DinaMature
06-14-2009, 08:01 AM
First, we're both pretty kinky sexually. Monogamous and hetero but pretty open to possibilities within those parameters.
Over time, she's been aware that I like girlie girls, and have my appreciation for the "satin lace n perfume" milieu of feminity. Historically, she has made many jokes about me wearing her stuff... she thought they were mere barbs, not secret truths.
Additionally, she's worked for years with a gay man who is very flamboyantly fem, is in a LTR of many years duration and as such has normalized the whole transgender concept in her mind.
Also, again sexually, it's been long established that I'm very frisky and dominant in my desires.
With this as a basis, I'd come to think she'd be pretty accepting. I've only come out to myself within the last year, so there's a lot of territory we've covered together before my crossdressing came into any focus. (Until last autumn, I thought I was just a closeted underwear freak, but over time I realized that was not really working for me.)
More recently, I've had a minor muscular injury and have taken to wearing a panty girdle that relieves some level of discomfort. She offered a long line girdle, suggesting I might find it more comfortable and effective. I immediately took to it and she as quickly took to poking fun about how I liked it, pointing at the lace trim along the bottom hems.
So on the night in question, as we were talking and watching TV, I broached the topic with "I have to say this... I'm not gay but I do like wearing women's clothes".
With that the flood gates opened... she asked little and listened a lot. The whole revelation took little time to spell out; these details n topics had so often been chewed up by my own analysis so the words came easy.
In a short time, I was showing her the heels I'd purchased just days ago, and not too much later, was showing her my pics in my gallery here.
Almost immediately, she was all for it, jumping online searching apparel and transformation sites to see what was available for me, even before I was done laying it all out for her.
I know many could not go so "all in" like I did but again, I knew my lady very well and felt very safe to do so.
Well, FWIW... there it is. If some are informed or inspired by my experience, then this post will be usefull. Regardless, it does feel good to be able to share such a positive story.
And as a final BTW, this wonderful event occurred on my birthday!!! WOW - freedom; What a wonderful gift!!!
Over time, she's been aware that I like girlie girls, and have my appreciation for the "satin lace n perfume" milieu of feminity. Historically, she has made many jokes about me wearing her stuff... she thought they were mere barbs, not secret truths.
Additionally, she's worked for years with a gay man who is very flamboyantly fem, is in a LTR of many years duration and as such has normalized the whole transgender concept in her mind.
Also, again sexually, it's been long established that I'm very frisky and dominant in my desires.
With this as a basis, I'd come to think she'd be pretty accepting. I've only come out to myself within the last year, so there's a lot of territory we've covered together before my crossdressing came into any focus. (Until last autumn, I thought I was just a closeted underwear freak, but over time I realized that was not really working for me.)
More recently, I've had a minor muscular injury and have taken to wearing a panty girdle that relieves some level of discomfort. She offered a long line girdle, suggesting I might find it more comfortable and effective. I immediately took to it and she as quickly took to poking fun about how I liked it, pointing at the lace trim along the bottom hems.
So on the night in question, as we were talking and watching TV, I broached the topic with "I have to say this... I'm not gay but I do like wearing women's clothes".
With that the flood gates opened... she asked little and listened a lot. The whole revelation took little time to spell out; these details n topics had so often been chewed up by my own analysis so the words came easy.
In a short time, I was showing her the heels I'd purchased just days ago, and not too much later, was showing her my pics in my gallery here.
Almost immediately, she was all for it, jumping online searching apparel and transformation sites to see what was available for me, even before I was done laying it all out for her.
I know many could not go so "all in" like I did but again, I knew my lady very well and felt very safe to do so.
Well, FWIW... there it is. If some are informed or inspired by my experience, then this post will be usefull. Regardless, it does feel good to be able to share such a positive story.
And as a final BTW, this wonderful event occurred on my birthday!!! WOW - freedom; What a wonderful gift!!!