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slamddoger
08-08-2009, 09:00 PM
do we like to go dress as wome?

RachelZ
08-08-2009, 09:07 PM
Because its fun. That's the reason for doing anything worthwhile in life. Seriously. Don't over think this question.

TJ Tresa
08-08-2009, 09:07 PM
Why? You ask why?...
I say why not!!!!
For many reasons, there some of us who love the feel of the feminine finery, then there are those of us who want to be girls, and yet those who want to emulate women, as a form of respect. What ever the reason we do it because we want to, we need to, and it makes us complete.
Just my thoughts, maybe others will agree or disagree, I don't know.

kellycan27
08-08-2009, 09:10 PM
Because if I didn't..I'd be crossdressing! :rofl:

Wen4cd
08-08-2009, 09:12 PM
But liek, why is it fun, hmm? :devil:

Chiana
08-08-2009, 10:08 PM
Because I want to. Gee that was easy.:love:

Shikyo
08-08-2009, 10:09 PM
Because if I didn't..I'd be crossdressing! :rofl:

Couldn't have said it better myself.

docrobbysherry
08-08-2009, 10:11 PM
If u had been looking in my mirror this afternoon, THAT question NEVER would have entered your MIND!:D

Marissa
08-08-2009, 10:17 PM
why do 'girls' insist on asking this???? knowing that the real question is "why do I dress?" :o

everyone has their reason..what is yours????

I use the old... its monday..or tuesday..wednesday, saturday.. its raining..the sun is out.. i found a dollar in my pocket.. :heehee::)

anyway.. some of us don't know why..except that it feels good..:daydreaming: hmmm thats a good reason for anyone.. :D

ronny
08-08-2009, 10:47 PM
Well..because in heart and mind and body (maybe) we are women. There are numerous explanations for the why. I suggest just enjoy it....your feminine side my dear. Love others..enjoy your life.

roni

Sweet Jane
08-08-2009, 10:49 PM
I would just prefer I was this way

Brenda456
08-08-2009, 11:19 PM
Because women have the softest and prettiest clothes, and we like soft, pretty things. As least, that works for me!

Terri Andrews
08-08-2009, 11:26 PM
I feel right ,inside and out ,when I am dressed as Terri

NathalieX66
08-08-2009, 11:33 PM
Because women have the softest and prettiest clothes, and we like soft, pretty things. As least, that works for me!

Gimme some too!

My female cousins, of my same age, loved to show off their wardrobe with reckless abandon, and I empathized.

CindyLouWho
08-09-2009, 12:22 AM
I can't answer that question for we, I can only answer it for me. When I was born my mom and dad were given a receipt (birth certificate) that said male, but by the time I was 9 years old I knew I was a girl. So mom and dad were raising me as a boy and I was too young to tell them they were wrong. I dress as a woman because, really I am a woman.

Schatten Lupus
08-09-2009, 01:26 AM
Since I identify as a woman, it just makes since.

Ronah
08-09-2009, 01:35 AM
Because I can !

Sammy777
08-09-2009, 01:40 AM
do we like to go dress as wome?

Well for me its because I am tired of crossdressing.

Oh but wait - women aren't crossdressers if they wear guys clothes right? :heehee:

hmmm maybe because they are girls clothes and I am a girl.
Aren't they what I am supposed to be wearing :lol2:

Carin
08-09-2009, 01:42 AM
Why do I dress in feminine attire, with feminine shape: Because ...
It feels right when I do.
It feels wrong when I can't.

PaulaJaneThomas
08-09-2009, 04:25 AM
Why do we do it or why do we think we do it? There's a big difference. Based on many years of careful analysis, I know why I think we do it but I can't test my hypothesis so it remains just that - a hypothesis.

urmilaaa2008
08-09-2009, 04:32 AM
because it makes me feel good and makes me feel complete

Mirani
08-09-2009, 04:37 AM
Might as well ask why the sun shines in the morning?
or why the moon shines at night?;

I do because I do.

