My first "outing"

[KimberlyJo]

So I decided tonight was good night to venture out en femme, for the first time. My SO took me shopping earlier today and we got all kinds of new makeup and a new dress for me and stuff so I was feeling pretty pumped up about it. As soon as I could, I got myself all made up and got dressed (exactly like in my avatar pic).

I knew I wasn't going to do anything outrageous, but I did stop for gas at the busiest gas station around here. Pretty big and VERY well lit. Um...that was nerve wracking!! I was standing there pumping gas and FREAKING OUT lol. I suddenly wished I had worn my long black skirt instead. Nothing happened or anything, but there were definitely people around and I'm sure I was seen. Hell I would have looked at me if I had seen me standing there pumping gas, just because of the outfit alone.

After that I decided to go for a nice long drive on the highway, stopped at the toll and went through the booth where there is a person. It was an old guy and I don't think he noticed that I was a dude in a wig lol.

Anyway, it was fun and I'm sure it was the first of many more and better excursions to come. Just wanted to share :)

[Christina Horton]

good for you Hun. Next time go to the mall a shop you'll love it and go with your so. Have fun.

Ps. Oh ya why would you freek out do we not go out dressed to be seen not to hide in plain sight? When I go out dressed I want to be seen other wise I would stay home dressed. Right. Well the next time your out hold your head up high and make the people whom see you know you belong there. Never look like your trying to hide girl stand out and be proud your cd. I am. I love being diffrent. I walk around the mall or were ever I am at and love being me truly me. So head held high , breasts pushed out butt up and ("walk like an any-la-dy") and have fun seeing all the looks you get that's almost as much fun for me as shoping , all most. Since I don't pass I just have fun looking at the people seeing me LOL. Have fun kid.

[Miranda09]

Way to go Kimberly. Looking great in your avatar. :)

[Kathi Lake]

I'm glad your SO was able to help. Yes, it is nerve wracking, but quite worth it. Enjoy your femininity!

Kathi

[boardpuppy]

When you get you head out of the pink fog and come down from cloub 9, start planning your next outing. Pick a large peopled place and Walk the Walk, like you belong there, that makes all the difference in the world. Congrats, on your outing, it was nerve racking but such a confidence building experience.

Hugs,
Alice

[vivianann]

good for you Hun. Next time go to the mall a shop you'll love it and go with your so. Have fun.

Ps. Oh ya why would you freek out do we not go out dressed to be seen not to hide in plain sight? When I go out dressed I want to be seen other wise I would stay home dressed. Right. Well the next time your out hold your head up high and make the people whom see you know you belong there. Never look like your trying to hide girl stand out and be proud your cd. I am. I love being diffrent. I walk around the mall or were ever I am at and love being me truly me. So head held high , breasts pushed out butt up and ("walk like an any-la-dy") and have fun seeing all the looks you get that's almost as much fun for me as shoping , all most. Since I don't pass I just have fun looking at the people seeing me LOL. Have fun kid.

Congrats on your first time out, once you get out you will want to experience more enfemme adventures. Like Christina posted be proud of who you are, and act like you belong

[Carly D.]

Way to "break your cherry".. nice outfit as well.. if you live in a metro area you probably aren't that big of a deal for the guy in the toll booth.. everyone starts to blur for these type of people after a while..

[KimberlyJo]

Way to "break your cherry".. nice outfit as well.. if you live in a metro area you probably aren't that big of a deal for the guy in the toll booth.. everyone starts to blur for these type of people after a while..

:heehee: Thanks Carly. I actually live in a somewhat rural area. I live near a small city, but for the most part it's country. But yeah, I doubt he noticed lol.

[Lori Anne]

Congrats, Kimberly Jo. I remember my first time out....i wasn't dressed that cool though.

Lori Anne

[Sonia Greene]

Yeh! I love your answer---as that's the route to being out.........

Sonia X

[Sonia Greene]

good for you Hun. Next time go to the mall a shop you'll love it and go with your so. Have fun.

Ps. Oh ya why would you freek out do we not go out dressed to be seen not to hide in plain sight? When I go out dressed I want to be seen other wise I would stay home dressed. Right. Well the next time your out hold your head up high and make the people whom see you know you belong there. Never look like your trying to hide girl stand out and be proud your cd. I am. I love being diffrent. I walk around the mall or were ever I am at and love being me truly me. So head held high , breasts pushed out butt up and ("walk like an any-la-dy") and have fun seeing all the looks you get that's almost as much fun for me as shoping , all most. Since I don't pass I just have fun looking at the people seeing me LOL. Have fun kid.

This is who Christina W is......that I just quoted!

S

[KimberlyJo]

Ps. Oh ya why would you freek out do we not go out dressed to be seen not to hide in plain sight? When I go out dressed I want to be seen other wise I would stay home dressed. Right. Well the next time your out hold your head up high and make the people whom see you know you belong there. Never look like your trying to hide girl stand out and be proud your cd. I am. I love being diffrent. I walk around the mall or were ever I am at and love being me truly me. So head held high , breasts pushed out butt up and ("walk like an any-la-dy") and have fun seeing all the looks you get that's almost as much fun for me as shoping , all most. Since I don't pass I just have fun looking at the people seeing me LOL. Have fun kid.

Well, I guess I DID want to be seen really, but the moment just got a little overwhelming, I slipped out of my feminine mindset for a sec and was just a guy standing there pumping gas in a skirt lol. You're right though and I'm sure the more I do it the more comfortable it will become. THANKS! :hugs:

[Christina Horton]

Yeh! I love your answer---as that's the route to being out.........

Sonia X


yes that's the route to being and going out. If you don't want to be seen then just stay in the clo-set. If you want to go down old route 66 dressed then you better get used to bring seen. Just think how many people will be educated about us CDs eh.

[Carly D.]

It takes me forever to get the nerve up to pump gas while dressed up.. everything has to be perfect..my entire life I have been in the opposite mindset of making sure no one sees me while dressed this way.. now I'm trying to come out and changing that way of thinking to it's ok for people to see me this way.. really quite the change, from well over thirty years of closed door policy to opening the door up a little.. takes a little gettin used to..

[LisaM]

I am so happy for both you and your SO. You are one lucky lady!

[kathrynjanos]

Yay, I has a happy for you! :D

And here's to many more trips: :drink:

[phballet]

you know i have a sneaky suspisicion that noone actually noticed that you were a guy! i have that problem sometimes...i tend to think everyone is staring at me....you look great hun!:> dun worry about it...the only heads you turn are those who noticed a pretty gal!