At what point does it cross "The Line"?

[danam]

So I'm watching a youtube video of an attractive young woman seductively toying with a banana (nothing vulgar, just kissing and such), thinking, "This is really hot!" And then I think, maybe I should make a video like that while dressed as Dana. And then I think, "Whoa, wait a minute. I'm a straight GM who likes to CD. Making a video seductively toying with a banana crosses the line."

Or does it? I am attracted to watching a woman act seductively. So I think it would be fun to dress as a woman and pretend to do that. The banana thing was really hot (and clean, too).

What is "the line"?

[MiraM]

The line is what you feel comfortable doing.

[Gypsy Sam]

So I'm watching a youtube video of an attractive young woman seductively toying with a banana (nothing vulgar, just kissing and such), thinking, "This is really hot!" And then I think, maybe I should make a video like that while dressed as Dana. And then I think, "Whoa, wait a minute. I'm a straight GM who likes to CD. Making a video seductively toying with a banana crosses the line."

Or does it? I am attracted to watching a woman act seductively. So I think it would be fun to dress as a woman and pretend to do that. The banana thing was really hot (and clean, too).

What is "the line"?

What was that you tube video address ?
Curiosity is far better than the dissappointment of the actuality .

[Miranda09]

There is no line except the one you impose on yourself. Making a video role playing can be fun, harmless, and a way to express your fem side. How far you go with it is up to you.

[Joni Marie Cruz]

Whatever my wife says it is, I guess. Usually after I stepped over it.

Hugs...Joni Mari

[Melissa Rose]

The line is wherever you decide to draw it, and it may move over time. Making a video may be a lot of fun. Who doesn't want to be a star (or a video vixen)? :)

One loose definition of crossing the line may be any action that knowingly and intentionally causes harm or pain to another person including yourself.

[Huntress]

Stay away from the line(s). Terrible things happen there.:eek:
Go near the edge. Edgy is good. Plus, you'll see more.:D

Huntress

[gennee]

I crossed the line the first time I put on a skirt.

Gennee

:)

[Olivia]

"Line?" There in no line. We don't have to have a line. We don't need no stinkin' line!
O

[PetiteDuality]

The line is crosses when you post a picture or video in Internet and you will probably regret it later. Remember that deleting a picture or video posted in Internet does not mean that it disappeared. Somebody could have downloaded it.

[MissConstrued]

Well, if the banana crosses your personal boundary...

...you could substitute a taco?

[Renee Demarea]

It depends if you like bananas,if you do there is no line,just live it........:)

[Marisa_M]

The line is what you feel comfortable doing.

I agree with Alicia Marie. Each one of us draw our own line and I think the limit is when you don't feel comfortable doing what you do.

So...why not play with bananas if we like and enjoy it?:love:

[Ms Mira]

I don't think there's really much of a path, or a line, in life. It's more like we're in giant fields where we can wander in any direction aimlessly.

You're already dressing, which isn't typical hetero-male behavior, so why not just seduce that banana if you want to? It's not a much more advanced scenario.

[danam]

Well, if the banana crosses your personal boundary...

...you could substitute a taco?

Wow! You are sassy! :D

I also like the comment that curiosity is better than actuality. Very true in so many ways.

Thank you all for the comments. It is nice to know that it is not that big a deal...given that I already dress up. And it is just a video. I guess the bigger issue now is whether or not to make it public, because getting caught doing something like that would be embarrassing to say the least. Even more so than dressing! :o

I tried to get the URL but youtube is really slow now (5PM Central). I found it originally by doing a youtube search on "Girl Eating Banana".

[Deborah Jane]

The line is wherever you put it

You don't cross it, you just move it to wherever you're comfortable at any given time. :)

BTW, after bananas i hear cucumbers is the next step :heehee:

[Deidra Cowen]

The line is anything that if someone from your family, work, etc saw it would it get ya in big trouble. Thats the rule I go by. So I do some lingerie pics, then all my silly attention seeking pose pics and clubbing pics and put them on the net. But nothing really close to being X rated.

Nothing my kids would see and then be horrified by. Plus my lingerie pics on flicker are hidden as adult friend only files.

If I ever got caught at work and they looked over my pics...nothing there that would get me in any more trouble than just being a CD to begin with.

[Jacqui]

If you make the video and upon watching it, you find the banana is appeeling,
you have probably crossed the line.

[Christina Horton]

hears some food for thought banana banana banana !

Think of this. The line Is where you draw it BUT , think about the men out there that will mast&@te to your vid. Does the thought bother you or are you fine with men going to there happy place "because" of you. Can you "handel that?

If your fine with it I see no reason you should not do it.

Just food for thought. Banana!

[Sally24]

You might try the whole ice cream cone thing, less phalic but still suggestive.

[trannie T]

To paraphrase Freud, Sometimes a banana is just a banana.

[Sammy777]

Well, if the banana crosses your personal boundary...

...you could substitute a taco?

:lol2:

[dawnmarrie1961]

That would depend on who's watching the video and weather or not they have already had their daily allotment of fruits and veggies.

[kellycan27]

Wow! You are sassy! :D

I also like the comment that curiosity is better than actuality. Very true in so many ways.

I found it originally by doing a youtube search on "Girl Eating Banana".

Don't know how someone could just out right say that curiosity is better than actuality, unless of course they speak from experience??? I was going to ask why you would you would search "girl eating banana" just out of the blue, but on second thought... whatever works for ya. :heehee:

Kelly


hears some food for thought banana banana banana !

