POLL! So What does wearing a dress make you feel ? HHHHMMMM ?

[CDTiffany]

Funny ?
But i thought I would ask. You know what I mean. Lets get to the bottom of this. We are all past the J@cking $ff phase.
So why do we still do it?

If you do not want to become a woman, Yet still feel the need to dress up from time to time. Why?

I am asking myself this question.

Yes, Womens clothing is SOOOOO much much funner!
We Know this!

Do we really all want to be woman?

Or is it, Nylons, Heels, Frilly skirts & Lip Stick?

Or something else.

This Forum is the place to ask a ? like this, Right?

Just thought I would ask the ultimate ?

I would love every ones answers.

I will post my answer later.

XOXO Tiffany Amber Rhoads

No need to be deep, Just be your self!

[Megan70]

Yes, Womens lingrerie is SOOOOO much much funner!

Yes, Womens clothing is SOOOOO much much funner!
We Know this!YES. YES AGAIN

Going out in Public impersonating a woman and fooling people
Or is it, Nylons, Heels, Frilly skirts & Lip Stick? YES

Or something else.Yes...J@cking $ff ,J@cking $ff ,J@cking $ff

Honey we're (me) NEVER past that phase. It feels all to good, especially wearing lingerie.

[VeronicaMoonlit]

We are all past the J@cking $ff phase.

We are? Who says? Are you sure about that? Because I'm not sure all of the people here are and far be it from me to make such a claim.



So why do we still do it?

Because we/they can and want to?

Look, some aren't past the jerking off stage, so they put on their pnaties or hold ups or whatever and do their thing. Nothing wrong with that.

Some do it, because they're transgendered, but not "chronically" so. The dressing relieves their trans feelings, which is a good thing. Then they can go back to their guy self feeling better.

And there's probably a bajillion other reasons, but that's probably the "big two", not counting the TS folk.

Veronica
Rondelle (Ron) Rogers Jr.

[jandebs]

breezy round the ankles

[Deborah Jane]

Simple answer.....

I dress as a woman because i want too, it's fun, i enjoy it, it's part of who i am :)

[Gabrielle Hermosa]

Funny ?
But i thought I would ask. You know what I mean. Lets get to the bottom of this. We are all past the J@cking $ff phase.
So why do we still do it?

If you do not want to become a woman, Yet still feel the need to dress up from time to time. Why?

I have a strong feminine side and the need to express and explore it. Everyone has a need for personal self-expression - only crossdressers take the most heat for it. I LOVE my feminine side - it is truly my best side and the part of myself that brings me the most joy (in being who I am).

I dress because I love how I feel about myself when I do. I look good when I dress (at least to me), and when I look good, I feel good.

I experience a strong sense of clarity, control, and personal strength when I dress. I feel like I can take on the world, perhaps just because I feel so damn good about myself when I'm all dressed up. I'm always in a good mood when dressed.

It feels right when I dress up. I get to be the me I was never allowed to be growing up. To hell with society's idiotic gender rules garbage - I choose to be me now, and sometimes that means I'm very girly! :)

There are so many reasons I crossdress. Those are a quick few that came to mind just now. I guess in a nutshell, I dress up simply because it's me. :)

[Bobbi Em]

A friend of mine, a gg, phrased it as "exploring the pink"...I liked that, as far as describing how it affects me emotionally.

Physically? It's fun, in Oh So Many Ways!!! I get to wear pretty things. I'm looking forward to my first Out Evening this weekend and wonder if the wind swirling around my legs will be as pleasant as I hope...Perhaps the reality of the whole thing won't live up to my expectations, we'll see.

So I'll come out of my closet, but have no intention of ever giving it up:-)

Bobbi

[noeleena]

Hi... as a woman i dont wear male clothes ....so ...i spos i have to wear womens ... giggle .... because i hated male clothes .. like being in a strait jacket . you did not have a choice ....now .... i do have a choice ..
...noeleena...

[angelis13]

I spend as much time as i can living as a woman. it's the only time i actually feel at peace within myself.

