Forced Femminization

[Joni T]

Yesterday I was "shopping" on line for some new boots when I came across a picture of some 5" pumps with a locking ankle strap. I got to thinking, "Wouldn't it be the epitome of feminization or humiliation to have some GG kidnap you, fully dress and feminize you, give you a huge shopping list (that entailed going to the mall, grocery store and the hardware store) and then just before you left for your trip, lock the shoes on your feet and tell you they won't come off until your shopping list/trip was completed or she thought you had earned the priviledge of having them removed?" I thought how erotic would that be? I fantasized about it all day at work today. I can hardly compose myself just fantasizing about it. What a rush that would be ! ! !
Has any body ever been force-femm'ed and maybe been in that situation? How did you handle it? Where'd you find the Dom to do it to you? Oh how I wish I could have it happen to me.
By the way I found a really cute pair of boots and bought them. They should be here by the end of the week. I can hardly wait.
Joni

[TGMarla]

To each his....errr.....her own!

[erica12b]

she would half to force me out the door but as for getting dressed show me what you have, lol in all truth it will never happen its just fiction.

[Karren H]

To each his....errr.....her own!

Yeah! I wouldn't need much forcing.. "Put that dress on!!". Ok! :D!

[AmandaM]

I could do it, with a non-dom woman. This would be for our "role playing". But with a dominatrix, probably not.

[Nessa88]

This sounds so hot!

[AmandaM]

I could do it, with a non-dom woman. This would be for our "role playing". But with a dominatrix, probably not.

To clarify. I would do it for the submissive and fem nature of it. I could do without the humiliation part.

[trannie T]

It reminds me of the summer I was sent to stay with my aunt. . .

[Jessica Who]

I found that as I accepted myself more and dressing up has become more common and easier to do, this idea of being forced has faded significantly. It fell by the wayside just as the sexual thrill of dressing did.

That said, if that is something that you wish to engage in, I know there are dungeons out there willing to fulfill that fantasy for a price.

[Kate Lynn]

reminds me of my childhood years,4 thru 7,at the hands of my stepfather,I was forced to wear girls clothes for 2 1/2 years.

[Aubrey Green]

Interesting fantasy. Tell me, where would one sit to be kidnapped by a GG Force-femmer? Dress me up and make me shop! When do we leave? :daydreaming:

[Joni Marie Cruz]

What Aubrey said. Oh please, please, please don't throw me in the briar patch. Unless it's What Not to Wear and the card is fully loaded.

Hugs...Joni Mari

[NathalieX66]

Masochism is a weird thing.
My mom put me in diapers when I was 7 or 8 to punish me because I wet the bed, and I actually enjoyed the humiliation. Oddly enough, I have no interest in the 'adult baby thing' , and that's not why I crossdress.
British artist Grayson Perry fantasizes about wearing little girls outfirs because he dreamt he was a boy prisoner in a Nazi camp forced to wear frilly little girls dresses.
I think some men like having their masculinity challenged, thus the "forced feminization", and put into sissy maid dresses with locks on them. I was already playing with my sisters' clothes when I was 9 and therefore any kind of forced feminization would have no effect on me. I lok back on it now, and think that being treated as a little girl would have pleased me but that's not the same as being told to lick someone's boots or clean toilets. But to each his/ her own.

[Christinedreamer]

In the early seventies when first came to SoCal, I found one of the early TV clothing shops. It was called Uba's and she was operating in Venice Ca. Soon after we met, I helped her move to a location on Sunset Blvd in Hollwood.

I was already intrigued by the concept of femme dom as well as CDing. She gave me a phone number to call and assured me I would get anything I wanted from the woman on the other end of the phone.

The number she gave me was for Queen Adrena. QA is a GG, 6'3" and about 220 lbs at the time. She brought my fantasies to light and with her insistance, I went out in public for the first time. The outing however was not to be an en femme pleasure. It was the much fantasized dom humiliation experience and from a real pro.

