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pantyhoselover
07-21-2009, 07:05 PM
OK, so I was trying on a wig for the first time. It gave me an overwhelming feminine feeling. I caught myself playing with the hair in a very feminine way. This feeling was stronger than just wearing my fem clothes. Anyone else have similar revelations?

Olivia
07-21-2009, 07:14 PM
Oh yeah.
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Laciegurl
07-21-2009, 07:29 PM
My first wig experience was complete awe. Truly a great feeling letting the soft hair fall about my shoulders. It is almost impossible to put a beautifull wig on and not fling it around playfully. Thanks for reminding me of that moment.

Barbara Dugan
07-21-2009, 07:35 PM
Oh yeah.
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yes:thumbsup:

paulaN
07-21-2009, 08:02 PM
It is still the final stage of my dressing up. And it is still fantastic when I put it on. It makes this girl all complete and hole and girly. Whooooo Hooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PetiteDuality
07-21-2009, 08:38 PM
I felt kind of hot. But with hot, I mean warm :doh:

5150 Girl
07-21-2009, 08:41 PM
Holly $#!+ !!!! I'm pretty again!!!!
You see, as a rocker, I've had long hair most of my adult life. Then Mother Nature decided to thin that out. I tryed to deny it, (hey I'm a rocer, this just can't be happening to me) and hide it with a comb over, but deep down I knew somthing had to be done.
So this Haloween I wanted to be Sarah Palin and decided to suck it up and go get a wig. I went to my local Meral Norman, and said I wanted somthing to be SP with, yet somthing I could go rock and roll with to. I couldn't belive how much better I looked, and how pretty and feminine it made me feel.

TGMarla
07-21-2009, 08:48 PM
My dear, I get that same feeling every time I put my wig on. It's the moment when the transformation really takes place. :battingeyelashes:

I always wish I really had hair like this!

sometimes_miss
07-21-2009, 08:49 PM
Until about 2 years ago, I had avoided buying a wig, maybe knowing subconsciously what it would do to me. I had long, shoulder length hair as a teen, and when dressed in girl clothes, really felt as if I were female.

The same thing happened the moment I put on the wig; it 'completed' the change. There was nothing male about my appearance at all any longer, nothing to tie me to reality, so the illusion that I'm female completely overwhelms the self concept of being male. But oddly, I don't feel like I'm any different. I guess at the deepest, innermost reaches of my mind, I 'yam what I yam'.

BTW, I now have three long wigs, and four 'to the shoulder' length ones. I even sleep in them; nothing like waking up and seeing a girl in the mirror.

Ms Mira
07-21-2009, 09:15 PM
Like most, before I had a wig I owned some clothes, but they didn't really satiate my dressing desires. What I really wanted was to look in the mirror and see the complete 'girl image', no matter if some parts of myself are unavoidably masculine. I enjoy wearing panties, stockings etc. but they are just a part of the picture, of the feeling for me.

Putting that wig on for the first time and looking in the mirror, despite my clownish makeup job, made me feel like I was in 'femme mode' for the first time. This breathtaking feeling swept across my entire body that, silly me, I didn't anticipate. Before then I sort of believed that dressing was perhaps something that was better in my mind than in reality, but putting everything on together for the first time really did feel great and made me happy for several days.

Jessica Who
07-21-2009, 09:50 PM
Yea...for me the hair makes all the difference in the world, I don't even feel complete until the wig goes on :)

joanne anderson
07-21-2009, 10:00 PM
I have to agree with all who have replied to your question, the moment you place your wig on, is, excuse the pun but the crowning glory of your femininity.:)

Joanne

Carol A
07-22-2009, 07:26 AM
I have to agree that the wig is the crown of my dressing, standing in front of a mirror with your makeup on and when you put your wig on the entire face changes to a wonderful looking women, I love it :heehee:

Marisa_M
07-22-2009, 11:39 AM
Yesssss!

Putting my wig on is the final touch I need to feel like the woman I'd love to be.:love:

Rachel05
07-22-2009, 11:57 AM
I look forward to the day

Julogden
07-22-2009, 12:25 PM
I don't remember the first time, to be honest, as it was a long time ago, back in the 1960's and it was a wig that didn't suit me, furtively done in a big rush when I had a little free time at home while my parents and younger brother were out. The wig belonged to an aunt of mine. It had been left at our house accidentally when she visited. I just HAD to try it on.

After that, the wigs I used were my own that I purchased. My first wig wasn't a good match for me, a long, dark brunette "showgirl" sort of wig that I bought in a local Frederick of Hollywood store. It sort of looked OK, but I'm a natural blond, and my first wig that really worked was the next one I bought, long and blond. That one looks fake to me now when I see my pictures from back then, but it definitely was more my style and shade. My next wig after that was the first one that was really right for my face and complexion, and that was when I had finally gotten the hang of makeup too, so that was my Eureka! moment when I put that one on after doing my makeup (see the picture on the left side of my avatar photo, circa 1978).

