what reaction when first caught?

[crossdrezzer1]

reading alot of threads here on first article of clothes you tried on,what age you was and I started to think what was the reaction from who caught you,,I have never been caught but I think mom and sister must have known or even suspected,, as much as I did it I couldnt have been that clever for them not to have known and have always wondered what type of reaction they would of had when catching me pink handed....

[Jocelyn Quivers]

I will just say it was not a very good reaction and it showed me the importance of "the closet."

[Joni Marie Cruz]

I lied my sweet girlish butt off and swore up and down I had no idea how those panties got there. The best theory I could come up with on the spot was that somehow the dustbunnies under the bed had woven themselves into a pair of girl undies and hidden between the mattress and boxsprings.

And like Jocelyn did (hi sweety!) I became a closet dweller and also learned how to hide things really, really good. I helped them with Jimmy Hoffa. Wait! No I didn't, that was just another tasteless joke. Please don't call the Feds.

Hugs...Joni Mari

[karynspanties]

Mom was pissed when she caught me in her slip drawer. She caught me sooo many times, she just gave up.

[Tanya C]

My mom discovered some of my feminine items when I was about 14 years old and she confronted me on the issue. I told her the truth and tried to explain myself the best I could but I know she wasn't very understanding.
Over the next year she made a couple of comments to me inferring that I was mentally ill or gay because of my dressing.

One thing I've learned about being a crossdresser is that honesty may be the best polocy, but it's not always the most popular policy. (Sigh)

Tanya

[Gabrielle Hermosa]

reading alot of threads here on first article of clothes you tried on,what age you was and I started to think what was the reaction from who caught you....

I got caught by my mother when I was 12. She was NOT pleased. That was the day I learned just how worthless I really was (or believed I was) and began to hate myself. It was the beginning of my dark years, that lasted until just a few years ago.

I wrote about my experience getting busted in depth here (http://www.mycdlife.com/2009/04/getting-busted-and-learning-to-hate-myself).

As traumatic as that was in my life, I've communicated with others who's getting caught stories were far, far worse. It's such a waste - to treat us like this. I might have been so much more successful in life had I not spent most of it hating myself and trying to figure out what the hell I am. I'll never get those years back.

[Staceygurl]

The reaction was not good. The first time I was actually caught and confronted I was not caught enfemme. My ex girlfriend found some of my stash. It all started the night before. It was the first time I had actually gone out as a girl, kindof. I made some lame excuse that I needed to go out to meet a friend. That was a lie. It was a Sunday night and I went to a club that catered to people who had fetishes. I took one her bras, panties, pantyhose, a skirt, a pair of her shoes and a bodysuit top that I bought. I changed in the car but was not wearing any makeup. Wow, looking back I must have looked ridiculous. After getting home very late I crawled into bed, woke up the next morning to go to work. When I came home she had all the stuff I took and what she found of mine and left it out on the coffee table for me to see. She wasn't home so I knew a blowup was about to happen. Not a half hour later she came in with a facial expression that could frieghten Godzilla. We started to talk but that turned into crying, mostly by me, with a lot of "I don't know" answers to her questions. Needless to say our relationship was never the same and ended a short time thereafter.

[BillieJoe]

My mother caught me in a questioning look of horror. She asked me what I was wearing a skirt for.
My father was extremely embarrassed but thought he had to confront me after my mother told him.
The next morning at breakfast my mother and sister both had two of the biggest smirks on their faces that you ever did see....

[Rita D]

My mother who put makeup on me and dressed me in a girl's Japanese kimono several times at age 3 or4; caught me in my room with one of her slips at age 10. She screamed at me asking what was wrong with me, and did I want her to take me to a "head doctor".

About 6 years later, when I was trying to decide what costume to wear to work at my part-time supermarket job; (We were expected to wear a costume at Halloween) My mother says: "Why don't you dress up like a girl?":eek: WHAT!!??!!

I thought: "Doesn't she remember what she wanted to do with me when it was MY idea to wear girl's clothes!?!?" I didn't follow her advice- there were one or two cute checkout girls at work who I'd been "checking out"; and there was no way I would want them to think I was anything but straight.

As for my mother's original threat- I'm proud to say that it kept me from ever even THINKING about wearing female clothes again! That's right- I don't have to think about it any more- I just DO it!

[Angie G]

I never got caught I think I wes just to fast for them.:hugs:
Angie

[FireFoxAngel]

I got grounded when I got caught! My mom caught me, literally in a closet, hiding while dressed at age 9. It wasn't as bad because of my age, but I always wonder if my mom doesn't still know that I do......??

