Your Crossdressing Bucket List

[AKAMichelle]

I just finished watching the movie "The Bucket List". The movie has caused many different emotions in me over the past couple of times when I watched the movie.

One of the things this time was how many would add going out in public or finally telling their SO to their bucket list. I have done most of what I want while dressed. The only items left for me related to cding are:

1) Flying Enfemme
2) Going to a sporting event enfemme

[Deedee Dupree]

1. Attending the Night Of A Thousand Gowns in NYC.

2. A Dignity Cruise

dd

[Jessica Who]

2) Going to a sporting event enfemme

I was actually thinking about this while watching the Cubs game today, what sporting event would you like to attend en femme?

[AKAMichelle]

Mine would be University of Tennessee football. Tennessee doesn't have the laws to protect us in that situation. Therefore, I guess I would have to just go to a Denver Broncos game.

[Pamela Julie]

I would like to go to a pro football game, as a cheerleader!

Pamela:)

[Peka TG]

I'd love to go to the Kentucky Derby.

:daydreaming: There I am in my big hat and flowing dress,Sippin on a mint julip :daydreaming:


:love:
Paula

[crossdrezzer1]

I would like to go to a prom in a prom dress and also square dance with a silky petticoat,,, be a brides maid and go with them all to the salon ect.. I am going to be a maid of honor in a month but no dress,they dont know this side of me

[TGMarla]

I'd like to do a wedding dress fantasy. I've never worn one, and I'm dying to. I'd like to attend a garden party en femme. I'd also like to attend a Southern Comfort convention, or one like it, like a Be-All. Sigh.

[boardpuppy]

As I have sorta, ginda started by bucket list late (as in dressing), currently at the top of the list is being able to wake up in the morning and putting anything on I want IE dress, skirt, pants, blouse or shorts. Of course, you realize that underdressing and make up is always a given.

Hugs,
Alice

[gender_blender]

When I was little, I wanted to be prom queen and a bridesmaid in a real wedding. While it may be slightly too late for me in regard to being prom queen, one of my friends from college recently asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding later this year. Additionally, I was lucky enough in college to join an all-girls' sorority, which was as much fun as it sounds.

I suppose a remaining somewhat attainable goal for me is to be a model in a bridal fashion show.

[cindym5_04]

I'd like to go to a Nationals baseball game en femme (if you can call what THEY are playing, baseball). I'd also like to go to an amusement park dressed.

[Carly D.]

Dress up for as long as I can everywhere I can.. live the way I want.. dress the way I want..

[docrobbysherry]

OK, for reals? I've actually surpassed my early CD dreams long ago!:D

Only things left I'd REALLY like to do:

Go clubbing with some local girls, like Tiffany.

And go to a national convention and meet some of u!

[windycissy]

Dancing, backwards in high heels in my little black dress..

[Noxvictum]

1. Go to work en femme. Shouldn't be hard once I get to start my own tattoo parlor. Who the hells gonna tell me I'm outta dress code? :P

2. This one's a bit violent, but I'm still working the Military outta my system: First guy that takes my purse is getting beat.

[Sonia Greene]

My reply isn't frivolous. It's serious.

I went to an old friend's funeral recently, and with the congregation's backs towards me, thought____I wish I'd come en femme. It would not have offended anyone, as the only person I knew, was in a horizontal position, and not conscious.

I stress___this comment is sincerely meant.

Sonia

[Sonia Greene]

Oh yes, and for my second choice, would be that the street and whole population understood why crossdressers feel they must do it, ___'cos it's natural to us!

Sonia

[kimberly ann487]

Not having done much "outside" dressed, my list is modest. 1. Go to a CD support group meeting. 2. Throw a fashon or cosmetics demontration at my place. 3. Take a cross country road trip and meet as many of the forum members as posible. How's that ?
:love: KIM

[Nicole Marie]

Snow skiing dressed is a definite to do along with telling my SO!