Think of this. The line Is where you draw it BUT , think about the men out there that will mast&@te to your vid. Does the thought bother you or are you fine with men going to there happy place "because" of you. Can you "handel that?

If your fine with it I see no reason you should not do it.

Just food for thought. Banana!

With all the porn available on the internet a guy would have to setting his sights pretty dang low to do that to a vid of a girl eating a banana. Unless he has a fruit fetish... wouldn't you think?

[Christina Horton]

With all the porn available on the internet a guy would have to setting his sights pretty dang low to do that to a vid of a girl eating a banana. Unless he has a fruit fetish... wouldn't you think?

You think porn is all they look for ok. I have 5 words fir you. Two girls and a cup! U tube is full if crazy shit and it may not look bad if someone looks on your puter to see what sights your going to. People can look any where to find anything. I just bring that cup vid cuz I heard it is so bad. But there are some people who get off on it and I just want her to know what she might see if she does it that's all.

Oh don't watch that vid if you have a soft tummy.

[kellycan27]

You think porn is all they look for ok. I have 5 words fir you. Two girls and a cup! U tube is full if crazy shit and it may not look bad if someone looks on your puter to see what sights your going to. People can look any where to find anything. I just bring that cup vid cuz I heard it is so bad. But there are some people who get off on it and I just want her to know what she might see if she does it that's all.

Oh don't watch that vid if you have a soft tummy.

You figure that someone might post a vid of themselves doing the deed to her banana vid? I find that highly unlikely... See what? What is she going to see? She saw the vid of the girl and if she does post one, she's probably doing it for the same reasons as the the original, so I am sure that she is well aware that it may affect some, just as the original had intended. Is her intention in posting just to innocently show someone enjoying a banana, or is her intention the same as the original? She said it was seductive,suggestive and hot.. She may even be disappointed if if her video doesn't achieve the desired effect. re-read her OP.

[Sammy777]

You think porn is all they look for ok. I have 5 words fir you.

Well I've got only four. Yes they certainly do!

For everyone that makes a video about a banana, 2 girls and a cup or seven virgins a mule there are 500 willing ready and able to watch it and most will and do go to their "happy place".

If porn wasn't so rampant then why are like 1/2 of the websites on world wide weird in same way related to porn which is a 14 billion dollar a year industry.

All of that is on top off the 7,384,461 "soft core" videos of teen girls to grandmas doing anything and everything under the sun that can be summed up in a few keywords.

Why do it?
Why not, seems everybody else is these days.
Just don't do it because someone else did.
And don't think that 6572 copies of it aren't going to be on stranger's hard drives for years to come or what they are thinking about it and you when they are viewing it.

What to deep throat a banana or a tube of go-gurt?
Go right ahead but remember - nothing ever really goes away on the internet. :D

[Kassina]

You think porn is all they look for ok. I have 5 words fir you. Two girls and a cup!

I remember watching that! I took a swig of beer at the crucial moment so I just thought they were eating cream.

And yes, people will get off to anything. I've seen videos of women smoking seductively or peeing in a kettle. Fetishes are as varied as the people who have them.

[danam]

Okay, okay. We're digressing. But I'd like to make a friendly response to the topic:

I don't like porn. Too overt. I like using my imagination. I love watching women do normal things and then using my imagination to fill in the rest. To me, porn skips the imagination portion. Not as fun.

I don't consider the banana thing a fetish. It's a turn-on because it's suggestive, and my mind can fill in the rest, and the combination of the two is wonderful. As odd as it may sound, watching a woman do the deed for real (ie porn) is not that thrilling to me.

Oh, to clarify my interpretation of the comment "curiousity is better than the disappointment of reality": When something you've dreamed about forever finally becomes a reality, sometimes the reality doesn't quite live up to the dream. Happens a lot in life, in a variety of different experiences.

[Samantha Girl]

I agree with those who've said the line is whatever you're comfortable with ;)

Speaking from personal experience making videos is a lot of fun, it's like a performance :) I've made many myself and they are a bit more risque than bananas! :battingeyelashes:

[Hope]

What is "the line"?

What line?

The line where you are gay? No such line.

The line where you make yourself uncomfortable? That one will change from time to time, from situation to situation, but you decide.

[Misty is Kindafem]

Personally I've crossed the line when I start to gag.

...and a banana ain't gonna do it honey ;-)

-Misty

[Lori Robins]

I think it is a big decision you are making. They are lots of questions to ask before you even start like, what size banana? We have ones in oz that have had one end dipped in red wax, so if you use one of them would that mean a more a B&D or S&M slant? Is it addictive, could you stop at just one banana?What if you did move onto cucumbers, could you handle that? There are just too many questions to ask!!!!!
Or you could just go stuff it I will do it!!!
Use a string instead of a line then you can move it wherever you want :devil:

[luvSophia]

Lines? We have lines? I think we're all drawing some what outside of the lines here.

But seriously, like it was mentioned earlier, sometimes the lines are laid out with string and are movable. So stop and think on occasion about how you'd react if the line got moved ten feet and now you're WAY over it. For many of us here it'd may be a "who cares" situation, for others not so okay. I'm not going to let concerns about such things prevent me from doing anything I may regret (a little) later, but I at least try to think about them.

[MissConstrued]

Why you think the Net was born?

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