[brittdoll]

I have never been officially caught, but I suspect my high school girlfriend may have been on to me. One Christmas she gave me a card on the front that read, "This season I know I wil find you in my Chirstmas stocking." On this inside it read, "I know how much you like to wear my clothes".

I did wear a few of her more androgynous sweaters around my college campus. One of them even had buttons on the left so it was pretty hard to hide unless it was buttoned all the way up. She knew I wore this and I also wore one of her belts on a regular basis.

That was as far as it went and she knew I wore those items.

[Jessica Who]

I got caught by my mother when I was 12. She was NOT pleased. That was the day I learned just how worthless I really was (or believed I was) and began to hate myself. It was the beginning of my dark years, that lasted until just a few years ago.

I wrote about my experience getting busted in depth here (http://www.mycdlife.com/2009/04/getting-busted-and-learning-to-hate-myself).

As traumatic as that was in my life, I've communicated with others who's getting caught stories were far, far worse. It's such a waste - to treat us like this. I might have been so much more successful in life had I not spent most of it hating myself and trying to figure out what the hell I am. I'll never get those years back.

It is a waste, you're so right. People normally despise what the don't understand, and therefore fear. Had I been caught by someone like my father it probably would've been near deadly for me, but luckily I hid it well.

I am very happy that you are where you are now, and have moved past that incident. Kudos , Gabi :)

[RachelDenise]

About age 13 or 14, Mom found my stash and left a note to get rid of the girl things. I remember the phrase "Halloween is over" vividly. I just found a better hiding place. Never heard anything again. I have always wished for an understanding mother to help me and am envious of those who had a mother like that.

[Claire Cook]

My mother know I would get into her closet (and her clothes) but could never bring herself to talk to me about it. She never "caught" me outright.

There is something about this thread that bothers me. "Being caught" speaks to the guilt we probably all felt at first, and many of us still do. There is an alternative to "being caught": being proud to say "Hey, I wear women's clothes". (I mean my clothes! To quote Lacey Leigh: "They are my clothes -- no woman has ever worn them" -- well, unless I got them in a secondhand store, or lent them to somebody ...)

I would much rather tell people that I crossdress than worry about them "catching me".

[Kimmy55]

My mother found a pair of her yellow satin front panties and a white bra betwwen the matress and box springs of my bed when I was 13.She never said anything then a few days later she bought me some fish net panties and matching tops,in yellow,blue and pink.When i was older i got up to use the bathroom one nite while dressed in a red lace bra and matching panties.As I was stepping out of the bathroom she came out into the hallway.She never said a word.

[Crystal Alberta]

I was never actually caught dressed, but when I was 20 or 21, my mom did stumble upon a couple of items (panties and nylons) that I had carelessly left out. She responded by becoming very quiet. I could see that something was troubling her, but I didn't know just what until I asked her. We had a short talk, and then the next morning she told me that she had spent the night thinking, and that although she didn't understand or approve, she did still love me, and always would. She brought up the subject once more, not long afterwards, but I wasn't ready to talk about it in any detail. We've never mentioned it since.

I still don't think she ever realized the extent of my dressing, seeing it as more of a simple clothing fetish. I think she would be just as shocked now to find that I dress completely, with wig, makeup, shoes, etc.

Crystal

[victoriamwilliams1]

I got spanked! I was about 9 years old and feel a sleep dressed. Same thing happend the 2 and 3rd time.

[Phyliss Hdson]

Never really happened to me. I think my mother had suppitions, but never found any of my stuff.

A few years after I was married, 26yrs ago, I knew I would not be able to hide it from her any longer. So I took a deep breath got dressed up, no make up, and let her walkin on me when she came home for lunch. Her reaction was a lot calmer than I anticipated. She decided, after some descussion, that it was okay around the house.

About four years ago my oldest daughter, Then 20, walked in the door, it was about lunch time so at first thought it was my wife coming home for lunch as she sometimes does, so I made no attempt to stop what I was doing.. There I was short pleated skirt, satin top, 4 inch heels, make up the whole nine yards. My daughter looked at me and said " Nice outfit Dad". and went to her room. I went to mine and changed.

[Dekka]

I was wearing (very short) cut-off jeans and black sandals (ah, the time when I could wear normal sizes), 3 inches if memory serves, and my mother opened the door without knocking.