[sometimes_miss]

Well, at some point I'd like to spend a weekend as a girl, with a girl. Maybe with someone who'd help me with make up and such. Sex not involved, but a little cuddling might be, I'm really an affection junkie. I kinda' keep my hopes up of meeting someone who'd do this with me, but if I found out I was going to die in six months, I'd just hire a pro escort. Oh yeah, the wedding gown thing too. After all, might as well spend the retirement money if I'm not going to be around to use it.

[Janet Bern]

Going on a cruise trip with CDs and ggs
Going on a golf trip wiht CDs and ggs and playing the red tees

[tanya1976]

To actually bite the bullet and, rather than just participating in internet forums great though they are, attend any kind of crossdressing event where I can dress how I want and meet others 'in the flesh' as it were.

[countrygirl]

for me going dressed out in public, dressing as a bride, experience in the world of pregnancy. (sorry in advance of this causes any problems).

[Melanie R]

1. Attending the Night Of A Thousand Gowns in NYC.

2. A Dignity Cruise

dd

Come join us on one of the upcoming Dignity cruises in October or November. We have just returned from our Alaska cruise. The acceptance level of the other 2500 passengers on board was the best in our 38 Dignity cruises to date. We are making progress in our acceptance from society.

[Deedee Dupree]

Come join us on one of the upcoming Dignity cruises in October or November. We have just returned from our Alaska cruise. The acceptance level of the other 2500 passengers on board was the best in our 38 Dignity cruises to date. We are making progress in our acceptance from society.

Hi Melanie, Thank you so much for your invitation, and the improved acceptance level is good news.

I am planning to attend FF in October so if I do that one getting away so soon will be gilding the lily a little. There is talk that it might be canceled on account of the Flu... and I've been a little late in registering and getting accommodations. That said, I will pay attention to what you will be scheduling after that... going is just a matter of time and convenience for me and I am looking forward to it very much.

Warm Regards, dd

[linnea]

I can think of many things to the point that I should say that I would like to go en femme 24/7 for a year (work, go out to lunch, go to movies and other theater, audition and get a fem role in a play, visit museums, lounge at the beach), work in an office, be a bridesmaid, go on a cruise (thank you to others for mentioning this one; I probably wouldn't have thought of it otherwise), and make a speech about one of my favorite topics to some general audience.
Everything.

[Lorileah]

I have been racking my brain all day thinking what I need to do before I go to that big 1/2 off sale in the sky. All mine are self restricted, procrastination or laziness. So I will steal a couple from above.

A cruise would be fun

Golfing while dressed and I would not even have to use the red tees, that is always my second shot anyway ;)

Being me for an extended period of time which of course encompasses the above

[Toni_Lynn]

It has varied over the years, like I was really big on dressing as a cheerleader once. The is one that has remained. I want to do a total makeover, hair, nails, makeup, high heels etc, and then do a photo session dressed in a tux or guy's three piece suit. Then with this would be some slightly cheesey-beef-cake shots of me made up as above but posing in just a bra or bustier and men's underwear and/ or a jockstrap -- again with the high heels in total gender - -hmm -- the second syllable begins with an F and ends in K

I know - I'm weird. But that's my endearing quality

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

[happygirl]

Ok, be honest Lyn. It would be to have a woman's body . I am what I am and will not change that. But to be would be so wonderful

[tricia_uktv]

Yay Michelle,

We are arranging a trip to the Munich beer festival (flying bit) and are going to watch some cricket this summer, what's cricket? Your ewo are exactly at the top of my list

[RobertaM]

Here is my list. all done in 2009!!!!

1. gone out dressed in public for first time ,, done
2. joined support group and gone out enfemme to events,, done
3. have done photoshoot , done
4. gone out to trans club, done.
5. networked with many ,, and experianced life!!!! done.
6.. TBA.

lol,
here is my new list,, omg sharing time, need to think about this as i have covered of so much short term.
a. being able to recreate my look see, left
b. coming to terms with my trangender nature
c. going to a big trans event convention
d. dressing enfemme to a mediavel faire
e. exporing my bisexuality or not.
f. finding new friends for fun in vancouver party zone
g. getting to know christina w better
e. travel en femme (kimberly you are my idol!)
f. major networking with t girl land.

