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McLegs
06-28-2009, 07:24 AM
Hi Ladies,
I just had the most wonderful Saturday ever. I'm in the closet, the wife doesn't know but a GG friend; supports & encourages me. I don't get an opportunity to fully dress very often. Saturday was one of those rare days. I went to help my friend with a couple of things while her house mate was away. I had a couple of new outfits she hadn't seen; so we decide after the errands; it was time to dress and we would dinner together. My GG friend did my makeup and I tried on the new outfits. I did three clothing changes and tried on some new shoes as well. My last outfit was a red sleeveless, v-neck with a black patent belt, white palazzo pants and white high heel sandals. I got to spend the evening dressed like that, helping make dinner and just plain socializing. It was awesome; having the run of the house and just plain being girlie for the evening. We ate and chatted like two girlfriends. It was sad to see the time fly by and me have to clean off the makeup to head home. I had such a wonderful time: I just had to share.

Hugs,
Michelle

Shelly Preston
06-28-2009, 07:33 AM
Its great to hear you had a wonderful time and managed to try a few outfits :)

I worry what might happen if your wife finds out

Also she might find out you chose to share your secret with another woman :(

Lee Andrews
06-28-2009, 08:11 AM
Its great to hear you had a wonderful time and managed to try a few outfits :)

I worry what might happen if your wife finds out

Also she might find out you chose to share your secret with another woman :(

This was also the first thing that came to me, playing with fire I'd say. But to each his/her own.

cindyscute
06-28-2009, 08:12 AM
Sounds like you had a wonderful time. Enjoy those golden opportunities.

Angie G
06-28-2009, 08:15 AM
Glad you totally enjoyed your evening Michelle.:hugs:
Angie

Julogden
06-28-2009, 08:24 AM
While it's great that you have an accepting friend, I'll rain on your parade too. Keep in mind what some others have noted here: you're entrusting a woman other than your wife with some very intimate knowledge about yourself that rightfully should be shared with your wife rather than your friend. This is the sort of thing that can kill a marriage, so you might want to rethink what you're doing. You are indeed playing with fire.

Carol

CharleneT
06-28-2009, 08:32 AM
echoing the above, please be careful, your wife will likely explode if she found out.


Please, please, consider finding a way to talk to your wife about your dressing. Sure, there could be a bad outcome, but likely as not, she will find out sometime any way. It is better, much better, to have these conversations in a calm way vs. big fight. Think about a marriage counselor, then you could have a controlled and calm enviroment to discuss this. Truly the more you dress, the more you will want to do so. The more you do so, the more likely your wife will find out .....

I realize that living in the closet is how most ladies here exist. I did for many years. I'm glad that you had a great time with your friend, and hope you enjoyed your time in the sun. Just be careful hon.

Raychel
06-28-2009, 09:07 AM
Sure does sound like a fun evening, But also sounds like it could be followed by a trip to divorce court. :doh:

Alice B
06-28-2009, 07:38 PM
It sounds like you had a great time, but like the others have said. What will happen if your wife finds out and how does she react to your going over to another female's for the day and dinner? Be careful.

Tasha McIntyre
06-28-2009, 08:05 PM
Glad you had a great time McLegs, but you're playing with fire......

TJ Tresa
06-28-2009, 08:46 PM
Girl I think you have a great relationship with your girlfriend, however if the wife finds out you will regret not letting her know, she may or may not be supportive but she will deffinately be jealous about the other woman. Please be carefull. I still think you need to come clean with her before it blows up in your face. Please think about it.
hugs from TJ TResa, and good luck.