.

A long time ago I had a girlfriend that knew that I enjoyed wearing pantyhose. She despised this about me, and never did accept it.

One day, I was out of underwear and she suggested I wear a pair of her panties. I noted the dichotomy to her, that she wasn't freaked out about me wearing her panties, but was freaked out about me wearing my own pantyhose. She couldn't explain it. I wore my pantyhose.

gillian1968
04-16-2009, 09:09 AM
My SO and I don't tend to share underwear, we find different styles comfortable so she has hers and I have mine.

SouthernBelle.GG
04-16-2009, 09:23 AM
For those with accepting SOs.....

Do you ever share underwear?

We could, but he's more into the 'hi cut' style and I like bikinis.

Sandra
04-16-2009, 09:27 AM
Do you ever share underwear?

Now I've lost some weight yes we do share knickers, but not bras as my cup size is bigger than hers. :D

MsJanessa
04-16-2009, 09:27 AM
Ewwwwwwwwwww

ditto

Sandra
04-16-2009, 09:28 AM
Whats with all the ewwwws?


So long as they're clean what wrong with sharing?

JulieC
04-16-2009, 11:13 AM
Whats with all the ewwwws?


So long as they're clean what wrong with sharing?

You mean you don't know? You can get cooties :eek: from your wife by wearing her panties, or wearing your own after they've been worn by your wife and washed.

kelliboots
04-16-2009, 11:17 AM
we each have own but i think she wears my white low-rise bikinis as a guilty pleasure.

Cristi
04-16-2009, 11:51 AM
we don't share... but we are close enough in size that a few times she's bought some then decided that she didn't like them for some reason once the package was opened (but they hadn't been worn), so I've 'inherited' those.

Usually the reason she decides she doesn't like them is because they turn out to be too lacy and feminine for her tastes... so she doesn't really have to FORCE me to take them. :)

ophillia
04-16-2009, 12:25 PM
We wear the same style and size, therefore we have one pantie drawer.

Ralph
04-16-2009, 01:43 PM
I'm gonna side with the "eeewwww" camp here. Let's just say that even after laundering, my wife's underwear looks... unpleasant. She also prefers cotton and I'm nylon all the way, and she's like a size 36 to my 24, so it's a moot point anyway.

But still... eeeewwwww.

Even without that, I have always been a bit phobic about wearing other people's clothes. When I was about 10 and off visiting relatives, I was offered the loan of a bathing suit and I couldn't stand the thought of it. I only buy new items on ebay for the same reason.

ralph

Lorileah
04-16-2009, 01:52 PM
eeeewwww? I have never thought that anything about my wife was eeewww. If anyone should say eeeewww it would be her about me. She preferred hers loose, I like tight but we shared anything the other had.

JulieC
04-16-2009, 02:45 PM
I'm gonna side with the "eeewwww" camp here. Let's just say that even after laundering, my wife's underwear looks... unpleasant.

Then it's time to replace them. Same goes for my underwear. If they look unpleasant, I certainly wouldn't expect my wife to want to fool around with me after I'd been wearing them.

I mean, ICK. If they're unpleasant, ditch 'em.

Patricia1
04-16-2009, 02:54 PM
They come out of the drawer clean & that's how they go back.

Picklebob
04-16-2009, 03:21 PM
Seeing as I just came out to her about a month ago, I hadn't even considered it yet. At random times where we had dressed as each other before I came out, we both said that we thought the other's clothes were comfortable, so who knows what will happen down the road.

Stitch
04-16-2009, 04:58 PM
I'd be livid if my partner stole/borrowed my panties or bras to wear. Not just because she several sizes bigger than me either. She has her own collection, and lingerie is expensive. I wear it to please her, so if she wore it, it wouldn't really be my special stuff anymore. It'd ruin the magic for me. I want my girly mystique too.

Also it would wear out faster with more wearing and washing. Which means more money I'd have to spend replacing the sexiness.

donnadawn
04-16-2009, 06:31 PM
We occasionally will exchange panties as part of a 'fun' evening but not very often. Most of my wifes panties are the 'granny' cotton ones which I can't stand and she can't stand to wear a thong but for only a frew minutes.

linnea
04-16-2009, 08:17 PM
There is no way mine would fit my wife. But if it was possible yes we would.:hugs:
Angie

Yes, this is probably what we would do too--if we could.

Miranda09
04-16-2009, 10:15 PM
Actually, I think it's a very intimate experience to share with your SO. I wish I had an SO to do that with.........

suchacutie
04-16-2009, 10:31 PM
ah....how do I put this so it doesn't get removed from the list...let's see.

ah...that area covered by the panties has some pretty...ah...interesting things. if we both wore the same size, I'd share in a nanosecond! And for those who think that they are unacceptable after washing, for heaven's sake buy some new ones!

that having been said, we do share stockings and such, and we give each other clothing that better fits the other. It's called love, intimacy...all that stuff. I think it's incredibly romantic!

tina

Lori A
04-16-2009, 10:37 PM
No, my wife and I are different sizes, though our 21 yo daughter and wear the same size panties and hers sometimes go back into my laundry bag when I go back out on the truck, and some of mine manage to get left out and left at the house. I don't see the ewwwwww factor as long as they have been washed and aparently she doesn't either. Now going pantieless" EWWWWWWWW!!

