lol you tricky people

[claire_hollinger]

k, so my wife found out, and actually found this site in the history and joined it.........talked with a lot of people about my crossdressing and doing research. When she finally brought it up (I am well aware that it should have been me who brought it up, but I'm not perfect and just couldnt gather enough courage), she was well educated about it and willing to work with me within boundaries that were acceptable to her. She even offered to help with make-up and such (I'm horrible) when she felt more comfortable. I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who talked with her (I have no clue who you are, and you might not either, but thank you anyway)

[tricia_uktv]

Careful hon, go at her pace not yours, and enjoy :)

[claire_hollinger]

im not gonna push the pace at all, when shes ready, ill let her bring it up....i like her and wanna keep her around, considering the major faux pas in not mentioning it BEFORE we got married, i am very impressed with the amount of acceptance i have gotten....she hasnt seen my dressed or anything (found some pics and saw my painted toes while i slept, but nothing face to face), and i wont let her until she asks

[sissystephanie]

As Tricia so wisely put it, go at your wife's pace in your CD activities. As a CD'er who had a totally supportive wife for for over 49 years, I can tell you it really is a blessing to have supportive wife! I lost my wife 4 years ago, and every time I dress I feel the loss again. Like your wife, she was my makeup artist and also fixed my wig. Now I just skip that stuff and go out as a guy in a skirt!:) The best of luck to both of you. BTW, what is her screen name! I may have posted to her!

[Mistybtm]

what is your wifes user name ?

[claire_hollinger]

nikki c

[vivianann]

That is a wonderful story about your wife discovering your crossdressing, sounds like all will work out for you and your wife, take care of her.:thumbsup:

[Mistybtm]

nikki c

Have you read all of her post and replys?

[Maria in heels]

k, so my wife found out, and actually found this site in the history and joined it.........talked with a lot of people about my crossdressing and doing research. When she finally brought it up (I am well aware that it should have been me who brought it up, but I'm not perfect and just couldnt gather enough courage), she was well educated about it and willing to work with me within boundaries that were acceptable to her. She even offered to help with make-up and such (I'm horrible) when she felt more comfortable. I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who talked with her (I have no clue who you are, and you might not either, but thank you anyway)
Just remember to take it very slow, definately, yes at her pace, not yours. My wife found out many years ago about Maria, and at her own pace, has welcomed Maria into our daily lives. It is truly wonderful to have a s/o who is caring and understands, and as my wife, hopefully yours can truly see that Claire is a part of you, and makes up 1/2 of your persona, which is what brought you two together....

[TxKimberly]

Well congrats! It's a hell of a load off when your wife knows and doesn't run screaming! lol

[Sheila]

nice to have you aboard ............ baby steps hun, honesty and lots of talking :)

[Gabrielle Hermosa]

k, so my wife found out, and actually found this site in the history and joined it.........

...I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who talked with her (I have no clue who you are, and you might not either, but thank you anyway)

What an awesomely positive thing to happen!

Much respect to your wife for doing her homework so intelligently! I can't help but wonder if I was one of those who communicated with her.

This one got me smiling! :)

[Presh GG]

Nikki is a very special one of a kind lady and you are very lucky Claire.

Like Sheila said ...Talk . Please take some anitiative.

All the best to you both.
And welcome, Claire

springtime gg

[claire_hollinger]

i know i should take the initiative, but i also dont wanna push her.....its a balancing act lol