[cosmolovesph]

Golfing enfemme
Flying enfemme
are 2 that come to mind quickly!

[Wendrme]

Three things come quickly to mind.
One: Walk down the main aisle in church, listening to the click/clack of my heels on the hard floor, with my purse swinging by my side.
Two: Be seated in a nice restaurant as Wendy and have my two best women friends join me for dinner. (fixing my lipstick either at the table on in the ladies room would be involved)
Three: Walk bare footed with my toenails shining, in a yellow strapless sundress on the beach this summer.

[skirtsuit]

A real Chanel suit !!!!

[luvlysublisa4u]

i have always wanted to go to the Exotic, Erotic Ball in San Francisco. as crazy as the pics look that i have seen, i would hardly be noticed in my sexiest outfit. although, i am sure i could find a way to attract some attention.

[TxKimberly]

I want to go to a symphony. I've never been to one, and the thought of being mere feet in front of such a wonderful thing just sort of fills me with awe. Yep, I wanna go to a symphony

[Jenny Beth]

My wife and I see eye to eye on my bucket list, me in a formal gown and she in a tuxedo and top hat. :D Nope, she's not the least bit transgendered, she just thinks it would be fun. The only problem is we haven't figured out where, when and what to do if we ever manage to get serious about it.

[TxKimberly]

My wife and I see eye to eye on my bucket list, me in a formal gown and she in a tuxedo and top hat. :D Nope, she's not the least bit transgendered, she just thinks it would be fun. The only problem is we haven't figured out where, when and what to do if we ever manage to get serious about it.

The southern comfort conference would be a perfect place for that. :-)

[Jenny Beth]

The southern comfort conference would be a perfect place for that. :-)


I agree! I just love those southern belle style gowns with big floppy hats and parasols.....:daydreaming:

[BridalBoy]

I want to be a bride on her wedding night :battingeyelashes:

[Sarah Doepner]

I've been out a lot, but just about every time has been in Las Vegas. I've been to shows, dinner, shopping, museums and just wandering around. On the top of my list would be going out shopping or getting a bite to eat here in the Salt Lake Area. A long time ago I promised my S.O. that I wouldn't come out until after her parents had passed away. I love those folks more than I need to go out, so I'm hoping it will be several years before I have to consider how I will dress and where I will go for my first non-Halloween expedition around home.

[PhillyGuy2Girl]

I would love to get dressed up as a bride in a nice white wedding dress complete with vail and the whole 9 yards.


I would love to get a professional make over also.



Felicity :)

[AKAMichelle]

After I started this thread, it got moved around a lot due to the admin not understanding the point of the thread. Since all this started, I have seen a lot of great answers and it got me rethinking my list.

I liked the idea of snow skiing, but the way I ski it would probably result in the ski patrol finding out I was a guy. I don't call it skiing. I call it trying not to fall down.

Some of the other answers which I guess cause me to put additional things on my list are the symphony and golfing.

But the biggest thing I decided upon was just finally dressing 24/7 the way I want and be done with it. Who cares what others think. I would be dying at that point.

[TSchapes]

I've gone to drag bars, TG conferences and TG meetings. I've done some limited shopping.

But I would love to be able to on any given day as a whim, to just be Tracy and go shopping, see a movie, meet with some gg's (Not that I don't enjoy TG company mind you). I just wish I it was just as easy and normal as putting on a pair of pants, and going out the door.

Hope I can get to this point sometime in my life.

-Tracy

[Pattie O]

1)Spending a weekend or longer dressed 24/7.
2)Having a full bridal makeover
3)Dine out and then a film,theatre (ballet or play)or symphony concert
4)Have a wardrobe makeover,make up session and deportment advice
5)Shopping trip dressed and visit my favourite stores and places of interest
6)Go snow skiing totally en femme
7)Go to a ball dressed in "Gone with the Wind" dresses
8)Just go dancing in my favourite outfit at a funky nightclub

[Christina Horton]

I've gone to drag bars, TG conferences and TG meetings. I've done some limited shopping.