BTW some of you may remember Queen Adrena from her days in the GLOW shows -the Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling. She went by the name Queen Kong and also appeared on numerous TV shows as a femme domme.

She introduced me to several CDs that were all trying to find their true comfort level with CDing. Some wanted to just dress as maids or little girls, some wanted the heavier stuff.

With her guidance over a couple years we saw each other, she made me realize that CDing was OK in its own right and allowing the more stereotypical female submissive personality to venture forth without control of a GG domme.

She has changed her operation as the years have passed into more of a specialized domme routine with other BBWs.

Over the years my submissive natured has become more reclusive as I have decided that I have the right without coercion to be me and dress the way I want.

I must admit, that partly due to her insistance, I still have a weakness for super frilly LG clothes, though not outside my home. I know I am not alone in this little sideline of CDing.

[celeste26]

I've read many such stories on sites like Fictionmania (which btw is out of business now). Cost got so steep and so many people signed on that they just couldn't handle the traffic.

Forced Fem is just not my thing though.

[darla_g]

ok this sort of intrigued me, not that i want to go to a dom, but how does one find one? its not like they are in the yellow pages or anything?

[divamissz]

Like a lot of other people have said, this is not an uncommon fantasy. I used to think it was a way to absolve yourself of your internal transphobia, but nowadays I think it's just another kind of D/s play...

How do you find a Domina? Getting involved with local BDSM/kink/leather groups is a start. The Internet's one place, but I find it seems to be VERY hit and miss (no pun intended). G

[Intertwined]

Has any body ever been force-femm'ed and maybe been in that situation?
Joni

I am going to break one of my rules and answer a question with a question !

How many of us would have to be "Forced" to dress up ? :lol:

[Christinedreamer]

Wild cities like LA, SFO, Vegas, NY etc have advertising under "escorts" The ads usually contain addituional info about auxuiliary packages they provide..

Yahoo, and AOL also have numerous chat rooms devoted to it in every aspect.

[curse within]

I don't think I would enjoy it..I was force to dress as a girl when I was 4 -7 years old.. Not all the time or living as one but as punishment rangeing anywhere from being mean to my little sister to being caught trying on her clothes ..

It was very scaring and I did not enjoy it one bit in fact I feel it is one of the major reasons I am so negetive torward my dressing to this date..

[LindaMarie]

I've read many such stories on sites like Fictionmania (which btw is out of business now). Cost got so steep and so many people signed on that they just couldn't handle the traffic.

Forced Fem is just not my thing though.

Kind of off-topic, but just FYI - Fictionmania is back online. I think it just came back up last week.

See www.fictionmania.tv

[linnea]

Forced feminization obviously appeals to some people--that's great. It's not my cup of tea.

[Persephone]

It doesn't require locking straps. Any woman who leaves the house in 5" pumps is pretty well locked into them until she gets back home.

I've met GG's who enjoyed being subs as well as GG's who enjoyed being doms, so it isn't something directly tied to CD/TS or even something that is just unique to men.

My only related "fetish" would be tightly laced corsetry. It would certainly help to have someone or some situations in which I was "forced" to remain tightly laced. For many of our Victorian sisters this was a way of life, but they had a social support network of friends, mothers, and classmates, as well as society in general, that supported and encouraged them. Lacking that, I've always had difficulty maintaining enough internal discipline to ride out the more difficult moments.

Otherwise, I'm generally just another woman trying to get through her day and periodically showing off in my 5" heels (I've worn them to parties and to the nail salon, including days when I've also had to run errands including going to the post office, the grocery store, etc.).

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y53/sandylewiscares/Shoe.jpg

[Nicole Erin]

Forced femme -
Yeah one would pretty much have to force me to wear a bunch of femme stuff like a dress and spike heels. Give me my pretty tee and short shorts with my tennies any day!

Humiliation -
The crappy pay check from my old job was humiliation enough thank you :brolleyes:


It reminds me of the summer I was sent to stay with my aunt. . . What you busted out the neighbors car window, and for punishment...