Oh yes womens clothing is so much more funner(mens clothing, ho hum, so boring)

Angel

[allisonrn06]

For me I think it's made a great marriage even better, we always talk alot, but more so when I'm dressed fem, and some of our best times together the last couple of years have been when I'm girly, or we've been out shopping for girly things!

[Elvira]

Well, let me tell you how i feel when wearing a dress! Even after 30+years of c.d'ng i still want to wear feminine clothing as it makes me feel sensual and it's an escape from being a boring male ! If i cuold make a living out of c.d'ng , i'd give up my male side completely but unfortunately i'm stuck with who i am and i have to make the best of it

[FionaO]

Definitely, its the clothes, I love wearing pretty things. Boys clothes are just so boring, they are just to keep you warm and covered. Look at panties for example and the many variants, colours, styles, materials and embelishments. They don't have any equivalent to the lingerie section in mens stores. Most guys couldn't understand paying $50 for a bra that no-one but the wearer wil ever see, but it makes perfect sense to me.
It would take a book to begin to describe the many variations and how wonderful dresses and skirts are, so I'll pick just a single issue. On the day he gets married the guy rents a suit. The girl spends more time and money on her shoes than the guys whole outfit. Her dress has been in planning for years and so it should be, as a wedding dress is the ultimate experience. I own a large number and I just love the whole experience of getting ready from preparing my skin putting on my special lingerie, doing my make-up and hair then finally putting on my dress and adding the numerous accessories. I take photos to just remind myself of that wonderful time and I know that I look great.
I'll finish with photos to illustrate my point. The two pictures below took me days to photo and put together but I loved every minute.
Fiona O

[Raychel]

Yes, Womens clothing is SOOOOO much much funner!
Yeh that, and when I do get the chance to dress up it is like a mini vacation for my mind and body. Time to escape from the everyday life and just be me. Cruising the forum and e-bay looking for new dresses.

[MJ]

. Yes, Womens clothing is SOOOOO much much funner!!

Did you go to school with TxKimberly ?

[cindyscute]

It's the pink fog I think, enjoy it soo much. It feels great to be a woman :)

[glynnis]

I havnt got past that stuff Tiffany.Wearing feminine clothes makes very happy very amorous much to my much wife delight.She reckons it brings out my gentler side,and it makes her smile when she sees me in the workshop on the lathe or mill dressed enfeme with full make up.I dress Mon thru Fri as soon as my daughter coes off to scool,so very lucky.:)

[Miranda09]

Wearing dresses, lingerie, hosiery, corsets, etc are an incredible feeling and a turn on. I don't necessarily want to become a women, yet I want to experience what it's like to be a woman and wouldn't mind being one for a time. And, when I am fully dressed, something comes over me and I really do feel very sexy and womanly. I've had this desire to dress in women's clothing since I was a kid and it hasn't gone away. Now why I started doing this I'm not sure, but I'm certain it was driven by sexual desires. Actually, when you think about it, women have far more freedoms to express themselves than men do and dressing is perhaps one way of doing just that. Personally I find it very erotic to do so and would love to be able to share this with a SO. But to pit it simply, I do it because I love doing it and would like to think I pull it off very well when I get all dressed, beyond the casual jeans. Maybe too, I'm looking at it from an artistic point of view. That is, can I take this male canvas and create a female photograph. :)

And yes, women's clohing IS SOOOOOOOOO much funner :D

[Joanne108]

[QUOTE=CDTiffany;1738101]Funny ?

So why do we still do it?

/QUOTE]

I know why I do it, I love seeing the woman I can be unveiled as I dress. I love the transformation from drab to fab! :battingeyelashes:
Then I want to enjoy the moment as long as I can!

[Angie G]

Some time I think I'd really like to be a GG. I love coming as close as I can by dress in all the girly things I love the way it feels mentally and physically. As with most of us it's hard to say just what it is that makes us want to dress like a woman.:hugs:
Angie

[Mary Morgan]

I do not have a clue as to why I want to dress and appear as a woman. I know that I absolutely love doing so, would dress most of the time if possible, and feel more comfortable, at ease, relaxed, etc.