Seriously, if you have a deeper interest into "why" - then there is a wonderful place called "The Internet" and someone told me of a search engine called "Google" - apparently you can read all kinds of research by eminent "ologists" who can offer an answer.Try it.

fiona_libby
08-09-2009, 04:45 AM
I have a basic desire to be a woman and the closest i can get to live the lifestyle i wish for, either by dressing in feminine clothes or whatever I will do it. I just wish I had the courage, opportunity to openly express my wishes I would be so much happier.

Huggs :hugs:

Fiona

allisonrn06
08-09-2009, 07:05 AM
A lot of you have given reasons that I would list too. When it comes to getting dressed up, I have long felt that women have it much better than men, so many different options: dresses, skirts, blouses, slacks, shoes, makeup, etc. But when you look at nature, where there is a difference in appearance between the male and female of a species, it seems like it's almost always the male that is prettier, more colorful etc, especially when you think of birds. So my point is, why should it be any different for people? Why can't men dress in the prettier, more colorful clothes? :2c: :)

Marisa_M
08-09-2009, 07:08 AM
do we like to go dress as wome?

Quite simple.
Because I feel like being a woman even I am not.

Lidia_tv
08-09-2009, 07:23 AM
Because it makes me feel good. And I don't need any other explanation.

Angie G
08-09-2009, 07:33 AM
I never ask why I for one don't care why I love it so I do it. And my wife lets me.:hugs:
Angie

Celeste
08-09-2009, 07:35 AM
Because I enjoy it and it's a wonderful way to explore me without hurting others.

Joselle3
08-09-2009, 07:50 AM
Why? Because it was meant to be?
Why not?
Its kinda like asking what is the meaning of life? There are no answers.
You are what you are..thats the way nature or God or whatever you believe in made you. Don't question it..be grateful

Meg East
08-09-2009, 07:54 AM
Because me accepting my crossdressing was the only good thing I got out of therapy.

Rachel05
08-09-2009, 10:00 AM
Because it makes me feel good and I really enjoy it

Elle1946
08-09-2009, 10:30 AM
Because it feels good and we like to do it. It is a way to express our true inner self.

slamddoger
08-09-2009, 11:15 AM
thank you for your remake for me i dont have an ansern for my ?

Laura_Stephens
08-09-2009, 01:56 PM
I have spent decares trying to figure out "why". Was it chemical? Was it a malfunction in my brain? Was it how I grew up? Was it something that my parents did?

after many years, I have abandoned trying to find out "why" because I will truly never know.

Jilmac
08-09-2009, 02:00 PM
It has been said that imitation is the greatest form of flattery and if that's true, then I believe we dress to flatter the women whom we respect and admire.

Ralph
08-09-2009, 02:34 PM
do we like to go dress as wome?

You know the old saying: When in wome, do as the womens.

joandher
08-09-2009, 02:34 PM
I dont think it matters what you wear as long as its right for you.if we look around the world each country wears clothes that are different from mine and maybe yours, if you look back in history the romans wore skirts and tunic tops some african countrys wear kaftans ,so why cant we wear what suits us to feel and look pretty
:hugs:

J-JAY

Mmmatt
08-09-2009, 03:02 PM
Well, it's better than a poke in the eye.

MissConstrued
08-09-2009, 03:08 PM
Why? Because in most places, it's illegal to be in public naked. But the law doesn't say what kind of clothes I have to wear. Spit in ze eye of conformity! Ptoooey!




You know the old saying: When in wome, do as the womens.


:rofl:

Joni Marie Cruz
08-09-2009, 03:14 PM
Do you know how many unsold panties wind up in landfills or are shipped off to third world countries? Somebody's gotta wear 'em, I just want to do my part.