Even now after all these years, the moment the wig goes on is when I "arrive", so to speak.

Carol

pantyhoselover
07-22-2009, 02:53 PM
And here I was thinking that I was the only one feeling this way:battingeyelashes:.

Pantyhoselover

Jeanna
07-22-2009, 04:04 PM
I'm getting dressed right now and I just put my wig on and it's heaven:)

Teri Jean
07-22-2009, 04:22 PM
Oh yah, it is the icing on the cake. Up to that point everything feels so good but when the wig goes on,WOW. There would be one draw back in that if some of us had hair it would be different. lol Feel the glow.

Huggs Teri

tricia_uktv
07-22-2009, 04:55 PM
The wig is the defining part of our armoury without doubt. But then I've got a bald patch without it!

Coleen
07-22-2009, 05:05 PM
I've never tried but am now inspired to get one - I'm currently experimenting with make up so this sounds like the next stage.

Sasha Anne Meadows
07-22-2009, 05:09 PM
My wife made it clear to me that I could not be in girl mode without a wig (my boi hair didn't work). Now I am never without one.

charlie
07-22-2009, 07:53 PM
The first time that I pulled on my wig, I could not believe that there was this woman staring back at me. The wig just makes a big difference. It also makes it harder to eat, drink, see and keep hair off your face!

Sarah-RT
07-22-2009, 08:14 PM
Ill hopefully have an answer for you in the following week :D first wig.

Ashley PS
07-22-2009, 08:18 PM
Wow, I've never owned or tried on a wig, but after reading y'alls replies, I think I may be in the market for one!

Frédérique
07-22-2009, 11:26 PM
OK, so I was trying on a wig for the first time. It gave me an overwhelming feminine feeling. I caught myself playing with the hair in a very feminine way. This feeling was stronger than just wearing my fem clothes. Anyone else have similar revelations?

The feeling of putting a wig on for the first time was exhilarating! I remember getting my first one – usually I delay pleasure, but I put it on immediately and looked in the mirror. I expected to look hideous, but it was OK – a new beginning. Beforehand I was thinking “what am I doing?” or “what am I getting myself into?,” but, after I put on the wig I felt wonderful. I suddenly knew who I was (a transvestite), what I was going to do (go all the way), and the realization that I’ll never, ever go back to what I was before…

Deborah Jane
07-23-2009, 03:09 AM
The first time i put my wig on was the first time i saw my true self self :daydreaming::)

The same applies now, once my wig goes on, i come to life, i just wish i never had to remove it :daydreaming:

Susan Dee
07-23-2009, 10:59 AM
My first wig experience was complete awe. Truly a great feeling letting the soft hair fall about my shoulders. It is almost impossible to put a beautifull wig on and not fling it around playfully. Thanks for reminding me of that moment.

and me !

Susan :)

Stephanie Heplby
07-23-2009, 12:15 PM
Hair is a strong gender marker, so it is not too surprising how wigs tend to make us feel as though the transformation is complete. I have nearly cried in the past, seeing myself complete with wig.

As some other folks have mentioned, though, I once had very long hair (well below my shoulders). It tended to be beautifully wavy (nowhere near Peter Frampton) with tinges of auburnish here and there. Like others, I cut it when the bald spot became too obvious to ignore.

I know that some TS people include hair replacement therapy, so that the hair they have will be their own. Knowing how much I loved my long hair, my wife has talked to me about this, as well.

Anyone taken steps to get their own hair back?

MelanieCA
07-24-2009, 02:36 AM
I don't have a wig yet, but I know exactly what I want mine to look like. Getting excited just thinking about it.

Small problem is that I picture the kind of hair I would have very differently than how my wife does. Maybe I'll just have to get two. :)

Alexandria9919
07-24-2009, 03:18 AM
I remeber when I was a teen I had beautiful long curly hair. I am bald mostly now:sad:
I hated that hair when I was younger my rednecks uncles used to always tell me I would make a pretty girl. At the time I was confused about myself. I knew I like wearing girl clothes but I thought I was a freak:eek: so it used to really bother me.
I look back now at my pictures and I would have made a pretty girl. :doh:
Now I wish I hadnt been so obsessed with thinking I was a freak and really worked on myself then to become more fem. it sure would have saved me from a lot of turmoil I had over this in my life.
I would die to look like that again:daydreaming:
Anyways I am babbling on. I love the feel of wearing a wig but just thinking about the hair I had back then makes me sad:sad:

Lilith Moon
07-24-2009, 04:00 AM
Holly $#!+ !!!! I'm pretty again!!!!
You see, as a rocker, I've had long hair most of my adult life. Then Mother Nature decided to thin that out. I tryed to deny it, (hey I'm a rocer, this just can't be happening to me) and hide it with a comb over, but deep down I knew somthing had to be done.