My only thought is that at some level, I am female and the disconnect between my body and my brain is somehow corrected when I am dressed, if only for a while.

Oh yes it can be a hassle with others, but given all the satisfaction and enjoyment that I get from dressing why wouldn't I?

[DianneRoberts]

CD lets my other 90% out.
The 10% is pretty bad off right now and has been off & on.
So it started as a place to hide from all that is wrong.
Nothing is wrong when you are somebody else.

But then things started to change.
It was like a sunrise.

It's like driving a new Lamborghini instead of old pinto.

Smooth, sexy, exciting. heart beats faster.

Like a 50" plasma HD TV vs a 9" black & white portable.

Life is good !

[TGMarla]

Wearing dresses makes me feel happy, content, relaxed, and feminine. There's a part of me that would really like to actually be female, but I have to admit, much of the attraction is the "Nylons, Heels, Frilly skirts & Lip Stick" as you mentioned at the beginning of this thread. That, to me, is not enough of a reason to go through transition. But nothing ever changes the fact that wearing pretty dresses and stuff makes me feel great. Heck, I could even go to the extent of saying that it makes me feel right, or even normal. But I'll stick with happy, content, relaxed, and feminine for now.

[Karren H]

Pretty!!!

[Carly D.]

A DRESS TO ME: Well I think that the dress, actual dress (one piece garment) was the ultimate final article of clothing.. the "fem de fem" .. the last step on the road to dressing up.. truth is that is what mom had was dresses, so I fell into that ideal of that being "the" thing to wear as fem clothing.. however I don't consider that to be the Carly outfit as far as what I would wear as being representative of my being.. more it is just another article of clothing that helps translate my existence as a cross dresser.. as far as how does it feel to wear?? well it feels great.. what can I say... a dress feels good to wear, by itself it means nothing, but with the whole package it is just another way to be me..

[PretzelGirl]

To me it is all about expressing the parts of me that I can't express during my male presenting times. I think a lot of it is that as a male, I feel I need to repress things and I can let it all hang out while dressing. Also, the dressing up just feels physically good and it is funner! (is this the new 'World Peace'?)

[JulieC]

Funny ?
But i thought I would ask. You know what I mean. Lets get to the bottom of this. We are all past the J@cking $ff phase.
So why do we still do it?

If you do not want to become a woman, Yet still feel the need to dress up from time to time. Why?

I am asking myself this question.

Yes, Womens clothing is SOOOOO much much funner!
We Know this!

Do we really all want to be woman?

Or is it, Nylons, Heels, Frilly skirts & Lip Stick?

Or something else.

I do it because of an indescribable urge. I have no desire to transition to being a woman, or living full time en femme. I do have a desire to wear female clothes, especially pantyhose, and almost to the same extent heels and skirts/dresses.

I feel good wearing female clothes, I am happy doing it, my wife approves and encourages, I'm hurting no one, and it satisfies the indescribable urge.

Some psychologist might be able to answer why I have this urge. I don't really care why anymore. It isn't going away, so the why I have it doesn't matter. I've learned to accept that it is part of me. That's more important. I don't know why two identifcal cells differentiated into one being a mouth and the other an anus on my body. I am not less complete for not having this knowledge. It doesn't matter. The fact is I have these two orifices. Same for crossdressing. I don't know how I got here. I know that I am here, and there's no undoing it. That's all I need to know.

[Annamarie B]

No the urge cannot be adequately described, that's for certain. There is a certain dichotomy involved for me: I feel liberated, yet somehow captive. Both sensations are exquisite. I also feel both excited and yet somehow very calm when I dress. And I'm so very lucky to have found this forum in order to discuss these things with others who can relate.

