Im Worried

[katie_cd_uk]

hi all ive just signed up and im scared about being a cd because if i go out i my get attacked can anybody else give me some support to go out and face the world as a woman as you c homosexuals and other go out because we are dirrent

[Alison Anderson]

Small steps Katie, small steps. :)

I have not been out but don`t do it on your own!
Welcome, this is the best place to start. Make friends, you have already :)
and slowly I`m sure you will get there, with excitement, not terror.

Love,
Alison. :D

[katie_cd_uk]

thank you alison ur very kind i hope we can both go out soon and meet more pepole

[katie_cd_uk]

I Have found a old pic of me check my profile to c it

[obsessedwithpantyhose]

i wear suntan pantyhose over shaved legs with painted toenails out in public and no one notices,,,,
i have yet to be out in public in the daytime dressed but i have gone to the gay bar at night dressed and i had no problems...
if u look nice and dont dress to draw attention to urself i.e. mini skirts or stelleto heels,, u should be ok,,, :D

[Julie York]

hi all ive just signed up and im scared about being a cd because if i go out i my get attacked can anybody else give me some support to go out and face the world as a woman as you c homosexuals and other go out because we are dirrent

I don't understand the last part of your post katie. Who's different? Where do homosexuals come into it ?

[katie_cd_uk]

I don't understand the last part of your post katie. Who's different? Where do homosexuals come into it ?
i mean i have seen Homosexuals attacked because there not the same as other pepole and im Gay

[Julie]

Katie,

Do you live in an area where there's a gay community? Chicago has one and it's safe for TGs to be out on the street.

But if you plan to go out I'd warn against doing it alone. The only times I have had problems was when I was alone. It seems the idiots are braver when they only have to confront one person. Although the last person who made a comment to me ended up regretting it. :Punch:

[Julie York]

If you want to go out and socialise then I suppose it is a different approach to venturing out dressed up and wanting to just go out shopping or something. I would think your best bet is to see if there is a CD group in your area. If you make a friend or two then maybe you could meet up or go clubbing in drab at first.

[katie_cd_uk]

Thanks for all your help everybody im going out with my wife and il do it as a Woman I love you all for your help LOL

[Julie York]

Being gay and going out dressed up, with your wife, is an interesting angle. I'd love to know how that works.

[carolynhcd]

Julie, I have to say that I am with you on this one. A married gay waitress who owns no male clothes going out with the wife. It's like a Mobius strip!

[Julie York]

I know but it was fun reeling it in.

[Amelie]

Maybe her wife is a man. Or maybe she is one of these male lesbians that I hear of.

[Julie York]

It's all possible. I'm fascinated. I'd like to know more.






(Wiggly worm...wiggle wiggle...wiggle.)

[katie_cd_uk]

This is to all of you My wife IS A MAN hes a crossdresser aswell so we say he is my wife and i am his

[Julie York]

When you go out, does your 'wife' go out dressed?

[katie_cd_uk]

Of cause she soes we are never seen in mens cloths we love the thrill of just looking like a woman :p

[crispy]

I assume you normally dress in drab, and by 'going out' you mean in the evening, etc.

Until now when you have 'gone out' with your man-wife you have been in drab? And him the same? And now you want to make the big step for both of you to go out en femme?

good luck, but stay together and give each other that mutual support.

[FionaAlexis]

You're worried Katie? Me too!

You work as a 'waitress' and you don't own 'men's cloths'? Mmmmm? So you don't go out then? - Or are you a nudist?

Curiouser and curiouser..............ooops! can't stop....I'm late - I'm late....for a very important date.


Fiona xx

[katie_cd_uk]

i mean i dont go on to the streets im on in dress at work or in my house Get it
:)

[Sharon]

All we ask for is for there to be some semblance to honesty in the forum -- that's not to much to expect, is it? Either that, or you need to improve upon your storytelling.
This is why I charge so much as an editor. :D

[Julie York]

Of cause she soes we are never seen in mens cloths we love the thrill of just looking like a woman :p

And you are needing advice how to go out dressed as a woman?

You're really crap at this aren't you? At least put a bit of effort into it. Come on now, do a bit of homework first then come back and try to be consistent. It's a lot more fun for us when there is at least a challenge.

So do you regard yourself as a transexual?





(Ooh look a big shiny spade!)