Same here...in my 30s I had luxurious waist length hair...my own. This was my hippy/rocker thing, although deep down it was something else :daydreaming: I was quite closeted in those days and rarely made use of this great asset. Then in my 40s realized something was wrong when I spotted myself (in guy mode) on local TV with an obvious bald patch. Eeek :eek: ....At that time I was working my way out of the closet and had had been out&about several times en-femme like that without even knowing. After several years of comb-overs, comb-ups, comb backs when dressing, I conceded and bought my first wig....wow ! Apart from looking pretty, I felt like I had entered a time warp and was 30 again.

But the thrill of that first wig never goes away completely...this year I bought a longer and better quality wig and got that WOW! feeling all over again.

My own hair is still down to my shoulders, but graying and thinning with a monks tonsure effect...I guess I've avoided barbers shops for most of my life so I might as well continue now...anyway, most folk wouldn't recognize me with short hair in guy or girl mode :heehee:

Chris100
07-24-2009, 04:01 AM
Ah!

If only I could try a wig - I'm certain it would be a wonderful experience for me!

:daydreaming:

:doll:

Chris

PetiteDuality
07-24-2009, 07:12 PM
To be honest, I was disappointed. I expected to see a girl and all I could see was a guy with a 70's rocker style. Maybe it was the wrong wig.

Once in a transformation service I tried a different wig. I t was much better, but made me look older. I loved it anyways.

Penelope Marie
07-24-2009, 07:23 PM
I have owned two wigs, the first time i placed it on my head i was over joyed. i felt complete while i wore that wig. like a kid in a toy store so to speak. I now have grown my hair out and it is about to my sholders. i keep it pulled back in a pony tail. Wigs are indeed nice but i would much rather grow my own hair out. there may be a time when i will need one again as that cursed male pattern baldness starts to creep up on me. i hope estrogen will stop this aweful trait.

Lynnda1951
07-24-2009, 10:00 PM
You will discover other things that will give you great pleasure. Keep exploring.


OK, so I was trying on a wig for the first time. It gave me an overwhelming feminine feeling. I caught myself playing with the hair in a very feminine way. This feeling was stronger than just wearing my fem clothes. Anyone else have similar revelations?

DianeDeBris
07-24-2009, 11:49 PM
Hi -- like 'most everybody, the wig is always the "crowning joy" for me --now, my question is this: I have several questions I want to ask somebody about wigs, best care, best ways to style, etc., but I don't want to post in the wrong thread -- would somebody advise me where the best place to post these questions is? Thanks in advance!

Hugs -- Diane D.

Vickii*
07-25-2009, 12:25 AM
I had one once and it felt so nice to wear... It was cheap too but it felt amazing. It was blonde and long and curly. I purged it one day. When halloween comes around again I'll buy another one.

Darlene8041
07-28-2009, 05:06 PM
After dressing for years, I place my wig last after perfune (Halston) and am always thrilled by the enhanced look of my lipstick, eye liner, mascara and blush. My eyes seem to become so feminine and sexy. My heart pounds at the feminine image in the mirror. It's the last and final rush before picking up my matching clutch and walkinf ou the door. Heels clicking and breast forms moving in such a feminie way. I love to present the secretary in suit appearance, my favorite look. I've had men open doors for me into office buildings.

Sarah Doepner
07-28-2009, 05:20 PM
Oh yes!

The way a wig frames the face makes all the other preparation worth while. It seems that with the addition of that final piece the whole immediately becomes much more than the sum of the parts. The first time I put my new wig on I lost my breath and almost had to hold on to the vanity to keep from falling over. It hasn't changed very much to this day. I do have much more control and can continue to pin and brush and style and check for problems with my makeup or outfit, but only after the wig is in place.

Sally2005
07-28-2009, 07:14 PM
Yes! And the other really neat part is putting your face on and with only a wig cap on, looking the the mirror and seeing a female looking back. Then putting on the wig and magic! (seems to be like that on the odd chance I get the makeup perfect).

sexysusie
07-28-2009, 08:22 PM
My first wig was a cheap one, blond and curly. I was stunned to see myself in the mirror! I, too, started to touch my hair, and move it back from my eyes, in a VERY girly way...automatically. Who is this, I thought! My second wig was much more expensive, real hair, mid-back, auburn, very lovely. I brought it home and put it on, along with some new pink capris and a colourful top...and his time, I felt as if I had discovered who I really am...inside...now, outside. This is me! I felt so cimitted, so at home. I knew that I was now on my way, truly, to being the woman that I am. It was a turning point for me.