Hugs...Joni Mari

LilSissyStevie
08-09-2009, 03:23 PM
Because my genes... er no...society...umm...Mommy dearest...well uh...my childhood...I dunno...The Devil... Yeah! That's the ticket! The Devil makes me do it. :devil::devil::devil:

It couldn't be a choice. Who would want to be a weirdo?:D

breanna 01
08-09-2009, 03:25 PM
Because for me it feels so natural can,t see any other reason .

MissConstrued
08-09-2009, 03:52 PM
Who would want to be a weirdo?:D


*ahem*

Joni Marie Cruz
08-09-2009, 03:59 PM
*ahem*

<Joni Mari raises her hand and smiles shyly> What she said.

Hugs...Joni Mari

il.dso
08-09-2009, 04:05 PM
Well, I've been crossdressing for over 40 years and
I still don't have the definitive succinct answer to the "why" question.
I suppose at some point I will stop asking the question but it still remains
relevant after all of these years!

Steph2003
08-09-2009, 04:12 PM
I've asked this question of myself for 30+ years and finally have realized that in order to be myself, I will have to transition.

It's all about hormones in the womb and we are destined to be who we are (if we can before it's too late!)

Shikyo
08-09-2009, 04:17 PM
It's all about hormones in the womb and we are destined to be who we are (if we can before it's too late!)

It's never too late, if you are able to say it's too late, it's not too late. And after one is dead I don't really think anyone of us is going to care about the whole matter at all after we are lying in the coffin or our bodies been burned and now is only ashes.

Jeanna
08-09-2009, 04:28 PM
Because I can !

Exactly!

Jaclyn NM
08-09-2009, 04:54 PM
I do it, because I love the way the clothes feel and look. I especially like wearing stockings and heels, since to me they feel very sensuous.

kayesimone
08-09-2009, 06:05 PM
I like to wear what i wear.
it's who i am.
but i dress in drab all day at work (with enhancements)
but MY time is for me...
and i don't always dress fem...
sometimes i am naked

Joan Merrie
08-09-2009, 06:35 PM
Because if I didn't..I'd be crossdressing! :rofl:

beat me to it sis.
To answer the question, because I am a girl.:hugs::love:

RICKIE44
08-09-2009, 08:33 PM
I have always liked the feeling and the way they look

sheidelmeidel
08-09-2009, 08:38 PM
Is this a relevant question?

countrygirl
08-09-2009, 08:41 PM
Because I can!

JenniferR771
08-09-2009, 08:50 PM
Missconstrued said it best.

Why? Why do some men like to dress as women? No one knows.

It has been said that all the scientific facts known about crossdressing would fit on one page. Statistics although inconsistent, on a second page, and all the rest is someone's opinion and case histories.

sissystephanie
08-09-2009, 08:55 PM
BECAUSE!!!!!

:tongueout:tongueout

Bethany38
08-09-2009, 09:03 PM
You know my Nephews wife asked me this very same ? My response to this question is always the same, I answer with my own question of "Why do you breath?"....:D

Ras
08-09-2009, 09:50 PM
I asked this questions many times...but came to the conclusion that why not as enjoy it and that's all there is to it.

Emme
08-09-2009, 10:28 PM
No matter how good or bad I look, it is the feeling I get when in femme form. It is not just the clothes, it is the whole package. When I sleep on my side with my hands cupped to my breast, and when I shave in the morning with my elbows brushing on the side of my breast, as I wash my face, life is good and comfortable. It is relaxing and wonderful, it is right! I truly understand my wife when she says she has nothing to wear. A whole closet full of our dresses and we can't decide how we want to FEEL today. To me, it is all about the wonderful feeling inside of being female! I make it a point to jump out of bed every day and put on a dress first. It starts the day better. After the coffee, reality strikes and I have to change for work. Only 8 hours and she will be back home!

Emme

Jenniferpl
08-10-2009, 02:20 AM
Because it just feels right.

Samantha Kelsey
08-10-2009, 04:01 AM
Hi there,

This is a very short question but to answer it correctly would take hundresd of pages. There is though also a very short answer;

BECAUSE WE WANT TO!!!