helenr
07-04-2009, 04:20 PM
Somewhere I have a clipping from perhaps a dozen years or more ago. There were four ladies playing bridge, one brought up men who crossdress-must have been a story in the newspaper. While three made small talk, one reflected on her recollections of her late husband. It turned out that he was a photographer and had a development studio-his wife never entered less she pop in and ruin the film. After he died and she had the task of cleaning out his studio she was stunned to find both a closet full of ladies clothing and images he had taken of himself.
She caringly moved 'his' clothes to be near hers in her closet and remarked how sad she was that she didn't know of this chapter of his life--clearly he was expert at concealing this!
I might question whether she would have wanted him to be fussing away in front of the makeup mirror, wearing lingerie in front of her, etc, but clearly she was 'mourning' that she knew nothing of this critical component of her late husband-and felt sadness that she never had the chance to , perhaps, offer positive feedback to him or whatever.
I wish that all wives would read this and reflect that what we do, for the most part, doesn't include trying to emulate females physically-we just have this strong drive, doesn't mean it will lead to any XXX behavior, as perhaps is feared by many wives. Most sensible crossdressers do their utmost to keep this activity a secret as reading posts clearly show the highly inflamatory nature of such a revelation! And this is so sad. helen
She caringly moved 'his' clothes to be near hers in her closet and remarked how sad she was that she didn't know of this chapter of his life--clearly he was expert at concealing this!
I might question whether she would have wanted him to be fussing away in front of the makeup mirror, wearing lingerie in front of her, etc, but clearly she was 'mourning' that she knew nothing of this critical component of her late husband-and felt sadness that she never had the chance to , perhaps, offer positive feedback to him or whatever.
I wish that all wives would read this and reflect that what we do, for the most part, doesn't include trying to emulate females physically-we just have this strong drive, doesn't mean it will lead to any XXX behavior, as perhaps is feared by many wives. Most sensible crossdressers do their utmost to keep this activity a secret as reading posts clearly show the highly inflamatory nature of such a revelation! And this is so sad. helen