wife's home and can't dress .....

[Wendy me]

my wife has a week off (vacation ) i asked her were would you like to go ???
her choise stay home day trips and go to gambling with the girls ....ok what ever she wants ... so we have been just hanging out sunning in the pool ...
some shopping for her....going out to eat ...just being together and haveing some fun ...

well she knows abought my dressing but dosen't approve.. thats ok i am retired and can dress all day as she still works..,./so suck it up for a week no big deal right ????ok wearing pantys under drabs that should get me by right ? wrong i was like going through them withdrawal things omg she goes to bed early i jump into a skirt .....to take the edge off .......ok last nnight she asks me do you mind if i go over my mom's tommarow ??well ok if you want .... so i am in the shower and all ready as her car leaves the drive way
wendy time.......hello old freinds finding something to wear.....god i must have tryed on abought half of my things so far i have been a bussy girl....
light make up god how i missed that ......so now i found something comfy bra and pantys a button down top and short skirt and open toed heels oh thay feel so nice my old freinds ....just kinda enjoying today being wendy .....

now i love my wife and enjoy my time with her but suffering from lack of wendy time ...i can't say how mutch dressing today was like a drug just the need to dress and it was like a calm a feeling of freedom just so good so right so wendy ....

[ChristineRenee]

Oh you go girl!!! "Vacation" Day for Wendy too!!:thumbsup: :D

[Priscilla1018]

You know the old saying Sis,"first ones free and then your hooked".This is a good addiction. :D

[Tristen Cox]

just so good so right so wendy ....
You said it :thumbsup:

[cd_donna2005]

You go girl was a right saying. Yes when we can dress we do and find out how much we missed being dressed. like Wendy being married one has to be careful.. My wife doesn't approve as well so my DONNA times are when home alone or in hotel.. and Yes when I can do it I do. :thumbsup:

[Julie]

Oh God! Wnedy, you're scaring me! My daughter is coming home July 1st and will be here for I don't know how long. I know she has to return to school but I don't know when. While she knows about my dressing, she's not all that crazy about it so I figured I'd just 'go without'.

Now, after reading the 'Wendy withdrawal', I'm scared! First, there's a Chix Mix thing Friday that the hostesses invited me to (that's rare) but I decided to take a pass because that's when my daughter's coming in (smart choice). But there's also the weekend and Wednesday and all day when nobody's around and, oh shoot! I'm screwed!

Add to that the prospect of taking off my acrylics and, God forbid! I'll be a guy again! :cry:

Well, thanks a lot Wen for ruining my life... just kidding! I'll be over as soon as your wife leaves ;)

[Wendy me]

Oh God! Wnedy, you're scaring me! My daughter is coming home July 1st and will be here for I don't know how long. I know she has to return to school but I don't know when. While she knows about my dressing, she's not all that crazy about it so I figured I'd just 'go without'.

Now, after reading the 'Wendy withdrawal', I'm scared! First, there's a Chix Mix thing Friday that the hostesses invited me to (that's rare) but I decided to take a pass because that's when my daughter's coming in (smart choice). But there's also the weekend and Wednesday and all day when nobody's around and, oh shoot! I'm screwed!

Add to that the prospect of taking off my acrylics and, God forbid! I'll be a guy again! :cry:

Well, thanks a lot Wen for ruining my life... just kidding! I'll be over as soon as your wife leaves ;)



Julie this has been the three longest days in my life .... no realy i thought no big deal .... i have been climbing the walls .....but no worry you should be just fine ,,,,)wendy crossing her fingers).......and i am so going shopping .....

[Stephanie Brooks]

Wendy and Julie, I grok. Whenever I'm Stephanie, the world is fine. I'm me. The burden is gone. When I can't be Stephanie, I'm something less than human.

Hang in there Wendy!

Good luck Julie!

[Stephenie]

Hung in there girls. The world doesn't end anytime soon. Wendy maybe your wife was giving you some time for yourself. Nice thought.