[JulieC]

No the urge cannot be adequately described, that's for certain. There is a certain dichotomy involved for me: I feel liberated, yet somehow captive. Both sensations are exquisite. I also feel both excited and yet somehow very calm when I dress. And I'm so very lucky to have found this forum in order to discuss these things with others who can relate.

Yeah. I was on the Internet before it was called the Internet. Even so, there was nothing out there. Eventually, some things started to arrive...alt.pantyhose for one, before it became overwhelmed with porn. But the last 15 years has transformed the landscape for many marginalized populations that have found kindred spirits on the net.

[kristinacd55]

Makes it much more funnerific to be pretty! :daydreaming:

[DonnaT]

Why? Because I am trans.

Many boys, and men, at some point in there life try on clothes meant for the opposite gender. Many of them do not get that "it just felt right" feeling. So, they tried it, it was a hoot, maybe, and they dropped it.

A different result occurs to those of us who are trans, however. It awakens another part of us. As if we are dual-gendered. Hard-wired in some way. Like many are hard wired to be right handed, left handed or ambidextrous.

Why did it manifest itself in clothes? Maybe because it was the clothes that awakened that new feeling? Maybe for the same reason that many women prefer dresses rather than trousers?

There's nothing tangible that can really provide the answer to that question. But what else is there available that lets us express that second self of being dual gendered, i.e., trans?

And I'm glad I like it.

[EjayeCD]

I have to agree with many CDers. Mens clothes are very boring & women's clothing even feels sexy.

[Alice B]

A good and tough question to answer. I think that when I dress I want to feel a bit sexy and pretty at the same time. A difficult combination and often based upon my mood and the amount of time I have. It is also difficult because I want to get out and be seen, which is not going to happen around my house.

[Tina Dixon]

Because theirs two people in my head, me and whats his name!
:bonk:

[ILV2DRESS]

It makes me feel girly. But i am happy being a man too.

[Lissa Stevens]

It just feels right. I feel natural in women's clothing.

[docrobbysherry]

Wait! MAYBE I ALREADY am? When I dress as a woman, I have sex like one! Does THAT still count as "j---cking @ff"?:eek:

Yeah, I KNOW it's MORE THAN THAT! But, I'm CLUELESS as to what it is!:brolleyes:

Maybe you'll tell us, Tiff?:love:

By all! See u in a few weeks!:)

[Jenniferpl]

The feeling girly thing does it for me. I think it would be interesting to be able to live as a woman but not certain I would want to full time.

[Bobbi Lynn]

I don't really know why.

[LilSissyStevie]

We are all past the J@cking $ff phase.

Only because my wife is a lot younger than me. I have to conserve my strength so it's not allowed. But dressing is optional.:D

Other than that my stock answer is that the :devil: makes me do it. I'm not sure what kick he gets out of it.
:love:

[RitaCD]

I don't know either. I gave up long ago trying to figure out why I want to dress as a woman. I now accept it, explore it, and enjoy it more all the time. Like others I do not desire to transition but I do want to find ways to feel more and appear more feminine.:daydreaming:

[Greymancd]

I guess I do it because I have the desire to do it and it makes me feel happy. I guess I love that women get such a large variety and selection of clothing compared to men.

[JacDoe]

Annoyed at my chesthair, my arm hair/pit hair, and my bra straps that just won't stay under control whatever I do.

that, and aggravated with the coarseness of the panty in the only 4x hose I could find at CVS.

EDIT: Also a healthy sense of feminine self-hatred which might finally provoke me to lose the weight I've been putting off working on for years.

[sissystephanie]

Comfortable and pretty! What else is needed? Not trying to be a woman, just like to dress like one! Nothing sexual about it, just comfort clothes!!

[MelindaC]

I feel Soooooo much better and more relaxed when I am in my dress --- with a slip on underneath, of course...

Yes, women's lingerie is SOOO much more interesting. I NEVER dress unless I am in my bra, girdle and stockings.