CharleneT
04-16-2009, 11:24 PM
I know panty threads are popular, but one about sharing panties lasting for 72 entries .....

:brolleyes:


geeeshhh .....

tanya1976
04-17-2009, 01:35 AM
Whats with all the ewwwws?


So long as they're clean what wrong with sharing?

I agree...

Sandra
04-17-2009, 06:48 AM
You mean you don't know? You can get cooties :eek: from your wife by wearing her panties, or wearing your own after they've been worn by your wife and washed.


Well if thats the case then I hope all of you who have sneaked your SOs undies, realised the risk you've taken :tongueout

Tina Dixon
04-17-2009, 07:34 AM
This is a pretty neat thread but I was wondering if maybe us gals here could like get a big bin together and put our lingerie in it then at any time you just go digging through it to find some thing to wear, now thats sharing :heehee:

cindybabe
04-17-2009, 08:03 AM
my wife tends to borrow mines at times.

JulieC
04-17-2009, 08:52 AM
We occasionally will exchange panties as part of a 'fun' evening but not very often. Most of my wifes panties are the 'granny' cotton ones which I can't stand and she can't stand to wear a thong but for only a frew minutes.

When I was first married to my wife, she had a lot of 'granny panties'. We eventually had a discussion about it. I made it clear to her that I in no way wanted to objectify her or make her feel like she was supposed to conform and fit in a box. I told her what I though of much of her underwear, that was ugly, underperforming (her bras were terrible), and well beneath her otherwise very lady-like self. She said "What does it matter? No one sees my underwear"

:rolleyes:

My response to that was "Well, I could stop brushing my teeth on weekends. Not bother to take a shower. Not use underarm deodorant. Wear stained, over stretched underwear. What does it matter? Nobody whose opinion I care about would be a victim of my slovenliness, right?" I went on with "It's true, few people see your underwear. But, I do, and I'd much rather see you in nice underthings. Further, you'll feel better about yourself wearing nice underthings, and if you had bras that were worth a damn you'd be taking better care of yourself"

A few years later, and a bunch of hundreds of dollars later, she wears only very nice underwear, and admits she's much happier.

Lorileah
04-17-2009, 10:30 AM
Had my cooties shots up to date thank you.

Tina Some of us would win on that cuz we would steal all the cute ones


"I'm not wearing underwear today,
No i'm not wearing underwear today
Not that you probably care
Much about my underwear
Still none the less i gotta say
That i'm not wearing underwear today"
Avenue Q

Tina Dixon
04-17-2009, 10:35 AM
Had my cooties shots up to date thank you.

Tina Some of us would win on that cuz we would steal all the cute ones


"I'm not wearing underwear today,
No i'm not wearing underwear today
Not that you probably care
Much about my underwear
Still none the less i gotta say
That i'm not wearing underwear today"
Avenue Q
I guess you need to get up early and get the good stuff and leave the granny panties for the late comers :heehee:

Kristen Kelly
04-17-2009, 10:41 AM
Not often but when we bought new ones many times we would buy the same one's for each other.

Samantha B L
04-17-2009, 11:41 AM
I had the same gg girlfreind for 25 years. We never married. We were both 5'8 with almost exactly the same waist measurement. We shared everything and on several ocaisions she let me try on a couple of pairs of her panties and a slip and some other stuff. I would have offered to let her try on my grungy guy's fruit of the loom but I always thought she'd probably say no! But we did wear eachother's clothes often.

susan fuller
04-17-2009, 08:00 PM
My wife and I share if needed but she likes cotton and I like nylon and silk. She just gave me five pair of panties that she did not like because of the cut. As for the bras she gave me all of the bras she had since we wear the same size. She did this because she had some bras special fit for her at the Bra Specialist and she loves them.

dennisGTS
04-19-2009, 10:14 PM
My wife and I are different panty sizes. Our bra sizes are kinda the same - our cup size is the same (I wear "B" size breat forms). Some of my bras could fit her. She likes some of the styles I have and has even displayed a bit of jealousy because I have bras and panties that are way more sexy than hers; I have told her that she can borrow my bras if she wants. But to this day, she has yet to borrow any of my bras. So, the offer is out there but the answer is no.

Intertwined
04-19-2009, 10:42 PM
Do you ever share underwear?

Wife and I have an agreement, not to share clothing, BUT, the daughter and I have shared several outer garments, NEVER undergarments.

curse within
04-19-2009, 10:48 PM
Wife and I have an agreement, not to share clothing, BUT, the daughter and I have shared several outer garments, NEVER undergarments.
My wife always took my shirts without any kind of agreement she just took em..I didn't mind tho she looked good in them..

kymberlyjean
04-20-2009, 07:22 PM
My girlfriend and I dont "share" panties, but we do match everyday. The only drawback is when you find a cute pair, you have to buy two!!

indigo.asia.s
04-20-2009, 07:28 PM
I've stole her's from time to time. When I was more embarrassed, I would "buy them for her" and wear them when I wanted to. She has stole mine from time to time, but I wouldn't say we share.

Toni_Lynn
04-20-2009, 08:28 PM
My wife and I don't share panties but we do wear other's bras. The closest we come to that on panties is wearing the exact same colour & style/ cut.

AND it goes without saying that I never wear her men's briefs ... but THAT'S another story.

Huggles

Toni-Lynn