Told my sister

[Madison Marie]

My sister lives out west and came in to see the family.Her and I went out for a drink or ten and got to talking about everything. Next thing I know I told her it was me that took her bras and panties that she found hidden when we were growing up.She said she had an idea it was me but didn't want to say anything.Her and I talked about crossdressing for about six hours.She wants me to come and stay with her for a week and said I could dress anyway I want and now that my hair is down the middle of my back she would fix it for me (all this hair and I don't know how to fix it).I don't know how to ask my SO about the trip or if she would want me to go.My sister said there nothing to wrong with me she has some frends that crossdress to.
Got to go
Madison

[Alana65]

That's soooo awesome that your sister is accepting & supportive, Madison. :thumbsup::thumbsup:

[Shikyo]

Does your SO know about your crossdressing?

In the end it does not really have an effect on what kind of decision you should make. I mean you are going to visit your sister, nothing strange about that. Relatives tend to go visit each others occasionally and stay longer if there is a longer distance between them. I can't see anything wrong if you do want to go there. The problem might be if your wife would want to come along or something like that.

It feels great if your sister understands and wants to help you to be what you are. The new feeling of little bit more freedom makes your life seem so much better than the day before. I really wish you all luck with the trip if you decide to go there. If I were you I would take the offer and go visit her for that one week assuming there would be no trouble getting time to do so. It can only make your life better.

[Sammy777]

Congratulations on coming out to your sister, I know for me if it probably the best thing I ever did for myself.
Its a great feeling when you do it and get positive results isn't?

I really dont see a problem between you and your So.
Just tell her the truth, you two got to talking and she wants you to come out to her. You are only visiting your sister after all. Don't make it more then what it is.

Does your SO know about this side of you yet?

Is your sister the first person you have come out to?
I would say that if your sister knows crossdresser and told you that you can dress anyway you want she is probably expecting you to. So pack for two, sorta speak, go out there to her and have some fun reconnecting with her on a whole new level.

And maybe you can even get to meet some of her friends too.

[Miranda09]

That is so cool. Maybe your sis can help you talk about your dressing with your SO, that is if she doesn't already know? Anyway, it's good to see that part of your family is supportive. :)

[aussie24tg]

My sister hates me being Trans...

I was at my parents house friday (australian time) using there internet to print out name change forms and she came home from uni..I had my hair down and she got mad..said she felt like a lesser female..(think she jealous). Made me sad when family say things like that..its like they don't want me there..they like talking to me but not seeing me.. Wait till they find out im changing my name..eekk

[Diane24]

That is so great! I wish I had had a sister. I was an only child so I never had a convienient place to "borrow" panties and bras when growing up. I did swipe a bra off a neighbor's clothes line. I had it hidden behind the bottom drawer of my dresser for several years!
I hope your sister will change her mind about you.
Love,
Diane

[Eileen]

Madison coming out and being accepted by your Sister is such a big step and comfort. My sister was the first family member I told. I wish you all the best!

Eileen

[Madison Marie]

Yes my SO found out about seven years ago. She does not like it but will put up with it as long as she sees me when she wants to.It's hard to do that know with two kids but she will make time about once every four to talk to Madison.I get to make time almost every day to be Madison now thwt I have started my own business.

[Jennifer Marie P.]

My sister found out years ago when she caught me taking her panties and bras and was very supportive of it and still is today.

[lesley jay]

go and spend a few days with your sister, i am sure you will both have a blast.i am sure she would like to get to know the sister that she never knew she had.

[TJ Tresa]

That realy sounds great. I would find away to go. If your So knows then it shuoldn't be that big a deal, if she doesn't then tell her you and your sister need some extra time togather and you need to go see her; or just come clean confess everything and hope for the best. In any event I wish you the best and would like to add my congradulations on your sister accepting so well.