[vivianann]

Being forced to crossdress aint all its cracked up to be. Plus how can you be forced to crossdress when you are totaly willing to crossdress anyway.

[Joanne f]

It reminds me of the summer I was sent to stay with my aunt. . .
I would love to meet your aunt :D
and i would get my own back by putting supper glue in the shoe`s first :devil:

[Carrie R]

I don't need to be forced at all, unless there is a day I don't feel like doing it, which is less often these days. I am patient, the feeling will come back.

[Deborah Jane]

I don't do forced anything, although i can be bribed into some things :heehee:

[MsJanessa]

Nobody ever had to force Me--but I have "forced" a few others into silk, satin, makeup wigs and perfume---

[Malori Cross]

Yeah, you'd really have to "force" me into a nice cashmere sweater set or a sweaterdress! Oh stop--stop!!! Stop it please!!!!!

[suchacutie]

Being "forced", classically, is the way for your mind to allow you to do something you want to do but can't come to grips with it in reality by yourself. Being "forced" puts the control in someone else's hands and the excitement is then being "allowed" to do what you found exciting in the first place.

The only thing I can imagine in the "forced" category for me is to identify a block of time to be Tina ONLY. Life just hasn't made that possible so forcing that issue would be the equivalent of a fantasy at the moment! But forcing Tina to exist is hardly possible :).

tina

[DinaMature]

jeeez... much porn fodder with this as the theme. It's certainly not a new concept.

[cindym5_04]

I have all kinds of forced femme fantasies. I've had the ones like what you described in the original post as well. Oh the things that go on in my head!

[Marissa Mae]

Fictionmania is back?! My favorite site :D

I don't think I could be forced to dress, but it could get interesting if once dressed I was forced to go out. Sort of like: "if you don't do this or this, I tell everyone about Marissa" :eek: and self humiliation would ensue to keep the secret.

[Intertwined]

Forcing me to do anything is pretty much a lost cause, BUT, dare me to do it, or say I can't do it because Im not good enough or strong enough or smart enough to do it... Get out of my way because its about to be done.

[TSchapes]

the feeling. I was so jealous that this actually happened to my younger brother in college. But since he wasn't into it, he just asked me, "What was wrong with her?"

So even though this may be a way of absolving the guilt, I believe you have to be a willing partner.

-Tracy

[gwen cd]

www.lockedinlace.com.
not bad.

[Annie D]

Great fantasy but that is just what it is......a fantasy!

Here is the important question......how many of you clicked on the link to lockedinlace.com? You girls are sooooooo naughty!

[dawnmarrie1961]

Hummm...interesting. I prefer black leather ,thigh high, boots with a five inch heel myself. But then ..that's just me.

[Brooke Ashley]

sounds like an amazing idea, gets me all worked up :)

[jennifer g.]

well i would tell the gg to slow down and help me with my make up! ^-^

[Diane Elizabeth]

But is it "forced" if one is willing?

[JulieP]

Forcing me to do anything is pretty much a lost cause, BUT, dare me to do it, or say I can't do it because Im not good enough or strong enough or smart enough to do it... Get out of my way because its about to be done.

i totally agree with that.

[gender_blender]

Yesterday I was "shopping" on line for some new boots when I came across a picture of some 5" pumps with a locking ankle strap. I got to thinking, "Wouldn't it be the epitome of feminization or humiliation to have some GG kidnap you, fully dress and feminize you, give you a huge shopping list (that entailed going to the mall, grocery store and the hardware store) and then just before you left for your trip, lock the shoes on your feet and tell you they won't come off until your shopping list/trip was completed or she thought you had earned the priviledge of having them removed?" I thought how erotic would that be? I fantasized about it all day at work today. I can hardly compose myself just fantasizing about it. What a rush that would be ! ! !
Has any body ever been force-femm'ed and maybe been in that situation? How did you handle it? Where'd you find the Dom to do it to you? Oh how I wish I could have it happen to me.
By the way I found a really cute pair of boots and bought them. They should be here by the end of the week. I can hardly wait.
Joni

This is a fairly common fantasy. Try fetlife.com; plenty of Doms on that site.