Her jaw almost dropped to the floor. But my reaction was a heaven send: I yelled something like "CAN'T I CROSSDRESS WITHOUT SOMEBODY INTERRUPT ME?!?!?!?!". I was 16. To this day she still don't understand exactly why I do this. But at least she knocks before opening the door... my father is another story...=-|

(he have NO idea about this)

[stephaniedoes]

i just so happen to be trying on lingerie when my mother walked in, omg, she screamed and i had not a thought in my head, she closed the door and that is all that ever came of it.things like this just arent suppose to happen. if my son had an issue like mine id go all the way in support. i hope he knows it...

[Joni Marie Cruz]

...I dress completely, with wig, makeup, shoes, etc.Crystal

And a pretty damn nice job of it, too.

Hugs...Joni Mari

[crossdrezzer1]

Thanks all for the awsome stories,,, it was nice to hear about others and what reactions,,its a shocker I bet but still parents should be supportive and wifes should be thankfull I would think..

[Elly E]

I didn't get caught officially until I was actually staying with my mom for a short time in between houses, my sister walked in on me (LEARN TO KNOCK!!! >=() and noticed I was in all out girl-mode.

She started doing the whole "Uhhh, ummm, huuuuh, ummmm, errrr" thing, and then ran and told my mother.

My mother had only one thing to say to her, and to everyone around.

"I knew it."

Since then its just been one of those things we don't talk about =P I think she tolerates it more than accepts it. But at least she didn't make a huge scene about it.

[joannemarie barker]

i have never really been caught.i went through several phases in my teens where i half heartedly tried to get caught but the only on that ever did was my twin brother.it wasn't a great shock to him because at a young age we both raided my sisters room for dress ups together.he grew out of it,i grew into it.i was hurt though when he walked in and caught me in a tartan mini skirt and vest top and looked at me disgustedly and said i looked ridiculous :(

[MelissaSue]

While living at home during college, after dressing in private for many years, I fully dressed one day (very light makeup), wearing my mom's lingerie and an olive dress with a pleated skirt. I loved that dress. Knowing that I had a few hours to myself, I kicked off my shoes and pulled my legs under me as I read a magazine on the couch. Eventually, I fell asleep. My mom and brother arrived home sometime later and walked into the living room. When my mom awakened me and asked what was going on, I made up some lame excuse about a strange dream, trying to give the impression that I was "sleep dressing." She simply asked me to take everything off. I've never discussed that incident with her in the years since "being discovered." I also never found that dress in her closet again.

My brother and I haven't discussed the episode either. A year or two later, however, he found a pile of lingerie that I had left on the kitchen counter in an apartment that we shared. Again, my excuse about finding it mixed in with some laundry that I had brought back from the laundromat was seemingly accepted, with no subsequent discussion.

During my married life, my wife has found around the house (on separate occasions) a nightgown, panties, a wig bag and long, black hairs. Each time, I've offered explanations, distancing myself from their presence. She seemed to have accepted those explanations.

Careless? Absolutely. Intentionally so? I have thought about that. Sometimes, I do wonder who I am really kidding...

[Carly D.]

I'm in the same boat as you there with the never been directly caught.. not that I know of.. however my stash of my moms panties were found and my (her) pantyhose were found a couple of times.. I have to agree with you in the feeling that I can't be that clever with my hiding my cross dressing.. my clothes are all hidden except for a very small amount.. however small the amount it is more than enough to be asked the "are these your clothes" question.. and the answer would be... I don't know how those got there.. then I'm twelve all over again..

[Lisa Golightly]

A smack round the head... Well that worked didn't it.

[Penelope Marie]

My daughter knows about my desires as i have told her. Her reply was i only need one mother. My brother caught me years ago , he came for a visit and i was on the phone with a friend. i had on a long white satin gown, bra stuffed with my home made forms. i must have looked like a deer in the head lights of an on comming car. He did knock however, when i did not answer he opend the door lo and behold there i was. his mouth dropped but i have heard nothing of it since. i suppose they all think i have quit dressing. no i ave not and hae no desire to , in fact, i desire to take it as far as time will allow me to.

[Jeanna]

Caught by my mother,,nuff said!

[PetiteDuality]

I'm copying this from another post where I participated, but I think this is relevant to this one. This is very traumatic for me.

