Marissa
07-24-2009, 09:52 PM
Okay, thought I would try a quick story on my events today.. unlike Kimberly (wonderous travels) and others :D who have sooo many to tell... "love ya" :daydreaming:
For those who don't know my history, I"m divorced with a 19yr old daughter living at home in a 5 bedroom house and a black lab. First venture out was New Year's eve this year. About 3 or 4 months ago, I decided to share this side of me with my daughter, who says she sort of knew... she took it well but didn't want to see me dressed..and I fully respect that but we did have talks about fashion and our fav show "next american top model".
well she has been on vacation (what is that???? :D) for two months near Corpus Christi at her mom's. She extended her stay and then started talking about Coast Guard and living in Corpus... She's been having fun visiting.. taking drives to Corpus for nightlife, beaches and shopping..
My worries of Corpus and family is the issues/drama and drugs... she assures me, she is not foolish for all that. Only has a drink once a year or something like that.
sorry..WAKE UP!!.. its not that boring.. :eek:
With new generations, its all about texting..so that was our talk today..at least its a form of communication.. right??? :)
Anyway, she says "you know I been going to clubs in Corpus, but i didn't tell you which clubs"
so my head is spinning..
"been going to gay clubs where trannys are and they have a great show later.. i have been having fun getting to know that side of life and what its all about. Some are soooo pretty, some don't pass but still pretty.."
Wow.. my mouth dropped.. so we 'talked' more about it.
She says "it's got me curious". So i had to ask about what? "You, what you look like?"
again..wow..
I told her that I had thought her ideas and plans to move there were based on not being able to cope since I have read stories of those who had bad experiences with family and acceptance.
As the angel she is, "that will never be the reason for us" She even wanted me to move there to be near her... have to think about that one.
I gave her some insight of terms like ts, tg, cd, and tv.. and how some are not gay or reasons for doing it.. she didn't mean any insults in her terms..she just didn't realize.. but she loved how fun all were having and dancing with her 'straight' guy friend.. had to tease her about that..
She's out there again tonight, having fun..
So I had to end our conversation with "I was going to have a bubble bath and do my nails...j/k...sorta.." :D
She said that when she comes back next week, we'll talk about showing my pics to her.
Sorry, hope you got through this and can see how happy I am.. as I know now what it feels like when someone so close accepts you for who you are... and to be honest, i'm not sure who that is, but this is a part of it..
I closed our talk with a big "Thank you" to her...
Hugs,
For those who don't know my history, I"m divorced with a 19yr old daughter living at home in a 5 bedroom house and a black lab. First venture out was New Year's eve this year. About 3 or 4 months ago, I decided to share this side of me with my daughter, who says she sort of knew... she took it well but didn't want to see me dressed..and I fully respect that but we did have talks about fashion and our fav show "next american top model".
well she has been on vacation (what is that???? :D) for two months near Corpus Christi at her mom's. She extended her stay and then started talking about Coast Guard and living in Corpus... She's been having fun visiting.. taking drives to Corpus for nightlife, beaches and shopping..
My worries of Corpus and family is the issues/drama and drugs... she assures me, she is not foolish for all that. Only has a drink once a year or something like that.
sorry..WAKE UP!!.. its not that boring.. :eek:
With new generations, its all about texting..so that was our talk today..at least its a form of communication.. right??? :)
Anyway, she says "you know I been going to clubs in Corpus, but i didn't tell you which clubs"
so my head is spinning..
"been going to gay clubs where trannys are and they have a great show later.. i have been having fun getting to know that side of life and what its all about. Some are soooo pretty, some don't pass but still pretty.."
Wow.. my mouth dropped.. so we 'talked' more about it.
She says "it's got me curious". So i had to ask about what? "You, what you look like?"
again..wow..
I told her that I had thought her ideas and plans to move there were based on not being able to cope since I have read stories of those who had bad experiences with family and acceptance.
As the angel she is, "that will never be the reason for us" She even wanted me to move there to be near her... have to think about that one.
I gave her some insight of terms like ts, tg, cd, and tv.. and how some are not gay or reasons for doing it.. she didn't mean any insults in her terms..she just didn't realize.. but she loved how fun all were having and dancing with her 'straight' guy friend.. had to tease her about that..
She's out there again tonight, having fun..
So I had to end our conversation with "I was going to have a bubble bath and do my nails...j/k...sorta.." :D
She said that when she comes back next week, we'll talk about showing my pics to her.
Sorry, hope you got through this and can see how happy I am.. as I know now what it feels like when someone so close accepts you for who you are... and to be honest, i'm not sure who that is, but this is a part of it..
I closed our talk with a big "Thank you" to her...
Hugs,