[connie_m]

I fully agree with you, I love how feminine and sexy I feel when i put on a nice pair of silk panties, nylons, bra, a tight miniskirt and see through blouse, and then putting on some bright red lipstick, eyeshadow, blush, etc., I feel quite comfortable and very much the woman i long to be

[BLUE ORCHID]

It's the forbidden fruit !!!

Like trying to get awaw with something you know you shouldn't do
but it feels sooooooo good then the more you get
the more you want.

It's like a snowball rolling down the hill
the further it goes the bigger it gets.

I don't know where I am going with this but I am on my way.

.................................................. .......thanks............ORCHID

[Jenny J]

Definitely, its the clothes, I love wearing pretty things. Boys clothes are just so boring, they are just to keep you warm and covered. Look at panties for example and the many variants, colours, styles, materials and embelishments. They don't have any equivalent to the lingerie section in mens stores. Most guys couldn't understand paying $50 for a bra that no-one but the wearer wil ever see, but it makes perfect sense to me.
It would take a book to begin to describe the many variations and how wonderful dresses and skirts are, so I'll pick just a single issue. On the day he gets married the guy rents a suit. The girl spends more time and money on her shoes than the guys whole outfit. Her dress has been in planning for years and so it should be, as a wedding dress is the ultimate experience. I own a large number and I just love the whole experience of getting ready from preparing my skin putting on my special lingerie, doing my make-up and hair then finally putting on my dress and adding the numerous accessories. I take photos to just remind myself of that wonderful time and I know that I look great.
I'll finish with photos to illustrate my point. The two pictures below took me days to photo and put together but I loved every minute.
Fiona O

Best Photos To Date!

More funner describes it perfectly for me.

Jen

:rose2:

[tracie674]

sorry hun but 've been dressing and getting off for almost 50 years. i hope i never get past that. i enjoy going out dressed but i know im not fooling anyone into thinkinking i'm a women. i'm a guy in womens clothes and i still find it sensual and sexy and sexual.

[Cary]

Dressing in women's clothes just feels right to me!

[Leah_1972]

Wearing dresses makes me feel so girly. I just love slipping on a dress and looking at myself in the mirror all dressed up looking pretty and admiring the way I look. I like to wear a thong so I don't have a panty line showing...lol. Then I'll turn around, look at my back side in the mirror, put on my make up, lip stick and high heels. I always stay inside the house though, too scared to go out in public. I hope to some day in the future.

[Erika_girliegirl]

i love wearing dresses because i feel sexy in them.. i feel i could turn a few heads:) at least like to think that guys would be interested in me:) then i also just feel so at home with myself.. i get tingle's throughout my body and just want to walk around strudding my stuff:) i also like thongs but because the feeling of them riding in my ass and that i think they let me walk a little more girlie:)

[Georgia Rose]

Wearing a dress! It turns me into a completely different person especially with the full make-up, stockings, shoes etc. It's good to be someone else for a while. You might say it's an escape from the humdrum of everyday life and the boring old male me.

[Teri Jean]

For me it is the panties, bras, skirts and low cut blouses/tees. A slinky dress is really appealing also but it has to be soft and feminine.

Keli

[khoshkelkhanum66]

so sweet

[Charlotte Sometimes]

I have always loved woman's clothing and the feeling it gives me. I like to express my feminine side which on some occaisions is stronger than my male side. Simply Charlotte completes me and when she's not around for a while I miss her.

[Desiree2bababe]

It's all of it, the preparation, the feel of everything, the look, the walk, the fragrance, the strut, the vulnerability, the attention........

[DianneW]

I've been doing it for so long now, I stopped trying to analyze the reasons behind it. I just love everything fem. and THATS THAT.

[LisaM]

My earliest memories are of wanting to be a girl. Putting on a dress is just part of being me.

[JoAnne Wheeler]

Pure ecstacy - total feeling of wonderfulness - relief - comfort - joy

JoAnne Wheeler

[miss_mimi107]

Hi... as a woman i dont wear male clothes ....so ...i spos i have to wear womens ... giggle .... because i hated male clothes .. like being in a strait jacket . you did not have a choice ....now .... i do have a choice ..
...noeleena...


