What was like your first time in a girl's bathroom?

[vanessatevesti]

Hi! although there are many "firsts" when going out, like the first time you feel the street wind blowing in your pantyhose, I think one of the most wonderful experiences is the first time you set foot in a girl's bathroom.

My first time was here in Mexico in a local restaurant called "Sanborn's". I can tell you I was really nervous as I opened the door, I didn't know if it was going to be like ":eek: AAAAAAAAAHH (girl screaming), there's a guy in our bathroom" or what.
There were only 2 girls talking while they washed their hands, I looked at them, they looked at me and nothing happened, no scream, they just dried their hands and got out of the bathroom. After that, I opened one of the WC doors, sat down to do my business and heard 3 other girls talking, there I was just like any other girl, hearing their "bathroom" conversation, it was so funny!
Anyway, when I finished I went to wash my hands and got out of the bathroom, I don't know if the girls that were still in there noticed me or not but it felt like the biggest accomplishment ever, I was so happy.

I used girl's bathroom other times while dressed but that first one (and when I went to a concert and it was packed, but that's another story) is unforgettable.

What was it like for you?

[joann07]

For me, it really wasn't anything special.
Although, I do remember an interesting little encounter.
I was at Applebee's restaurant and, after I did my thing and washed my hands, I was just about to head out when a young waitress came through the door and she almost ran into me.

We were both surprised and she said excuse me and I smiled.
As I was heading out the door, there was a mirror that allowed me so see behind me and as I walking out she never looked back at me or seemed surprised.

That was a boost to my confidence level because that was the first time I was out in public.

Hugs!

[Carly D.]

I used to do maintenance work at several places and had to clean the womens room as part of the job.. so when I went into the ladies room last week it wasn't that big of a deal.. I think I was more nervous of who might be behind the door rather than what.. I know there are only toilet stalls in womens room.. the changing table wasn't a shocker either.. but the mouse droppings, that wasn't in the brochure.. just joking.. actually one of the toilet stalls had an out of order sign on it and that wasn't expected..

[<3 Keri Lynn <3]

My first time, I was one, my mom changed my diaper.

Oh did I miss the point? :heehee:


*Hugs*Kisses*

[SweetCaroline]

The first time I used a ladies bathroom as an adult was at a primarily gay male club. There were three of us there, all T-girls. Nothing that magic about it. I went into pee. Tho yeah, I can understand the feeling. Entering into the forbibbenzone and what not.

[Ashlie Marie]

I don't remember anything from the first time I think it was a resturant. But at the hockey games for the first time that was a little interesting
scarist I think was a few weekends back I was at a Dance comp up here supporting the team from my studio well the bathroom wasnt toom bad full of young people all day but then again so is the mall. LOL the part I felt really wierd about for the first couple minutes was when my studio owner told me the girls wanted to see me backstage (in the forbidden zone) lol well I followed her back and not a single thing happened excpet for all the girls screaming my name and stuff, I am sure a few girls from other studios or parents might have known but I survived. LOL

[CharlotteW]

I wasn't the only CD'er in the WC that night as it was a club full of BDSM'ers and quite a few CD'ers. I thhink I'd choose the 'disabled' loo if I had the choice.

[jenna_woods]

MY frist time was in a department store , and I never thought about it untill I really had to go, I remember going to the men's room and said to my seelf I can't go in there. but I had to go so went into the lady's restrooms,I went into a stall and sit and did my thing, then I heard some girlls talking, I waited but they stayed there so I left and they never truned around to look at me, I was scared and nervous, but now don't even think about it.

[Ellen Ross]

The first time was at a local "everything goes" club. It was weird opening the door and seeing about 10 girls all having fun in the ladies room, but I was in a place where this was not uncommon.