[Jo Jones]

I have a strongly erotic side to my nature and this sort of stuff definitely appeals. Anything - OK, almost anything - that spices up the bedroom fun time is good for me. I'm not into 'serious' forcing, though, and would not enjoy actually being forced.

I would, and do, happily do it during roll-play sessions with my wife for the above purpose. In the same way, I'd dress as a female dom to reverse the roll with her. I don't have the clothes for that yet, but some are actually on order.

I'd go to a lady dom to have it done to me (if I could afford it!) and my wife would probably accompany me to take part. She'd also let me indulge in this sort of thing alone if I want, as I would let her, too. There would have to be absolutely agreed limits before I would partake, though, and even between my wife and I there are agreed limits.


It's the Scorpio in me ... (well, in us both cos my good lady's a Scorpio, too!).

JJ xx

PS. The postman just delivered me a package that contains the most beautiful, red, tight, PVC skirt. Let the fun commence...
J

[prissylucy]

Please check out himintoher.blogspot.com

[Empress Lainie]

That is pretty wild, I think.

[Deb The Brunette]

How about being forced not to dress up then

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[PaulaJaneThomas]

Unless she's got a gun in her hand I doubt a 9 stone woman could force a 13 stone man to do anything. Years ago in Naps I was introduced to some woman who claimed to be a dominatrix. I said "Great, I like to dominate too. Why don't we get together and see which of us is the more dominant?". She declined my kind offer.

[StephanieH]

Wow, this thread came back from the dead! I think a lot of us like the idea of being "topped" by a GG or our wives or whomever, so yeah, I think a large number of us on here would be seriously into something like the scene the original poster put before us. I know I would love my wife to do this to me! And, as others have said, the "forcing" part wouldn't be that hard - the fun would be in how outrageous she made me look, then sent me out in public.

Take care and God bless! :)

[Angie G]

Forced with my help maybe.:hugs:
Angie

[Jo Jones]

I think what this thread does is to illustrate the wide diversity of reasons why guys on here CD. Without perhaps saying as much, some posters seem to be a bit dismissive of CDing for fetish / sexual purposes. They are perhaps the ones who CD for a deeper feminine meaning? And that's brilliant.

Me, I'm pretty squarely a CDer for sexual ends. I don't have any womanly feelings / needs / desires that makes me take up dressing like a woman. I CD for the sexual thrill of so doing and I have never CDd except in my wife's presence because we do it for mutual fun. Indeed, she insists that she makes me up and dresses me.

Having said all that I did some years ago wear black lacy panties (under my normal guy's clothes) to go to the supermarket. It was a huge turn on!

As posters on other threads have said, this behaviour might just be the start of 'proper' CD interest. We'll have to see.

JJ xx

[Fondew2004]

It is a wonderfully exciting fantasy!!

But for me...I don't think I'd have to be forced at all....dress me up as your personal Barbie Doll....I'd love it!

In fact, I'd probably invite my "dom" with me on the shopping trip!

But it is a delightful fantasy!

[CD Susan]

I would be willing to try it even though it would not require much force to femminize me. I am naturaly submissive so I would no doubt enjoy the experience.

[Ms Mira]

Forced Feminization has been a fantasy of mine for years. I recognize that it will never happen in the way that it is portrayed in those stories, but there is still a lot of fun to be had in a D/s relationship. And, anyway, I wouldn't want to be involved in anything close to 24/7; I think I'd be happier if I met up with a domme once a month or so.