But I would love to be able to on any given day as a whim, to just be Tracy and go shopping, see a movie, meet with some gg's (Not that I don't enjoy TG company mind you). I just wish I it was just as easy and normal as putting on a pair of pants, and going out the door.

Hope I can get to this point sometime in my life.

-Tracy


I seem to be your poler oppeset. I have never Been to a t bar, drag bars ,or a meeting. I just to shoping, movies ,hang out with girl friends and my other friends , and with my uncles famliy. So that's some of the things I would like to do.

Oh a shout out to my new girl friend Roberta M. Thanks for puting me on your bucket list hugs.

[Lisa LIckorice]

1. Tell my wife.
2. Go on vacation and spend it in total female mode
3. Go to the beach in my teal sparkling blue bikini and play in the ocean!

Great thread! :daydreaming:

[Patricia1]

I'd like to walk out the front door and simply be taken for me.

[Rachel Morley]

Mine is being a bridesmaid at a real wedding. I was a bridesmaid at a " pretend wedding". It was a CDer renewing her vows with her wife to a group of TG guests, which is pretty close.

However, I have always had a fantasy of being dressed en femme as a real bridesmaid at a real wedding and I am the only TG person there and I am treated just as if I was a "real girl" by everyone there especially the GGs :) I guess I can dream :daydreaming:

[Cristi]

1) Go on vacation far far away from home for a week or more fully enfemme 24/7. This would mean all skirts or dresses, no jeans or shorts. This would include dressing for the plane ride as well as the vacation stay itself. My goal would be to be so comfortable with being out by the end of the week that I don't even think about it anymore.

2) Take some kind of college course as Cristi. One or two nights per week for a semester, while known to the other students only as my femme self. Maybe even make a friend or two during the classes, so we can go out for a cup of coffee after class.
I would just have to do some serious shopping first, so I can go to every class without ever 'repeating' an outfit. :)

[Harley]

A round of golf. Wanted to do it for way too many years now. The breeze, skirt, breasts, I need it. :daydreaming:

[Cary]

Dress up for as long as I can everywhere I can.. live the way I want.. dress the way I want..

That's going on my list!

[Marcia Blue]

Ah yes, a CD bucket wish list. Lets see.

1. Have a head to toe makeover.
1. Spend a week totally enfemme.
1. Spend time with my wife enfemme.

As you can see I can not decide which I would like to to do first, second, or last, or better yet all together.

[Kristen Kelly]

Great question over the past 3 years the things I have done to push my comfort zone to where it is is many of the things you girls listed

What I have done

1) Coming to terms with just who I am

2) Out to dinner and dancing Mainstream often

3)Shopping with my GG friend

4)Extended weekends away traveling to and from enfem.
Atlantic City often (with a trip to the pool in my 1 piece suit)
Dude Ranch.....everyone knows me in guy mode had gone there for 30 years before going enfem
Virginia Beach...... Just being 1 of the girls

5) Midnight Christmas Mass dressed to the nines in my Angoria coat with Fox
Collar and Cuffs

6) Have my hair and nails done while dressed enfem

7) Snow skiied Hunter Mountain in my white bunny ski suit

8) Got up on stage to do drag show and Keroke


What I have to do

1) Sit down and tell my parents (that day is coming soon)

2) Get a Professional make over and photo shoot

2) See a Broadway Play enfem

3) Fly enfem

4) Go to Southern Comfort or Diva Las Vegas

5) A cruise would be fun

6) Work part time X-mas job as Kristen

7) Make my Funeral araingments to be viewed at my wake as I loved to enjoy
my life

[Tal'Aura]

Hmm...

I badly want to make full transition so I can live as a girl for about two decades. Then I will want to be brought into cryopreservation until development of advanced bioengineering, nanomedicine, or mind uploading.

In the meantime it would be nice to go out en femme and meet other girls.

Jolan Tru