But the second time was really an experience for me. It was at a big - nice theater in downtown Portland, The Arlene Schnitzer Concert Hall. It took me a few minutes of walking around the lobby to just get up the nerve to open the door, especially noticing other ladies entering left and right. But I realized I had to just do it. So, I opened the door and entered into the lounge area. I'm sure I had a terrifying look on my face, but no one looked or cared. Along the wall of the lounge there were about a dozen ladies in line for the probably 18 stalls. I got in line behind a 20 something girl on the phone. She hardly noticed I was there. Then I immediately started to worry about who might enter behind me. Seconds later a group of 3 or 4 ladies came in and fell into line, all talking to each other and not looking in my direction. After what seemed like an eternity - but probably only a minute - I caught a reflection of myself in the mirror, and noticed my hair needed a little fixing. As I started to run my fingers through it I noticed other women doing the same thing, just sort of fixing themselves. Again, I don't think anyone noticed me - the crossdresser - in line. I finally made it to front of the line and into the stall. I had to walk about half way back, and I don't think I looked up until I closed the door. Being closed in gave me a moment to calm down a bit. After making sure I didn't have my dress in my pantyhose (more of a risk than I gave it credit) I exited and headed to the sink area directly across from the stalls. As I looked back at the line the next lady smiled and nodded as she came forward and entered my stall. I really made eye contact with her and she didn't run screaming! Cool! I washed my hands, and looked at myself in the mirror and smiled with the "I've almost made it" look. Then as I turned to exit I realized that many of the 15 or so ladies in line were looking at me. I had to dig deep to remember to keep smiling, don't trip, don't hold your purse like a man, arms in, short steps, smile, please please please don't trip ... That was the hardest 15 second walk of my entire evening, but once I finally hit the door I wanted to turn around and do it again! I passed them all with a few nice smiles exchanged, and feeling like I made the grade. It was real interaction with humanity, and for a moment I felt just like everyone else in the room - one of the girls!

I did get to revisit at intermission, and this time opening the "Ladies Lounge" door was a breeze. There were about twice as many ladies in the lounge, and lots of conversations, and no one caring about the crossdresser.

Well, there you have it. And thanks for letting me remember it again.

Ellen

[Karren H]

I can't even remember my first time.. But I've had some memorable times since them.. Like the time I almost had my skirt sucked down the toilet when I flushed it... And the little old lady who came in when I was drying my skirt with the hand dryer thought it was funny.. Getting trapped in one of the stalls when a mother and her 100 kids comes in.. Thought they'd never leave.. And the pregnant girl in the stall next to me who was throwing up.. Ewwwwww... The ladies rooms in the casinos are just beautiful!!

[nicole01r]

Since I generally go out at night I have visited the rest area near our town and have gotten familiar with the traffic and when it is very slow. After venturing out of my car a few steps farther every time, one night I finally got the rush to go to the ladies room. you see there are 2 100 ft ramps and you can see about 2 miles. I got out when the last car pulled away and started walking up and then into the ladies restroom. I just stayed about 30 seconds and then headed for the door. When i emerged outside I saw a suv driving into the exit.OMG what am I going to do? Luckily they parked at the second ramp so I walked (very fast) down the other ramp while 5 kids and their parents walked up the other. What a RUSH!!! They didn't seem to notice or care. I now visit whenever I dress and at least get out and walk around when possible:)

[AKAMichelle]

Since I generally go out at night I have visited the rest area near our town and have gotten familiar with the traffic and when it is very slow. After venturing out of my car a few steps farther every time, one night I finally got the rush to go to the ladies room. you see there are 2 100 ft ramps and you can see about 2 miles. I got out when the last car pulled away and started walking up and then into the ladies restroom. I just stayed about 30 seconds and then headed for the door. When i emerged outside I saw a suv driving into the exit.OMG what am I going to do? Luckily they parked at the second ramp so I walked (very fast) down the other ramp while 5 kids and their parents walked up the other. What a RUSH!!! They didn't seem to notice or care. I now visit whenever I dress and at least get out and walk around when possible:)

The people you see at night won't bite. They may laugh and snicker, but do you really care what they say about you? You are at a rest stop. The people are traveling. They live hundreds of miles away. You are never going to see them again. So go for it. Don't worry about someone seeing you. You are only being you. Since when did it become a crime for you to be yourself???

