Meghan
09-20-2009, 11:56 PM
As you may have read from another thread, my SO and I are in the middle of this new discovery phase of our relationship, where she is discovering who I am inside, and I am discovering the true dominant side of her. She LOVES discovering these new keys to my brain, and I love giving them to her.
Yet, there are still these strong self-protective fears that we are both working to resolve.
For example, today, I bought something because I have always liked it, had my eye on it, but was too scared to buy because I was afraid it would reveal to her that I liked the color pink, or that it seemed silly for a male to buy.
Yet, when I brought it home, she nodded and smiled and knew exactly why I had bought it.
Trust me, this was just a little thing. But to me, her small acceptance is a big thing.
How do we communicate these little fears? Or is it that we just have to move through them and let reality show us how silly the really are?
Meghan
Yet, there are still these strong self-protective fears that we are both working to resolve.
For example, today, I bought something because I have always liked it, had my eye on it, but was too scared to buy because I was afraid it would reveal to her that I liked the color pink, or that it seemed silly for a male to buy.
Yet, when I brought it home, she nodded and smiled and knew exactly why I had bought it.
Trust me, this was just a little thing. But to me, her small acceptance is a big thing.
How do we communicate these little fears? Or is it that we just have to move through them and let reality show us how silly the really are?
Meghan