Need some input

[Mya Summers]

My wife is still trying to cope with my dressing even though she has known about it for some time now almost 8 years, she still has some what of a problem w/it which I can't blame her really. But here is the thing she has went and told like 2 or 3 pple about it that she trusts and one of the pple she has told has a hubby that CD's as well, but I have never met him. I quess what I'm trying to get at is does it sound like she is getting more comfortable w/my CD'ing? or does it seem like she is trying to talk to pple to help her adjust? And on another note one of her friends were over a few weeks back and we were all playing cards and drinking and my wife went 2 bed and me being drunk was brave enough and outed myself to her, she was silent at first but she started smiling and said cool and she said she didn't look down on me for it, which is way cool.

[Joanne f]

It sounds to me like your wife is struggling with it and desperately needs to find someone she can talk to about it , i would suggest that you talk with your wife and find out what her needs and concerns are .

[Mya Summers]

We have sat down and talked about it, and one of her concerns is what if the kids find out about it, and the other is she gets kinda jealous cause I can fit in things that she can't, so I tend not to dress when she is around or awake and the same goes for the kids as well. If there is anything else that bothers her she hasn't spoke about it to me yet.