1) First time ever (sort of): I was about 7. I was in my mother's closet (locked), trying on her panties and bra. She knocked the door, I undressed as quick as I could but failed to properly put everything back into the drawers. I only got a weird look, nothing else was mentioned. I guess that she was not sure if I was wearing it or if I was just goofing around with her stuff. My heat was beating fast as ever.

2) The real first time: I was about 14. My mother missed one nice lycra short pants that I took (I loved this pieces, zebra patterned. I miss the 80's). She started looking for it, and found a little bag I had in my room with girls clothes. She asked me to talk about it with my dad, but I never had the nerves. They took me to the shrink, went 2 or 3 times. We never talked directly about the issue, but he was kind of pushing me to say it first. After the few sessions, I told my parents I didn't want to go anymore because it was not necessary. They never mentioned anything about it until once (grown up, married and everything) were my mother started kind of telling the story as a something funny to remember. I gave her the coldest look ever, and my father also looked at her seriously and she stopped. If she ever mentions, I'm afraid that my wife could connect dots if she suspects something too. I guess that my mother now understands that it's not supposed to be ever mentioned again. I even think that my relationship with her is a bit evasive since then.

3) The scariest one: my wife went to work, kids were going to spend the day at their grandmas. My wife returned earlier than expected. I was supposed to be at work. Since the door was locked, she had to wait until I opened. I pretended to be sleeping (that's why it took me so long to open the door) because I returned home from work because I was sick (a lie, of course). One of her tops was in the floor. She asked me kind of joking "did you wear it", I said "no, I have a headache and I was looking for something to put some ice in". She never mentioned it again. I think that I really had fever, but after the scary moment!.

4) The other time: I was at my parent's for lunch in a weekday (already married an living at my own place). My sister still lived there. When she left (or that is waht I thought), I went to her room to look for something to wear. She went back to her room and found me looking for something at her closet. She said "May I help you?", and I said I was looking for a hair comb. She gave me a weird look, but never mentioned anything else.

I think it was all the times I've been caught or close to be caught in 30 years of crossdressing. I learned not to be fooling around with other people's clothes.

[joannemarie barker]

I can't imagine you looking anything other than a girl lisa :)

[APRIL0401]

I had the day off and the house to myself and got all dressed up. My girlfriend's 22 year old daughter came over to use the printer. She caught me wearing a skirt, blouse, heels, wig, and full makeup. It totally freaked her out and I asked her please not to tell anyone, especially my two sons. Totally shaken she went to her mother's place of work and had to tell her. She grew up without a father and I was just like a dad to her. I called her (she didn't answer) and I left a message apologizing and told her that we need to talk later. She hasn't talk to me yet and her mother only speaks to me when she has to. This happened three months ago. To my knowledge her mother is the only one she told.

[Lisa Golightly]

I can't imagine you looking anything other than a girl lisa :)

Awwwwwwwww *hug* :) x

[joannemarie barker]

Aaaw hugs back Lisa hunny :) x

[cassandra2601]

I have to say I never got caught but when I was in any serious relationship (after my first love - who now knows and loves it) I always 'fessed up and thankfully it has been accepted - but I don't flaunt it!

[Frédérique]

Never got caught, never even cane close to getting caught and I'm so glad I didn't.


Welcome, metina!

I’ve never been caught, either. Well, come to think of it, I did get caught putting on my aunt’s make-up and lipstick when I was a young boy, but I’ve never been caught dressed. I don’t recall being punished for the make-up incident, though – I was just removed from the scene before my aunt got her hands on me!

[Mollyanne]

I got caught by my mom when I was 13 or so. I had just started to roll up a stocking on my leg when she came home early from work. Talk about terrified!!! She said to me take that off and we have to talk. All I can remember from the talk is why???? Actually she was very understanding and said to me that if I wanted to do this then I had to have my own lingerie which she did indeed buy for me. We also had an agreement that she would call home first(like a warning)so I could become"a normal boy". Many years later she confided in me that she wanted a girl(not a boy)but she LOVED me nevertheless. She took our secret to her grave.

Mollyanne

[Girly Sara]

I got caught by my brother wearing a bra in bed when we still lived at home back in the early 90's.

My bro ran downstairs to tell our parents <GULP!> I completely denied it but how could my bro make it up? My only vivid memory once being confronted by my family was my Mum asking if i was gay? I vigorously denied the event and stated i wasn't gay.