Julie, Maybe your daughter will get to know YOU better and see that your still the dad she grew up with.

Look at the bright side of things. Hugs

[Wendy me]

ok Wendy day complete wife is back home but i have had a quick fix ....well tommrow then she is off to the casino on friday then back to work...going to miss her but....

[pantylover1]

Sounds like the withdralls I got from quitting smoking wow For me as long as I'm wearing panties I'm fine. That one precious piece of clothing acts like a life preserver, Ya who....

Hugs & Kisses Bernice P :thumbsup:

[Wendy me]

Bernice i quit smoking and it wasno biggy compared to not dressing.....this has showed me that my wife and me need to step up our talks on this cding .....

[Sharon]

Hang in there Wendy. This too will pass.

Eventually....

maybe....

:p

[ronna]

Wendy, I know exactly what you mean.
My chances are few and when I do get one I go through my things and try them all on!

[MistyCD]

[QUOTE=Julie M.]Oh God! Wnedy, you're scaring me! My daughter is coming home July 1st and will be here for I don't know how long. I know she has to return to school but I don't know when. While she knows about my dressing, she's not all that crazy about it so I figured I'd just 'go without'.

Julie, why don't you just ask your daughter if she wouldn't mind if you dressed while she stayed there. Maybe you can wear a skort, top and some shoes....

Luv Misty

[KrazyKat]

Poor little dears! It does get rough juggling the loved ones! Wendy, you always sound like such a "cheeky little monkey", I didn't realize you still had some limits. Gypsy has been denied alot lately, also, with work schedules and family visiting(mine, I feel guilty). I have to shut the bedroom door and coax sometimes! She does get a little grumpy also! `Course, not like I miss combing her hair for her or anything! :( It's strange, I feel so much closer in 4 months than I did in 12 years. Sometimes I have to bring this up to Karen. I'm sorry that's not possible for you! :(
You sure do have the bestest attitude about it all, Keep it up! I love your humor!

Kat

[Wendy me]

Wendy day today wife's gone with the girls .....".Wendy, you always sound like such a "cheeky little monkey", I didn't realize you still had some limits." well kat my wife knows abought my cding and she dosen't want to have anything to do with it. now i could just say f/u and do as i want....but we are reaching understandings and going a little more twards more of wendy comming out . small steps stop ....let it sink in and more small steps .... she will get it that this is not something she has to worry abought ... i would mutch rather have her with me than aginst me ....

[Stephenie]

Well wendy, glad to see that your having a good day. At least your wife is tolarant enough that you can dress while she's out.

[Sigrid]

Hi Wendy, hope your enjoying the day... really makes you appreciate what you've got, don't it? Remember, you do have it better than most, even during these "rough" times.

~Sigrid

[Wendy me]

oh i am like not complaneing but we get this and want that ...never ending ....

[KrazyKat]

Wendy, Isn't wanting more what dreams are fueled by? I think it's great that you appreciate what you have, sounds like you're both lucky?

Do you have a time schedule, even loosely, or does it depend on when you can do a sit down. Sometimes stepping out of "the comfort zone " is a very scary thing, but when the person that's stepping sees a glimmer of the rewards, it gives them more courage. Old management techniques, such as, "Keep dangling the carrot in front of them." OOOps, that sounds too funny now and could certainly be taken out of context! :lol: No, seriously, I was told that by a supervisor once on how to motivate employees using incentives! What kind of silly rabbits did he think I'd hired?

Congratulations on recent weight lose, :thumbsup: how much? I've dropped 50 since GP came out in Feb. We must find stength in whatever, and wearing tight jeans ought to do it!
Can't wait to see pics!:) You Go, Girl!

Kat

[Wendy me]

well i am retired so on avrage i get in abought 8 to 12 hours of good Wendy time....

gone from size 14 to 9/10 ....little less of me in the right places.....we will get there we got over the hair thing getting long and she has come to just let it be and a few outher things as well....small steps....