[AKAMichelle]

My first time in women's restroom was scary!!!!!

You eventually get over it, but it does take some time. The restroom is still the one area that gets to me after almost a year of going out in public.

[KarenS]

I suppose I'll have to go into one eventually. Can't I just use an empty beer can?

[Carly D.]

I suppose I'll have to go into one eventually. Can't I just use an empty beer can?

OUCH!! be careful...

[stephaniedoes]

i went out the first time and was doing many things out of spite that night, i went to a sex shop and had togo so i walked right into the mens and stood there and did my thing in the urinal, i was wearing pantyhose a very short white cotton mini and a sweatshirt, it was very busy, the men around me were in a surprised state of mind and i thought it was a blast, i mean i was at a sex shop but how many in that bathroom were not so familar to such things. i had funn. later that night a t a perkins i went into a ladies room and had a very normalexp. walked in walked out, was more scared of legalitys then anything else, in this day and age you could get into alot of trouble but i made it and not so sure if ill do it again. my freedoms more important than some1 saying something bad about me for they are life haters..

[nicole01r]

The people you see at night won't bite. They may laugh and snicker, but do you really care what they say about you? You are at a rest stop. The people are traveling. They live hundreds of miles away. You are never going to see them again. So go for it. Don't worry about someone seeing you. You are only being you. Since when did it become a crime for you to be yourself???

You are right! I really can't see anyone from our town driving 8 miles and needing a reststop.

[DeeGirl]

Mine was at a bar we happen to be at. I went in with my girlfriend. No big deal just another thing to cross off the Dee "to do" list...

the best bathroom experience I had was using the Mens room as Dee at the local mall. On the way out an older gentleman was coming in looked at me - turned around and followed me out to check the sign on the door...looked at me again and just shook his head and went in. I was cracking up too funny...
Those are the experiences going out dressed I just love.
Dee

[Toni_Lynn]

My first time in the girl restroom was when I was in grade 3. There were set of restrrom in my school -- two boys and two girls. I had trumpet practice after school, and during a break when the older kids had their lsson, I was left to my own devices. At this time I was not crossdressing, but was wanting to wear dresses like the other girls. So, I had a bit of an intertest.. That said, I snuck upstairs, and looked left and right. I then snuck across the hall and ducked into the older of the 2 girl's restrooms. WOW! It was sure different. I didn't havethose weird thingies hanging off the wall :-)

I was shaking like a leaf as I snuck in and I am sure that I felt my heart would leap out of chest. I very quickly ducked out.

The following week, I did it again, and this time -- hmm -- I had actually had to use the facilities!

That step taken, I began to use the girls restrooms in school on an occasional basis. By the time I was in high school it was quite regular basis, but by that time I was also crossdressing more often, or at least underdressing at school. I found that the girls washroom was less intimidating. There was much more privacy afforded there. It was also less smelly. I did find the girl's washroom to be a refreshing break.

By the time I was a senior in high school I was using it quite regularly, at least once a day. I had found one that that was in the rear of the school. I'd wait a few minutes before entering, and then boldly go in, pausing only a minute before ducking into the furthest stall.

Sitting there in my stall, I did overhear a few things. I recall one incident when some girls came in to have a smoke. Bending down to look under the door to see if the plave was empty, and seeing my pants and panties around my ankles, the one announced 'don't worry, there's just another girl in here'. I sat tight while they lit up and smoked their cigarettes. After about 5 minutes they left, and I quickly made my way out a minute later.

Ah -- for the innocence (and fun!) of those days!

Huggles

[Kate Simmons]

I was trying to figure out what the little metal box on the wall was for. Then it dawned on me--Duh!:)

[Richelle]

Like many have already said. I do not remember my first trip to the ladies room. I do remember one encounter. While waiting for a stall to open up in a busy restaurant ladies room, I spent the time waiting by checking my lipstick and hair. So when a stall opened up a young lady pointed to me and said “I think she is next”. It was so cool to be referred to as “SHE”

Richelle

[cindym5_04]

I went in, went to a stall, peed, wiped, washed my hands, checked my makeup and left. It's a bathroom to me.