Roll on 10 years to 2003 when Sara blossomed from the closet, i came out to my family. Ironically my bro is now my biggest supporter and even met his 'sister' for the 1st time on a night out back in 2007. My parents are accepting of me and my Mum has grown to feel comfortable enough to see pix of Sara and has said that i was the daughter she never had. How sweet? My Dad's quite old-fashioned in his outlook but has previously stated and understood that some guys have more female chromozones than others.....

Sara xxxx

[Kristen-Gaye]

Caught by my mother,,nuff said!

Is that like, 'George Costanza' caught?
K.


My older brother caught me wearing some of my sisters underwear when I was about 11. A couple of years later he caught me again wearing a bra! He just laughed at me both times but never said anything to me afterwards. He must have suspected something I would assume. He's not that stupid! He's smarter than me at least!

[Danielle Gee]

I was caught by my Sister (5 yrs older) when I was rooting thru her underwear drawers, I was about 6 or 7. She was soooooo mad!!!! She then dressed my up in her best pink frillly party dress and black patent MaryJanes. Then we went downstairs to the kitchen where Mom and Dad were drinking coffee and reading the Saturday morning paper.

I can still recall the smiles on their faces especially my Dad (who was usually a cold , unfeeling SOB). I was promptly named "Melissa" and was brought out every few weeks for years afterward. I believe to this day that my cross-dressing began at that exact moment.

I also remember one Christmas when I discovered a package under the tree from my parents. It was wrapped in pink paper w/a large white bow. I must have been around 10 at the time, and opened it with trepidation....The box contained a pair of "Little Girl" panties , pink with row after row of white ruffles covering the butt. I looked at them in consternation (secretly adoring them, but not wanting that to show). My Dad laughed and said "Santa must have made a mistake, there are no little girls in this house"

I guess I learned the lessons they taught very well.....Girls get love and acceptance, and boys are well....Just Boys!!!

Thats my story and I stickin' to it!!!

[lori m crawford]

i was in my moms girdle an hose in had jens on an penny latfoes on yes a top my one but all she did was say hows my girdle fell an are you wearing panties so i did not stan them i ask how she new she honney i have ben wareing girdles for 30 yrs i now after that she told me to wear oney thing she had an even help me to dress as a women she did not ask how long i had ben doing it all she said was you wood make a good looking girl

[Sarah-RT]

I was never caught dressing, but I had clothing found and my dad asked me.

My feelings were fear, in the sense I felt he would think I was either gay or messed up etc.

[Pattie O]

I was caught by mum in my teens but she never said much at the time.I suppose now I "almost" try to be caught out although now my SO knows(not supportive) and is keeping me in the closet.I keep thinking that may be there is a cure for my dressing but I know there isnt and it is hard to get her to accept that it is part of me.

Pattie:daydreaming::battingeyelashes:

[terry29]

I was probably 18 or so when my mom caught me in pair of her panties. I think she knew (mysteriously her underwear would disappear). She yelled and called me a fag. I slammed the door and babbled incoherently. After that,... not a word. I just stared buying my own ladies underwear. She's made veiled threats to 'out' me when we've argued, but nothing yet (fingers crossed).

[<3 Keri Lynn <3]

I screamed like a little girl cause my dad came home early. To my suprise he told me to just put it back and don't do it, admitting to me that he had done it once as a child also. Top that :p




*Hugs*Kisses*

[Ericxd2]

I've never been caught - so far:devil: - and having read your replies in the thread, I wonder why so many of us (including sincerely yours) have to keep hiding. Maybe we should all become drag queens in professional theater companies?:D

[Erica K.]

My mother found my stash a few times, caught me dressed even more (when I was super young). Hell, she still catches me and we don't even live together! Yesterday we had lunch & I didn't do the best job removing my eye liner. She asked why my eyes were dark like I had make up on. I said I only got 3 hours of sleep, which was true. She either know full well what's going on or is really good at denying reality. I plan to tell her some time between now and december. I hope it goes well...

[KandisTX]

I tried very hard for the many years to not get caught. I suppose for the first several years I was sneaky about going into my mom’s and sister’s rooms and wearing their clothing, I would do it every chance I got. Mom and Dad both worked so when I was home from school due to illness I had the full day to dress up and have fun in their clothes. I recall one day where I almost got caught by my sister, I had decided that I needed to experiment with her make-up as well as wearing her clothes. I hadn’t thought about how to remove it though, I scrubbed and scrubbed and thought I had gotten it all off, but when she got home from school she saw trace of her blue eye shadow on my eyes. She never said anything about it, but I wish she had, it would have been nice to have an ally, then again, she could have become my worst enemy as well. I have recently found her again, and have tried to make contact so I could talk to her and find out how much she was told, but alas, as of yet there has only been one reply from her to my messages.