I think the most erotic aspect of it is putting yourself in a mental position to actually be submissive... It's just your natural male instincts to resist handing over control, but then dressing puts you in this certain mindframe as well. Your domme coerces you into surrendering to your own submissive fantasies, then plays with your mind, with that submissiveness, and sort of gently violates your masculinity in various humiliating ways. I can't deny that I like it a lot, and would like playing around with that to be a part of my life.

You can't have everything, it's not going to be like forced feminization in those stories, but there is a lot of fun to be had in reality too!

[Paula Siemen]

I think you need help!!!!!!..................................So let me help you get into those pumps and I lock'em up!!!

[Jo Jones]

Ms Mira and I think very much alike, it seems! :)

I think with willing participants it's possible to get somewhere near FF ... or at least, giving the impression it's somewhere near. I think many people could pretend it's Forced to the point where it's realistic enough to get the required kicks. After all, that's what would happen if someone visited a dom. It's roll-play of one sort (degree?) or another.

Whilst I have my limits and preferences I'm all for sexual fun. Shouldn't we all want more fun?

:)

JJ xx

[RobertaM]

Ok gurls, time for roberta to come out of the forced fem closet.
Poor sweet Roberta has a bit of a dark side,
You will find these in my shoe collection.
http://www.thehighheelstore.com/511-lock.html

[Jo Jones]

Crazy heels, Roberta. Absolutely brilliant. I LOVE that kind-a stuff. Heels ... heels ... heels ... Mmmmm. Gorgeous.

Perhaps Jo Jones is a bit naughty-kinky? No ... a lot naughty-kinky.

I'm starting to buy heels from a certain well known internet shopping/auction site. Had 2 or 3 pairs of killer heels for my wife (mainly for the bedroom) and will certainly buy for me (Jo) when something sensibly priced turns up.

Red or black thigh boots for Jo would be brill (wife already has hers) but at £40-ish a pair they'll have to wait. My only heels as Jo are low-ish black patent peep toe. I do have charity shop pairs of shoes but can't actually wear them!

JJ xx

[jolanda_trav]

I sometimes read these stories and like them as long as there is no explicit sex etc. in it.

But in fact I don't need to be forced, but the idea that some one forces me is sometimes a great fantacy for me. And to be realistic, I hope it will stay only a fantasy.

In the writers society a have shared mine fantasy: http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=111710

[Shauna marie]

In the early seventies when first came to SoCal, I found one of the early TV clothing shops. It was called Uba's and she was operating in Venice Ca. Soon after we met, I helped her move to a location on Sunset Blvd in Hollwood.

I was already intrigued by the concept of femme dom as well as CDing. She gave me a phone number to call and assured me I would get anything I wanted from the woman on the other end of the phone.

The number she gave me was for Queen Adrena. QA is a GG, 6'3" and about 220 lbs at the time. She brought my fantasies to light and with her insistance, I went out in public for the first time. The outing however was not to be an en femme pleasure. It was the much fantasized dom humiliation experience and from a real pro.

BTW some of you may remember Queen Adrena from her days in the GLOW shows -the Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling. She went by the name Queen Kong and also appeared on numerous TV shows as a femme domme.

She introduced me to several CDs that were all trying to find their true comfort level with CDing. Some wanted to just dress as maids or little girls, some wanted the heavier stuff.

With her guidance over a couple years we saw each other, she made me realize that CDing was OK in its own right and allowing the more stereotypical female submissive personality to venture forth without control of a GG domme.

She has changed her operation as the years have passed into more of a specialized domme routine with other BBWs.

Over the years my submissive natured has become more reclusive as I have decided that I have the right without coercion to be me and dress the way I want.

I must admit, that partly due to her insistance, I still have a weakness for super frilly LG clothes, though not outside my home. I know I am not alone in this little sideline of CDing.

I have met Queen Adriana back in the 80's. I also went to Uba's first in Venice, then in Hollywood. I started visiting Uba's around 1973.

[sarahNZ]

ok this sort of intrigued me, not that i want to go to a dom, but how does one find one? its not like they are in the yellow pages or anything?


Really???? they are in this country!