Carole Cross
09-15-2009, 12:20 PM
On Sunday I went to see an old friend who moved to another town last year to live wi8th his girlfriend. He had promised, when he left, to invite me over for a meal with him and his gf. He left before I had made my decision to transition and did not know about it until he contacted me last month and I told him. He was a bit shocked at first and had no idea and was a little sceptical until I explained why I had come to my decision.
We arranged to meet on Sunday and I asked if he was okay with me coming as Carole. He said it was fine and seemed completely at ease with it since the last time we had chatted. It turns out that when his gf went to college, there was a MtF TS on her course.
I arrived at 12 pm and after exchanging pleasentries and settling down for a chat to catch up on things we sat down for the meal. I still did not know that my friends gf had known a TS and I was suprised at how she just seemed to accept me as I was, she had met me a few times before as a male. It was during the meal that she told me about the TS on her college course.
After the meal, we all sat down for a chat until my friend had to go to work. He left shortly after 2pm and left me alone with his gf, Emily. This was when I had what I would describe as my first girly chat with Emily. We talked about me at first and then we started talki9ng about shoes, makeup, clothes and any other thought that came to mind. I didn't really notice the time at first, to busy chatting, until I looked at my watch and realised it was nearly 5pm. We carried on chatting for another hour and I just felt totally at ease talking freely, something that I had never experienced before.
AS I left,we agreed to meet again sometime and even started chatting again by the gate outside. I think I have made my first GG friend who accepts me as another girl, even though she had known me before as a guy. :D
We arranged to meet on Sunday and I asked if he was okay with me coming as Carole. He said it was fine and seemed completely at ease with it since the last time we had chatted. It turns out that when his gf went to college, there was a MtF TS on her course.
I arrived at 12 pm and after exchanging pleasentries and settling down for a chat to catch up on things we sat down for the meal. I still did not know that my friends gf had known a TS and I was suprised at how she just seemed to accept me as I was, she had met me a few times before as a male. It was during the meal that she told me about the TS on her college course.
After the meal, we all sat down for a chat until my friend had to go to work. He left shortly after 2pm and left me alone with his gf, Emily. This was when I had what I would describe as my first girly chat with Emily. We talked about me at first and then we started talki9ng about shoes, makeup, clothes and any other thought that came to mind. I didn't really notice the time at first, to busy chatting, until I looked at my watch and realised it was nearly 5pm. We carried on chatting for another hour and I just felt totally at ease talking freely, something that I had never experienced before.
AS I left,we agreed to meet again sometime and even started chatting again by the gate outside. I think I have made my first GG friend who accepts me as another girl, even though she had known me before as a guy. :D