Those first years of sneaking around became wonderful memories, but the time came when I wanted some items that were “mine” so I kept a watch on the laundry and their dressers to see what items were not worn EVER, and made my choices of some nice panties from my sister, a bra from mother, pantyhose, slip, and a body briefer from mom. I had never seen these particular items in the wash and they were always in the back of the dresser drawers so I figured they would be safe items to remove and keep as my stash. Well, I hadn’t put much thought into where I would keep them so I put them in the bottom of my pajama/underwear drawer. Mom worked for Johnson & Johnson Personal Products Division so there were always samples of items in the bathroom, so I took a sample package of Carefree Panty Shields, lightly scented for that more feminine feeling (still wear them daily now along with my panties and pantyhose), and had them stashed in the dresser drawer as well.

Mom usually did laundry and would, on occasion put our stuff away, either that or she was just a nosy person (not my real mom but technically my second cousin, her mother was my great grand-mothers sister and I was “adopted” by them for a brief period [10 years], of my life). Anyway, I had spent all day at school fantasizing about when I got home and would be able to put on my bra, panties, pantyhose, slip, and body briefer. When I got home from school, I immediately went to my room to change and when I opened my dresser, the clothing was gone. I went to see if I could find it again, sure enough it was all sitting on mom’s dresser. She never said anything to me about it, but eventually I got tired of sneaking and hiding and I wanted lingerie and feminine clothing of my own. I figured the best thing to do was to tell her, or rather allow myself to get caught with my pants down showing her panties and pantyhose.

I prepared myself as she and I were the only ones home, I went to the laundry room and took some of my sisters panties and a bra off of her stack of clean & folded laundry and snuck into her room and took a pair of pantyhose and put them all on underneath my sweat pants and sweat shirt. I went out to talk to her in the back yard and asked her some generic questions to get a feel for her mood and then we went inside. As we were walking into the house and heading upstairs, I was taking off my sweat suit and asked her if she ever wondered why I had her clothing in my dresser. She said “no”, I said “Well, this is why” and I tossed my sweats over her shoulder and stood there wearing nothing but a bra, panties and pantyhose. She of course over reacted and decided that I was sick and needed therapy and that was the end of that. Six months later I left there and moved back with my real father and mother and went back into hiding until I again decided that I wanted to have some stuff of my own. This time I would do it right, mom (my real mom) was much more understanding and open about things so this time it would be different. Once again I set myself to be caught. I knew that mom would be the first one to come home and so I went into her room and dressed myself in her bra, panties, and pantyhose underneath my bathrobe. I have very pale skin and my socks only came up to the mid calf range and my robe stopped about two inches above the knee. This means there was an area of about 5 inches of my legs exposed and the suntan pantyhose were QUITE noticeable. I heard her keys in the front door and timed my exit from her room with the moment she was in the apartment and closed the door behind her. She saw me coming out of her room and asked “What are you doing in my room”. “Nothing” I said, I can see her eyes move to my legs and she asks me with a knowing smile “What are you wearing? You have a box of your sisters bras in your closet (I was storing them there for her honest, [besides, they didn’t fit me]), and now this”. I smiled and said “No, I don’t have a box of bras, only one”, and I opened my robe exposing myself wearing her underwear. She smiled and said “Well, you know you can’t just walk around in a bra and panties, let’s find you something to wear over them.” With that, we went back into her room and she proceeded to find me something to wear over the top of the lingerie, and she gave me permission to wear her things until we could go shopping and buy me some of my own as long as I washed all of her things before I returned them. Now, she gives me lingerie and femme clothing as gifts, and she calls me her daughter as well as her son.

Kandis:love::rose2:

[pallet]

I've been caught a couple of times. TH eifrst tiema I muist ahev been about 16 years old and my younger brother (14 years old) walked in on me. he calmly looked me up and down, got what he wanted from the room and walked back out again. Nother ever said...

The second time was by my mother when I was aged 25 or so. She was shocked to say the least and asked if I was gay. I explained that I wasn't and that I just liked the feeling of being dressed.

She told me to stop or "I'll tell your father". I stopped for a week or so, but soon dressed again.

Nothing has been said since!

I really want to tell everyone, but can't (as yet) see any benefit.

Most of freinds realise I have a strong feminine side and it's often mentioned in a jokey / light hearted way.

