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becca24
07-04-2009, 02:07 AM
Hi Girls. How is Every1? Ok so i need help. I love to dress enfemme, but no1 knows i do it. i also fantasize about being treated like the woman in bed. But i dont like guys or anything i just fantasize about a woman doing the stuff to me.( i know weird) I dont think im gay cuz i have no interst in men, but i also fantasize of another CD doing stuff to me. granted i have never had a sexual experience like this, but i dream about it. I just wanna get dolled up and look my best and take it to the bedroom sometimes. does this make me gay that i want to be the woman sometimes when im with a woman? I just really dont know what to think girls. does any1 else feel like that sometimes can any1 help me.......Thanx girls - Becca :daydreaming:

PaulaJaneThomas
07-04-2009, 02:49 AM
I wouldn't worry about it. Most men get turned on by lesbian sex for some unknown reason. Straight or gay? Who cares?

Mya Summers
07-04-2009, 03:10 AM
Just because you think about things like that doesn't mean your gay or bi, it's just thoughts and feelings that you get while in femme mode, to me I think it's normal to think that way but that's just me.

Midnight_Minx
07-04-2009, 03:24 AM
That really isn't too uncommon. I too have thoughts of getting all dolled up and taking things to the bedroom. As stated in a previous post, it has a bit to do with all guys getting turned on by lesbians, but I think this goes a bit deeper.

As we let our feminine side come out and play, we don't see sex in the typical male view of "I want to get off, don't care about you" aspect. We are wanting to embrace the sensuality, the caress, the passion.

I will often mention that I think a guy looks nice, or that he's cute, but I don't have any sexual attraction towards the male side of the species.

BabyPink
07-04-2009, 05:12 AM
I feel pretty much the same as you, Becca. You just have to make sure your feelings don't get out of control and you maintain a balance.

Tracy_Victoria
07-04-2009, 05:44 AM
does this make me gay :

Yes. doesn't matter if your wearing a dress, or their wearing a dress, or your both wearing a dress. two guy together is a gay sex act. (you don't change sex just for changing your clothes!)

karynspanties
07-04-2009, 07:20 AM
You are bi-curious. Nothing wrong with it. Just be careful on how you act on it.

becca24
07-04-2009, 08:31 AM
thanx for the adice girls. I know ive kinda been bicurious cuz i like to be treated like the woman in bed, but mostly by women. The thought of a CD in bed is also pretty hot so i figure thats the gay part of bi part. i just cant help the way i feel. But i dont care cuz i love feeling like this. love ya girls....thanx

Angie G
07-04-2009, 09:05 AM
I think most of us have those thoughts Becca. Don't worry about it girl.:hugs:
Angie

becca24
07-04-2009, 09:56 AM
yeah thanx angie i just wanted to know how every1 else felt if they were the same way

Celeste
07-04-2009, 10:10 AM
You are bi-curious. Nothing wrong with it. Just be careful on how you act on it.

Exactly

Tracy_Victoria
07-04-2009, 10:20 AM
thanx for the adice girls. I know ive kinda been bicurious cuz i like to be treated like the woman in bed, but mostly by women. The thought of a CD in bed is also pretty hot so i figure thats the gay part of bi part. i just cant help the way i feel. But i dont care cuz i love feeling like this. love ya girls....thanx

Does it really matter? if it what you want go for it, it not wrong to feel how you feel, what is wrong is if you deny or try to lie to yourself (or others) about what your doing? ie you can't deny your interested in gay sex, or in doing gay sex, and say "I'm not Gay" That was the point I was trying to make.

docrobbysherry
07-04-2009, 11:35 AM
thanx for the adice girls. I know ive kinda been bicurious cuz i like to be treated like the woman in bed, but mostly by women. The thought of a CD in bed is also pretty hot so i figure thats the gay part of bi part. i just cant help the way i feel. But i dont care cuz i love feeling like this. love ya girls....thanx

Becca, EVERYONE has a bizarre fantasy from time to time. Mine mite make everyone blush!:D

But, ACTING on your fantasies is an entirely different matter! I've read of MANY girls that have had fantasies about sex with CD/TGs. For some, it's JUST THAT. A FANTASY! :eek:

Some others have tried it, and it wasn't AT ALL like the thot it would be! Others enjoyed the experience, and have continued on.:brolleyes:

Only U can decide how important trying out your fantasies is!:)

Whatever u do, becareful, be safe!:thumbsup:

Kate Jennings
07-04-2009, 11:41 AM
Labels are for Cling Peaches.

Don't fret it.

Danielle Gee
07-04-2009, 11:45 AM
I think most CD's fantisize about stuff like that....Otherwise there would be no market for....errrr.....shall we say "Toys":brolleyes:

AmandaM
07-04-2009, 11:48 AM
Yes. doesn't matter if your wearing a dress, or their wearing a dress, or your both wearing a dress. two guy together is a gay sex act. (you don't change sex just for changing your clothes!)

Yet, if you have any TS feelings, maybe it's not a guy and guy. I think transgendered people cannot be categorized by physical body alone.

joannemarie barker
07-04-2009, 11:55 AM
i'm predominantly straight but as a girl i do also have the fantasies,both about other cders and masculine guys :)

Yvonne York
07-07-2009, 03:39 AM
Read these posts with interest. I'm straight and married to the most understanding woman. She positively encourages me to dress en femme, and ofetn buys sexy lingerie for me to wear in bed with her. And yes, I do like being treated as the girl, and we often play with one another that way, but it always ends up with us having normal straight love making. But feeling her do to me, what I have done to her is fantastic.