Nicole_P
08-27-2009, 01:55 PM
I have been amazed at the support I am getting from parents in my district. Some don't even know me, and they take the time to write supportive words- I mean, I'm just blown away.. Here's what I mean-
Dear Nicole,
I am writing to you to offer our support during this transitional time
for you.
My daughter had you last year for Geometry. We in this household all
support you and believe you to be very courageous. We hope you find
peace now.
I read your blog and you come across sincere and relieved to finally
be at this place in time. I am sorry you are having pain about your
wife leaving you after so long of a time. I was married for 22 years
and have divorced recently and it takes a long time to peel apart that
many years, if ever. I know as a woman that she will digest this
change somehow, on her own time, and will be back in your life beside
you in some way. We are hoping for many people in this community to
support you as well and we will continue to have positive thoughts
toward that end.
You were a wonderful math teacher and are very supportive of the
students learning, making yourself available before and after school.
You also as you say "get it" that people need to to learn and grow and be more tolerant of difference and thank you for sharing your life with us and teaching us. Sincerely and with an open heart,
S.G. and family
Another:
Dear Nicole,
I just went onto the high school Web site and accidentally saw your
new picture. My husband and I heartily applaud your courage and wish
you every good thing life has to offer.
Thanks for all you do as a teacher.
Sincerely,
J and J Mxxx
Another:
Excellent job on the letter - we just received it via snail mail
because my daughter Maya is scheduled to be in your class this fall.
Seems the phone calls went out all over a few nights ago when some posting was made on facebook/myspace ? We have not yet met, but
the fact that you are staying in WL and making the transition publicly speaks to your strength of character. Please know that you have much support in this community
Wishing you the best -
D.C.
and Another:
Nicole,
My son had you for freshman geometry last year, and I think you are a wonderful math teacher. You were quick to respond to my e-mails, and always available to students for extra help before school. Please know that you've got my support, and I'm sure the support of many many other parents like me. I can't imagine many jobs more difficult than high school teacher as you go through this exciting step in your transition. You are very brave, and it is awesome you are playing such a big part in teaching tolerance, understanding, and love in our community.
And one more:
Wow! Is your mailbox full? I read the online journal and enjoyed it very much, except for the life long pain you have experienced, for that I am sorry. I have talked to my children about this kind of medical condition in the past, and told them about the people I have known with it. Not an easy life. One of the boys who graduated last year is always talking about "getting his penis off so he can be a girl." Won't name names. You know, we all have our secrets and I do believe they hold us back. Even (her daughter) who has managed to get herself into Stanford has some extreme difficulties that she is always trying to hide. She is very worried about going away to school, "what are people going to think or say when I ....." She has her story, I have one. I believe you are handling this well, your wife needs time, maybe a lot of time, lol. I can see from your writing that you are a caring person and I hope that others treat you with the same amount of care. This is your path, and I believe you can walk it successfully. Best Best Wishes, T.G.
ps: Husband thinks you make a nice looking girl....omg!
After I read them, I just sit and bawl my eyes out...it is simply overwhelming..
Hugs-
Nicole
Dear Nicole,
I am writing to you to offer our support during this transitional time
for you.
My daughter had you last year for Geometry. We in this household all
support you and believe you to be very courageous. We hope you find
peace now.
I read your blog and you come across sincere and relieved to finally
be at this place in time. I am sorry you are having pain about your
wife leaving you after so long of a time. I was married for 22 years
and have divorced recently and it takes a long time to peel apart that
many years, if ever. I know as a woman that she will digest this
change somehow, on her own time, and will be back in your life beside
you in some way. We are hoping for many people in this community to
support you as well and we will continue to have positive thoughts
toward that end.
You were a wonderful math teacher and are very supportive of the
students learning, making yourself available before and after school.
You also as you say "get it" that people need to to learn and grow and be more tolerant of difference and thank you for sharing your life with us and teaching us. Sincerely and with an open heart,
S.G. and family
Another:
Dear Nicole,
I just went onto the high school Web site and accidentally saw your
new picture. My husband and I heartily applaud your courage and wish
you every good thing life has to offer.
Thanks for all you do as a teacher.
Sincerely,
J and J Mxxx
Another:
Excellent job on the letter - we just received it via snail mail
because my daughter Maya is scheduled to be in your class this fall.
Seems the phone calls went out all over a few nights ago when some posting was made on facebook/myspace ? We have not yet met, but
the fact that you are staying in WL and making the transition publicly speaks to your strength of character. Please know that you have much support in this community
Wishing you the best -
D.C.
and Another:
Nicole,
My son had you for freshman geometry last year, and I think you are a wonderful math teacher. You were quick to respond to my e-mails, and always available to students for extra help before school. Please know that you've got my support, and I'm sure the support of many many other parents like me. I can't imagine many jobs more difficult than high school teacher as you go through this exciting step in your transition. You are very brave, and it is awesome you are playing such a big part in teaching tolerance, understanding, and love in our community.
And one more:
Wow! Is your mailbox full? I read the online journal and enjoyed it very much, except for the life long pain you have experienced, for that I am sorry. I have talked to my children about this kind of medical condition in the past, and told them about the people I have known with it. Not an easy life. One of the boys who graduated last year is always talking about "getting his penis off so he can be a girl." Won't name names. You know, we all have our secrets and I do believe they hold us back. Even (her daughter) who has managed to get herself into Stanford has some extreme difficulties that she is always trying to hide. She is very worried about going away to school, "what are people going to think or say when I ....." She has her story, I have one. I believe you are handling this well, your wife needs time, maybe a lot of time, lol. I can see from your writing that you are a caring person and I hope that others treat you with the same amount of care. This is your path, and I believe you can walk it successfully. Best Best Wishes, T.G.
ps: Husband thinks you make a nice looking girl....omg!
After I read them, I just sit and bawl my eyes out...it is simply overwhelming..
Hugs-
Nicole