[Panties4me]

I'm now 55 and have been underdressing/crossdressing for about 50 of those years:).The first time I was outed I would have been 5-6. Had been playing dressups with my twin sister and had been put into a pair of doll"s plastic panties. My sister took me out to the dining room to show my parents and family visitors. By the time I got there my little penis was all hard and clearly visible through the plastic. I was told very sternly to stop acting like a baby and go and take them off.
As I mentioned, I had a twin sister, who along with my mother were a source of panties and lingerie for me until I moved out of home:D. Both knew I would "borrow" their panties and lingerie and set me up to catch me out on a number of occassions. I can remember being sprung by my sister hiding behind her bedroom door, trying to cover my near naked except for her panties body, with my hands. Can't remember what was said, but nothing was done. On one other occassion she knew I was wearing her panties while in bed. The next morning she came into my bedroom and tried to pull the blankets off. They were a blue nylon pair with lace covering the entire front and were my favourites at that time. While my mother knew what my sister was up to, after my howls of screams and protests, my mother called her off.

I had a job after school and each Wednesday afternoon after sport I would go to a family friends place to change for work. Now, as luck would have it, thay had a daughter who was about 12 months younger than I. I'm sure my mother told our family friend that I liked wearing panties, and I think they were happy to oblige. Instead of telling me to change in their son's room, each week I would change in the daughter's bedroom. Boy, did she have some nice panties:daydreaming:.On most occassions I would borrow at least one pair, wank in them durring the week, wash them, and return them the next week. I sure used to get some wierd looks from their daughter.

Moving on about ten years I revelled my panty fetish to my wife. Although not repulsed, she is not 100% supportive either and did not know that I took my dressing even further. Until, that is, after I had been away for a few days, she produced one of my teddies that I had carelessly left on the floor. She asked me was I having an affair and I replied, "no it's mine". She said she didn't know what was worse :Angry3:. Anyway, that was a few years ago now, and after packing panties only to take away on a holiday a little while ago, I told her I was going to wear panties 24/7. I've rambled on a bit, but that is only a small part of my crossdressing experience and being caught, but that will do for now.
Panties4me.

[serina lopez]

pretty much like everyone else, the panties were in question. i said my friends got them to use as something to slingshot with, playing around... problem is, they were HER panties.....

[Veronica Nowakowski]

I've never been caught. I have shown people, but I've never been caught.

[Kerigirl2009]

I was about 17 when I came home to my mom and stepdad standing in my room and my mom holding panties and a bra in her hand. she asked what they where (actually the panties where hers and the bra was my sisters) I said the first thing that came to mind. I told her they where my girlfriends and she said well I dont appreciate that kind of thing in my house. But anyways she bought it.
Two years later not so easy. She came home from work early and I was sleeping in one of her negligee and I had about 5 dresses hanging in my closet
She came into my room and told me to get up thats when she noticed her dresses in my closet, she stopped took them back to her room, Luckily cuz she hadn't seen that I was adorned in her sexy negligee. But I jumped up changed quickly and went down stairs where my mother asked me straight out if I enjoyed wearing womens clothes. Moment of truth- I lied. I told her I was just playing around. She never said another word about it to me. I wish I would have told her the truth. She probably would have taken me shopping.
Now it can never be as she passed away never telling anyone.

[tanya1976]

Panic! Pure and simple!

[Christina89]

i was never caught while wearing women's clothing, but one day my mother was looking for a movie in my room and she found a little box with two pairs of panties and a bra in it. she later asked me y there were in there and i said "i don't know" and she asked if i wore them and i said no. i wish that now i could go back in time and tell my mother the truth. i would tell her now but we both r going thru a tough time. my grandfather(her father) is always in and out of the hospital so i think that now isn't the best time to tell her that i crossdress.

[Kara Connor]

I sometimes think that closet CDs like me would make great spies. Even though my wife knows and tolerates, she doesn't want to see me dressed so I am meticulous about leaving no trace, and putting everything back exactly as it was. Having said that, being a transvestite spy wouldn't exactly be a low key, non-attention drawing sort of thing :-)

[MichelleP]

The first time my mother caught me in my aunt's clothes I was mortified but, she just asked me to put them back where I found them. I think she was worried that my aunt would find something amiss and didn't really worry about my dressing. My mom was really understanding.