[Sarah...]

It was a pain in the bahookie because there was a ridiculous queue and I was sooooooo bursting to go.

Sarah...

[Kimmie]

It was heaven on earth. I saw the woman sign on the door. I realized "that was me." For many it was a disgusting bathroom but for me I could have sworn I heard birds chirping, it smelled like lavendar. It didn't bother me that the toilet seat had urine on it. I imagined it was honey. Then after doing my buisness. The flushing sound was like niagra falls. Then I checked my makeup and felt a great sense of pride and relief.

Ok, its Friday and I'm feeling a little silly. So sue me.:tongueout

[Sometimes Steffi]

We used to go to this restaurant a lot that had a very interesting way of denoting the mens and womens rest rooms. The mens room was marked womens on a hand with an extended forefinger pointing towards the womens room. Similarly, the womens room was marked mens on a hand with an extended forefingerd pointing towards the womens room. Just so I'm clear, mens was marked womens and womens was marked mens, but the pointing finger directed you to the correct rest room.

So one day I go into the rest room with the mens sign on it. As soon as I walk through the door, I can see someone wearing a pair of bright red pumps in the stall closest to me.

A whole bunch of thoughts ran through my head very quickly.

My first thought was that there was a CD in the mens room. This was way before I learned about appropriate bathroom ettiquite for CDs when they are dressed.

My second thought that that a woman was using the mens rest room.

Then, all of a sudden it hit me. * I * was in the womens rest room. I turned around and booked it out of there as quickly and quietly as possible so no one would even know that I was in there.

[marny]

just one of the girls hon! No big deal

[Marissa]

I was dressed, in a gay bar.. so when it came time to go, I had to ask one of the guys I was talking to which I should use... he smiled and said "which makes you feel comfortable". so off to the ladies room i went. I was in aww.. and just for info, it didn't have a door as in most cases with stales.. but it was nice.. I did the 'check myself in the mirror' routine.. it was like a dream..and it was a restroom.. :doh::D

[Ballerina]

I walked in and said "what the heck!? This doesn't look right!". A girl came out of a stall and up to me and asked if I was alright and if I had missed the boys bathroom. I remember I was blushing so badly...

Wait... that was in 3rd grade :doh:

[Samantha43]

I walked in and said "what the heck!? This doesn't look right!". A girl came out of a stall and up to me and asked if I was alright and if I had missed the boys bathroom. I remember I was blushing so badly...

Wait... that was in 3rd grade :doh:

Yeah, that happend to me too. I was wondering where the urinal was and why the bathroom was decorated so nicely.

I walked out as a woman walked in and gave me a funny look. Then it dawned on me....oops......wrong bathroom!

That was only a couple of years ago.

[Carly D.]

I can't even remember my first time.. But I've had some memorable times since them.. Like the time I almost had my skirt sucked down the toilet when I flushed it... And the little old lady who came in when I was drying my skirt with the hand dryer thought it was funny.. Getting trapped in one of the stalls when a mother and her 100 kids comes in.. Thought they'd never leave.. And the pregnant girl in the stall next to me who was throwing up.. Ewwwwww... The ladies rooms in the casinos are just beautiful!!

I can't count the number of times I was deep in thought while cleaning the ladies room and a woman (or more) would come in and use while I was in there.. once while working at the school there was this girl who needs to use the bathroom really bad goes into the stall while we were trying to get out.. she just had to go I'm guessing (she was the school tease at the time, I think she might actually be a teacher there now)...

[Rachel Morley]

My first time in a public place was about 4 years ago. It was at a TG social in a local restaurant. We occupied the private banqueting room in the back.

I nervously went in to the ladies restroom and there was no one in there. When I was in the end stall two women came in and were chatting with each other. One went into the other stall and they still continued their conversation like nothing was happening. I found that quite surprising, but now I was trapped. I felt like I should leave the stall so the other GG could use it but if I did do this she would obviously see me and I didn't know how she would react to me. I chickened out and stayed put until they both were done and then left when there was no one around :o

Nowadays, I'm much more confident and I use it with a smile :)

[Sherry-Stephanie]

I haven't done that yet....But....

