arula
05-02-2009, 12:22 AM
Though I have not been here for awhile, I owe alot to this forum and the girls I have met and talked to. I guess the reason that i don't come back is that I have taken my self to the next step. I started dating men about 3 years ago and in that time have met 3 men who were serious about wanting a relationship. The third gentleman who I had met in Sept. had proposed marriage to me. Yes I am married, and knowing that I wanted to live as a woman, led me to confess to my wife that I had been cheating on her for over three years. After calling me everything but the kitchen sink, she has realized that I am dead serious in my decision. I will be having FFS, Breasts and Hips done in about 4 years, in the mean time I will have some minor facial surgery done to pull back the years. We plan to open A transgender club somewhere in europe in the future, and I hope that I will realize everything I have just told you. The most inspiration I feel has come from you girls who have shown support in the past. Without this site I may have never brought my dream into reality. My bf and I frequent Georges Play, on Church St. Its a gay club and a great Drag Queen show with Chris Edwards, and is very t-girl friendly. We will be there on the weekend of the 16th and if you do come please look for me. Thank you Ladies, all of you. I know everyone here is on a different journey and I wish you all the happiness in however far you venture. Love Arula. XOXO