Michelle

[markinhose]

made the big mistake of wearing my moms pantyhose under a pair of ripped jeans. i didnt even notice but my mom and sister did. right away my mom thought i was gay and she made me go through my dresser and closet with her making sure i didnt have anything else of hers or my sisters. if they could only see my closet and dresser now.

[Gerard]

I sometimes think that closet CDs like me would make great spies. Even though my wife knows and tolerates, she doesn't want to see me dressed so I am meticulous about leaving no trace, and putting everything back exactly as it was. Having said that, being a transvestite spy wouldn't exactly be a low key, non-attention drawing sort of thing :-)

Heheheheheh. I think some of us would indeed be very good at hiding things and such. :-P

I've never been really caught, but I do think at least my mother suspects something but isn't talking about it. Just because I could never keep anything else a secret from her, like if she had eyes in the back of her head (she's a teacher).

[Schatten Lupus]

I've only been caught with a little makeup on, and my excuse was either it was just dark circles around my eyes for being tired, or the lighting.

[tinagirlcd]

i was trying on my moms pantyhose and she walked in on me, she was unset and told me to take them off.

[Cathytg]

Oh, my goodness! My first time being caught I was wandering an outdoor mall late at night and found out the hard way that the mall was being watched by a cop on the roof because they were expecting a robbery. Lucky me! The whole thing involved a mug shot and getting picked up at the station by my Dad (I was 22 at the time). The really amazing thing is that I can still go out at my tender age of 64.

I guess life is largely a matter of timing.

Oh, BTW, neither of my parents ever mentioned it again. Looking back, I wish they had.

[Ashley_in_Texas]

Mom found some of my clothes... that sucked.
Dad woke me up one morning by yanking off my blanket, and saw me in black tights with white polka dots... that sucked
Got caught half dressed while I was on my apartment patio (that faced the woods) by a guy cutting through the grass to catch a bus... that sucked
Wife nearly caught me about a dozen times, before I told her what I do... thats cool

[GirlyGirl26]

I got caught when the girl next door came over. No one was home, she comes over looking for my sister walks in and sees me in a dress. Shocked to say the least. Well good thing is she did not tell my parents but she told all the kids on the street. Yea I was made fun of. A lot of it stoped when they started to move away.

[Jenniferpl]

Never really been caught but I think my mother must have suspected something because I kept wearing her bras.

[Jaclyn NM]

My mom was very angry when she caught me wearing her stockings and high heels. But that only detered me for a few weeks, and then I was right back at it, only more carefully. And now I wear stockings and high heels almost every day!

[ifitfeelsgood]

Got caught when I was 8 or 9. Fully dressed, pantyhose, dress and laying under the blankets. Was yelled at and asked if I needed to see a doctor. Really helped me with my issue.
Stashes were found by family members a few more times, left out and nothing was said.
Told my wife before we were married. I recommend that to all. She fully supports, but one of the kids almost caught me the other night, now I have to go through hiding it all over again.

[TxCassie]

I got caught a couple of times, first when I was around 6 or 7, probably closer to 7. I was wearing my sister's First Communion veil, for all things...LOL

Mom caught me when she came inside from hanging the clothes out on the line, (it was the mid-60s)... She was not happy, to say the least, was very stern in telling me to take the veil off now, unless I wanted to be a sissyboy. So that was that. A couple of years later, when I was 8 or 9, she caught me wearing the veil again, this time, it was more of a screaming rant, asking me if I wanted to be a girlyboy... just let her know. She called me that for the rest of the afternoon till i started screaming myself.

I'm sure she told my dad, but he never said a word. I think my dad knew I was different or going to be different and just let it ride and see how things turned out.

I was never a slim boy, but what they used to call husky, so I never really wore my sister's things so as I grew, especially as I hit puberty, the muscular frame really took hold. So, I stopped dressing, but would always pretend I was wearing a skirt during bath time using my towel in all sort of verisons of dresses.

Cassie

[marisa]

i got caught dressed up only once. that was not my idea of a good time. i was about 8yrs old i think. had on a matching top and skirt that mom made, one of her bra's and panties, panty hose and a pair of her high heels. i guess i was make'n to much noise via the creekie floor. dad was the first one through the door with mom hot on his heels. i got the what the f%%k reation from both of them, and demanded to take everything off. that was it untill mom decided to virbaly go at me. you know the whole, are you some kind of little pervert type coments. then she asked me if i wanted her to start buy'n girls clothes for me. i wanted to say yes but i opted for no. to this day i really do wonder what would have happened if i had said yes. but i don't have the you know whats to ask.