I have mixed thoughts on it....like some of you will i walk in and find all the females in there screaming and start throwing anyhting they can find at me because some "weirdo or pervert" just walked in???? or will it not even raise an eyebrow....LOL.... MY luck they'll start screaming and someone will call the cops....

I know eventually if I go out in public the time will come that I'll have to make that decison and it may be one that is needed to be done quickly...very quickly...but I suppose that if I'm doing OK everywhere else and I have done OK so far the three times I've been out I'll do OK in the "forbidden zone" as well....epsecially if I simply go in there and do what one does in the bathrooms normally....But yes that day will come I know.....

[charlie]

I felt that I dd not really belong and had invaded foreign territory! I was in the stall (yes sitting on the pot with my heels pointing forward) and this young girl plops into the stall next to me and wants to strike up a conversation. Fortunately, I got through before she did, ran some water through my hands and got out! No makeup fix for me. Familarity and return trips help. Now it is much more natural. Still on my guard though, and quick!

[Sarasometimes]

Well I just had my first experience last week and it was a bit eventful. I met my image consultant for some shopping at a mall at the Barnes and Noble Bookstore at 10:00, the time they opened. Kerry offered me a cup of joe and I replied that I really needed to find a rest room. She said they were in this direction so when we got there she directed me toward the ladies room. When we entered it was empty. I entered a stall and did my business and then the zipper on my skirt got snagged. She entered the stall to help just as 2 women entered the restroom. We got the zipper to work in a couple of long minutes. She exited the stall for me to straighten things. I timed it just right so no one saw us exit, although the other stalls were in occupied. The best part was kerry's comment as we got back into the store "My work days have gotten sooo much more interesting since meeting you!"
I must say it was a bit exciting for me as well. I have heard that my state allows a CD to use the restroom of the gender they present, but that only works it those involved know the law. I think I will continue to keep my Ladiesroom visits to a minimum. Great Thread!

[Sam-antha]

Sad, but my memory is not of the length that allows me to remember those real fun days.
My most memorable visit was on a train, when the door failed to lock and then it was opened from the outside and then, it...... failed to shut.
~Samm

[Michelia]

This is something I have not ventured at doing. I do not pass and I am very afraid of the inherent risk. I dread the day I will have to make that choice. I have gotten by so far using the Starbucks male bathroom and similar when I know it is empty and I can lock it. I have also used the employee bathroom at many places where I shop. At a couple of malls where they only have male and female bathrooms, I used the bathroom of the mall management office.

[debra sue]

It was about the 4th time that I went into the ladies restroom while traveling as Debra.
I was a little apprehensive, but went in to do my business.
All went well until I left the stall and as I came out there was a border patrol female officer waiting to use my stall.
I damn near panic and ran, but knew this would have caused more confusion. So I calmly went to wash my hands and nothing was said.
I now go with ease all of the time and find it most enjoyable to use the restroom label Ladies

Debra

[Persephone]

At the beauty salon we go to there are two restrooms. Before the salon moved in they may have been intended as men's and women's, but there are no signs on the doors.

One of the rooms does have a urinal. Here's a picture of it:
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y53/sandylewiscares/Urinal-Salon-Showoff.jpg

[Phyliss]

My "first" time, I was so nervous I could barely accomplish the main reason for which I had entered there.

[TxKimberly]

It scared the pee outta me! :D :heehee:

[Cheryl T]

My first time in the Ladies Room was my first public outing. I went shopping with my spouse and as she waited nervously outside I went in to do my business. When I came out she was soo relieved (no pun) that there was no incident and actually for me it was no big thing. I went in, went, and went out...lol.

[Erica K.]

I was in guy mode and really drunk and walked into the women's room. As I'm doing my business I'm thinking *there are a lot of stalls in here...* As I'm washing my hands, a group of women walk in and we all look at each other shocked! I just say, "oops :o" and go back to my friends. Nothing Cd related, but I thought it was funny :)