That's how I feel about male clothes! It feels like I can't do anything.

[LaceyMay]

I suppose for myself, dressing is something that relaxes me, and puts me into a more natural feeling frame of mind. I am still exploring myself in this regards, and am not to sure of where it will bring me in the end.
I do love the feeling of being admired while dressed well, and absolutely love the sensation of interacting as a woman in the world.
Seems every time I dress, I take more and more effort and pride, in how I choose to present myself as woman.
There is a satisfying warm feeling inside, when I do a great job.
On the other hand I find that I can be super critical when things just seem to not be working. (almost cried a few weeks ago, simply from having to fight the beard shadow)
I know in reality I am not woman, but at times I wish I could be 100% all girl.
For now, I enjoy this new freedom that I have finally allowed myself to explore. If I sit there and question myself, and try to find reasons for everything, I will never be able to simply enjoy being me.

Sincerely; LaceyMay

[Joanne f]

Hey looks are deceiving :heehee: it just makes me feel normal .

[stephaniedoes]

just love bein sexi... i want to be a woman. wish i was a woman with all its ups and downs i feel connected to myself when dressed. everything about me is femme except the odvious. but im gonna wait until my next life to be complete...

[Jaclyn NM]

I don't want to be a women, but I think it's unfair, that they have so many nicer things to wear than we do. I love the feel of soft satin, or nylon, and I simply go nuts over really high heel shoes. I love wearing all of it, and just wish I could do so without being labeled or ridiculed. What amazes me is that most women don't appreciate the nice things they are able to wear, I guess they just take it for granted.

[Stacye Rose]

!Pretty!!

I have to agree with Karren.

When I put more thought into it.

It's the feel of Nylons on my legs
The sound of my Heels on the floor
And the swish my Frilly Skirt makes
And the way my Lipstick looks while I put it on.
:2c:

[Miranda09]

I have to agree with Karren.

When I put more thought into it.

It's the feel of Nylons on my legs
The sound of my Heels on the floor
And the swish my Frilly Skirt makes
And the way my Lipstick looks while I put it on.
:2c:

Yep...that sums it up nicely. In addition to seeing how good I look in the mirror (my new best friend!! ) :D

[patricia 402]

:battingeyelashes:wearing a dress to me brings out my other half patricia shes a happy very pritty femine girl she loves looking at herself in the mirror she could care less about the problems of life she is just happy shes an escape its a lot of work becomeing her and at the same time hideing her but its worth every bit of efort that is involved this will sound weird but i loove my other half shes the happyest part of my life.:battingeyelashes:

[Aubrey Green]

To me it just feel like the way I should have been dressed since birth. It just feels right, normal. Plus, let's face it. Women's clothes, have a much larger variety of styles then men's clothes. Makes shopping an adventure. :daydreaming:

[5150 Girl]

Funny ?
But i thought I would ask. You know what I mean. Lets get to the bottom of this. We are all past the J@cking $ff phase.


I never really had that phase.
It would be a dream come true if I woke up in teh moring as a real woman

[TJ Tresa]

It has been a very long time since I had sex with myself while dressed.
So your question is a good one. I would like to say that I now dress because I love the feel of the clothing, I love to look as feminine as I possible can. I enjoy the special relationship that I share with my wife who loves Tresa almost as much as she does her husband. I also respect women and in a way I am paying tribute to all women by trying to emulate them. Does this answer your question, I hope so.

[tracijae]

It just FEELS great. I've no desire to be a woman, but wearing a dress feels so fantastic. It has my whole life, from 4 or 5 on...I'll love it forever!

[Alice Green]

I feel free that and comfortable with who I am.

[Marisa_M]

Do we really all want to be woman?


Simple and quick answer:
Yes.
I would like to be woman.

[docrobbysherry]

As a man, I've NEVER felt that way!:sad:

I find the unending parade of desirable young women in my mirror irresistable!:devil:

And they ALL seem to LIKE ME!:heehee: