Jonianne
07-28-2009, 03:01 PM
"Bev06 GG" started a wonderful thread about how being secure and confidant about who we are, makes us more attractive to others.
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=112430
I was very intriged by one of her comments in a post and wanted to start a thread about it. She said "........Maybe thats another school of thought when someone asks you why you CD. Tell them all the positive and exciting things that you get to do over and above a regular guy. Make it sound as exciting as it can be if you let go of your inhibitions. I started my talk with the Words "I am so proud of what I do and who I work for" and I said it with conviction. Maybe instead of running for cover when someone talks about your CDing its time to say much the same and make it sound like an attractive alternative lifestyle. Dont immediately assume that theyre going to be condeming of your chosen lifestyle, they may well be, but imagine if they were actually interested and you made it sound so wonderful that they wondered what they were missing out on. Enthusiasm is very catching and there is something very attractive about someone who has a very positive attitude to life........"
What positive and exciting things can we say that we can do over and above regular guys?
I think when we let go of our inhibitions we can show others that it's OK to be yourself even if it cuts across what society thinks is norm. The neatest comments I have received was someone saying, "Wow, you sure have a lot of courage to do that!"
That may inspire them to be able to try something they may feel inhibited in doing.
What other things can you think of?
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=112430
I was very intriged by one of her comments in a post and wanted to start a thread about it. She said "........Maybe thats another school of thought when someone asks you why you CD. Tell them all the positive and exciting things that you get to do over and above a regular guy. Make it sound as exciting as it can be if you let go of your inhibitions. I started my talk with the Words "I am so proud of what I do and who I work for" and I said it with conviction. Maybe instead of running for cover when someone talks about your CDing its time to say much the same and make it sound like an attractive alternative lifestyle. Dont immediately assume that theyre going to be condeming of your chosen lifestyle, they may well be, but imagine if they were actually interested and you made it sound so wonderful that they wondered what they were missing out on. Enthusiasm is very catching and there is something very attractive about someone who has a very positive attitude to life........"
What positive and exciting things can we say that we can do over and above regular guys?
I think when we let go of our inhibitions we can show others that it's OK to be yourself even if it cuts across what society thinks is norm. The neatest comments I have received was someone saying, "Wow, you sure have a lot of courage to do that!"
That may inspire them to be able to try something they may feel inhibited in doing.
What other things can you think of?