Lori Robins
06-11-2009, 08:11 AM
Hiya girls, this is a combination of a few different threads. The main ones that inspired me are the one about wanting to dress more as you get older and the others about coming out to family.
I have the urge to dress more but have less opportunity as I don't have anywhere to get ready. I underdress most days and at night sleep in a nightie. But this is not enough, I want to dress more around the house and get out shopping etc. I used to have a few opportunities when the girls went to their fathers every second weekend but now that has stopped and we have one girl all the time. I have to take time off work now if I want to dress. There has been a few CD club meetings that I have wanted to attend (Friday nights) but have been unable to because the kids are around and I can't get ready. I also can't afford to get a hotel room everytime I want to dress.
I live in a brady bunch relationship with my partners three kids (boy 19 girls 16 and 10). My kids (girl 23 and boy 22) have left home. I have discussed the idea of telling the kids but my wife won't let me. I can understand the implications about the kids not handling it well but I feel it is unfair and a bit of a lose/lose situation. I think my kids have a bit of an idea but it is not talked about.
I get very frustrated at times, but don't want to stuff up my relationship and family life just so I get my own way.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
I have the urge to dress more but have less opportunity as I don't have anywhere to get ready. I underdress most days and at night sleep in a nightie. But this is not enough, I want to dress more around the house and get out shopping etc. I used to have a few opportunities when the girls went to their fathers every second weekend but now that has stopped and we have one girl all the time. I have to take time off work now if I want to dress. There has been a few CD club meetings that I have wanted to attend (Friday nights) but have been unable to because the kids are around and I can't get ready. I also can't afford to get a hotel room everytime I want to dress.
I live in a brady bunch relationship with my partners three kids (boy 19 girls 16 and 10). My kids (girl 23 and boy 22) have left home. I have discussed the idea of telling the kids but my wife won't let me. I can understand the implications about the kids not handling it well but I feel it is unfair and a bit of a lose/lose situation. I think my kids have a bit of an idea but it is not talked about.
I get very frustrated at times, but don't want to stuff up my relationship and family life just so I get my own way.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated