NathalieX66
09-06-2009, 10:35 PM
OK, I learned a lot from every day people like yourselves on this forum since I joined about, yea, 6 months ago, whatever it was.
I'm like a lot of you in the sense that I started CD'ing since my single-digit age, and have alway radiated toward and an adrogynous style. The CD'ing is a part of my life, and it's never going to go away. But I am male just the same....I just happen to enjoy the aspects of both genders. I suspect that I will never transition into anything beyond what I am.
However, I am confused at exactly where the line between 1) gender expression....2)fetish motivations....and 3) Gender identity, which seem to have nothing to do with '2'. Somehow I still get the feeling that all 3 are somewhat related more, or less with 1 & 2 . I can't see the folks in the 3 category necessarily inclined to relate with the folks in the 2 category, but clothing, and hairstyle to me seems so superficial, however I feel there is still some connection regardless what is said. People have different ways of expressing themselves because humans have imaginations. Think for a moment, that if the concept of gender didn't exist all.....then what?
All I ask is a better understanding and explanation. :rc:
I'm like a lot of you in the sense that I started CD'ing since my single-digit age, and have alway radiated toward and an adrogynous style. The CD'ing is a part of my life, and it's never going to go away. But I am male just the same....I just happen to enjoy the aspects of both genders. I suspect that I will never transition into anything beyond what I am.
However, I am confused at exactly where the line between 1) gender expression....2)fetish motivations....and 3) Gender identity, which seem to have nothing to do with '2'. Somehow I still get the feeling that all 3 are somewhat related more, or less with 1 & 2 . I can't see the folks in the 3 category necessarily inclined to relate with the folks in the 2 category, but clothing, and hairstyle to me seems so superficial, however I feel there is still some connection regardless what is said. People have different ways of expressing themselves because humans have imaginations. Think for a moment, that if the concept of gender didn't exist all.....then what?
All I ask is a better understanding and explanation. :rc: