Debs is going out Tuesday

[Sheila]

announcing this so she knows we are doing it ............ we have talked and talked this through so many times ..... we even went and bought her a new wig yesterday that will enable her to blend in better than her blonde one and as she said we were going to do a daylight shopping trip at one of our localish big towns this coming week .. ...Tuesday has been agreed on as "THE DAY"

She says's agreed is a bit harsh, decided would be a better word ............ just limiting her availability to come up with seven hundred excuses as to why not too.... and she is sat here laughing as I am typing this :heehee::heehee: She will do good :) and I will look after her I promise :)

[PaulaJaneThomas]

Excuses? Apart from being brown bread, are there any valid excuses? ;) One big mistake that nervous trannies often make is pulling their wig down too far, which looks odd and is more likely to attract attention. Make sure the wig is fitted on the natural hairline. That blonde wig doesn't do her any favours IMHO so I'm glad she's now got something more suitable.

[Sheila]

Excuses? Apart from being brown bread, are there any valid excuses? ;) One big mistake that nervous trannies often make is pulling their wig down too far, which looks odd and is more likely to attract attention. Make sure the wig is fitted on the natural hairline. That blonde wig doesn't do her any favours IMHO so I'm glad she's now got something more suitable.

Thanks Paula, we appreciate all and any advice :hugs:

[Samantha B L]

Hi Sheila, I can't imagine Debs without her Jayne Mansfeild blonde hair but then it doesn't hurt to try new things. The two of you may as well go ahead and do it. You only live once. Debs doesn't seem to mind being cajoled into going from the way it sounds. So then I'll send my best wishes that the new styles wil be out in the stores and that they'll all be on sale and in Debs' size.

[TGMarla]

Take care of her, Sheila! You know how fragile she is! This could be a really great day for both of you.

Strong drink may help. :D

[Sheila]

Take care of her, Sheila! You know how fragile she is!
Strong drink may help. :D

I will take very good care of her hun, she is very precious to me .......... and Dang can't drink I am driving :doh: :sad:

[Rachel Morley]

Well done Shelia! You sound just like my wife Marla was to me when I first started going out. :hugs: I was timid and I chickened-out a lot. I really needed my wife to be firm with me and push me ... and thankfully she was/is. I'd say I didn't want to go but deep down inside I did want to go but I just couldn't bring myself to do it. I obviously still had "issues" about myself and my dressing and the possibility of being read. The moment my wife took over and made all the decisions about how and when I dressed things changed for the better. I trusted in her. I trusted that she knew what was best for me and she was pushing me to help me, which of course she was. In the beginning when we (as Cders) first start to venture out into the big wide world dressed, IMHO to have a confident and assertive SO by your side is a God send. Debs - go with the flow, trust in Sheila, she is your security, she's just helping you get through that sticky patch of self doubt. You'll love her even more (if that's possible) when you get through this to the other side where you'll be dressing and going out with confidence as if you've been doing it all your life! If confidence was money, .... in the words of Del Boy, this time next year you'll be a millionaire! :D

[Senneca]

I can only agree with everything everyone has said here. Just do it, and you won't regret it one little bit, except maybe that you didn't do it sooner!

[Sandra]

Debs you've done this before and did fine and this time will be no different. Trust in Sheila and you'll be fine.

Of course if you did use one of the many excuses, which you wont :) and not go then just think of all the skirts, dresses etc that you will not get :straightface:

[Christine Rugby]

Yay!!! Excitement and nerves!!!! This is what life is about! Keep positive and enjoy! This is fabulous!:D

Go party and have one drink even though you can't have many!:drink:

[Tina B.]

I will take very good care of her hun, she is very precious to me .......... and Dang can't drink I am driving :doh: :sad:

Sheila, I think the drink is for Debs to calm her down! But maybe a stop at Victoria's Secret looking for something for the honeymoon might work better!
I hope you both just relax and have fun.
Tina

[Sherlyn]

Have fun you 2...that's my advice :)..curious about the new wig tho ...long ..short ...colour ?

[KrazyKat]

Sounds like a wonderful DAY, Sheila and Debs!!:love:

I do remember our first time out together, Karen and I, like it was yesterday!!!
And the first time Karen used the ladies bathroom out dressed, it was a revelation for Karen!!:heehee:How snipy waittress' can be in the bathroom!!:heehee:

Good job of nudging, Sheila!! BE a brave young lady, DEbs!!:hugs:

[Rachaelb64]

Well done Sheila :D I'm sure Debs will enjoy herself.......and I'm sure if she doesn't you'll make her enjoy herself :devil:

[Deedee Dupree]

Hi Sheila & Deb's... Just offering my very best wishes for a fun outing. You know I laughed when I read about the 700 excuses not to... fortunately with Sheila, resistance is futile :)

....and to be fair Deb's, if you ever run out of excuses and need some assistance in that department I'll be happy to oblige... :D

Have fun, dd

P.S. I am also curious about the new wig. Although I like the blonde wigs, the new one may make the proceedings outside go a bit "smoother"

[sherri52]

It's official now Shiela, she has to go out. Good for you Debs

[Deborah Jane]

WOW!!!!
Thanks for all the encouragement :):)
In 24 hours time i'll be doing this and although I have been out in the past as Sandra says, since then I lost my nerve big time after a bad experiance :sad:
This time is a lot more nerve racking in many ways than my previous trips as we'll be in a town fairly local to me......At the moment i'm feeling a combination of pure excitement and sheer terror :daydreaming::eek:


announcing this so she knows we are doing it ............ just limiting her availability to come up with seven hundred excuses as to why not too....

Excuse 701....There is an alien invasion planned for Tuesday, do you think me being out "dressed" is a wise idea? :eek:


curious about the new wig tho ...long ..short ...colour ?



P.S. I am also curious about the new wig.

Thanks for the interest....I've put a pic in my avvie, although at the moment it still needs a bit more time to settle better [Excuse 702 :D]

[unfortunately the colour and style are somewhat lost because of camera flash in the pics]

[Sheila]

Excuse 701....There is an alien invasion planned for Tuesday, do you think me being out "dressed" is a wise idea? :eek:


Wiser than coming up with more ridiculous excuses :tongueout:tongueout

[PaulaJaneThomas]

The new wig looks orders of magnitude better than the blonde one Debs.

[Daintre]

Good luck Debs, I hope your time out is memorable in a good way. When we take a hit, it can be stressful getting back up and going out dressed again. You have a great partner in Sheila Debs, one who cares for you and will keep you safe....enjoy.

[Barbara B]

Good luck Deb's, enjoy your day. I might me around tomorrow if you need any more support, I'll let the pair of you know later.

[PheonaP]

Deborah Jane said "since then I lost my nerve big time after a bad experiance".

This can, and does happen to many of us in various aspects of our lives, whether in guy or girl mode. However, the GOOD experiences hopefully outweigh the bad experiences.

You are strong Debs and with Sheila you are a giant killer.
Come Tuesday, get up, do the biz and get out there, have a whale of a time.
When you return:
Deborah Jane said "pure excitement and sheer terror".
I would like to think your outlook will be the first option.

Have a great day, both of you, thinking of you.

[Shelly Preston]

I hope you both have a great day tomorrow :D

[Sheila]

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She will wear this with either her denim jacket or leather jacket ......... I know I can here you some of you say :eek:, but she is comfortable dressed like this and if she is comfortable then that is one less worry for her .. she will do good and I will be there to help ............. we are also planning on calling in to see someone else for them to give her some advice and we will take a change of Fem clothes (jeans)in case she is way to nervous about it in the end

EDited to add ................ and I think she looks great:daydreaming::)

[SexyNatalie]

Debs looks lovely, have fun u 2:battingeyelashes:

[MJ]

Debs just relax hun you will be fine. act like you belong there. you do ...
defuse any problem with that big smile you have. it works for me .
have fun you too :hugs:

[Deborah Jane]

Just looked out the window......The world looks awful big :eek:

The nerves are kicking in early, but I really want to get out there :daydreaming:

Thanks everyone for all your encouragement

Thanks especially to Sheila for pushing me back out there and giving us both the chance to enrich our lives together :love:

BTW.....Excuse 702.....:doh: Damn, I've run out of excuses :D

[Ms Mira]

Deb, get out there and have a great time!

Often, the things that make you nervous are the most rewarding... And I expect there'll be a post after you go out there detailing the kind of fun you girls had.

:)

[Kate Simmons]

The world is really a big holodeck Debs. You choose the program you want, enter and enjoy. Works for me.;):battingeyelashes::)

[Sam-antha]

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Enjoy, lass, enjoy.





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[Fab Karen]

You'll have someone to talk to, much easier than going out alone. Besides, nothing is sweeter than the fresh air of freedom.

[Lorileah]

personally I would hide in my closet...but then I don't look as good as you do :hugs:

[Deborah Jane]

Well Sheila is anyway...She looks gorgeous :daydreaming:

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I'm still sitting here in my nightie seeing how many cigarettes I can get through before finding the courage to get ready myself.

I'm actually thinking about taking her in guy mode so I can enjoy the company of being with my woman :love:

[Sandra]

You both look lovely now get out there and enjoy it.

:bh:

[PaulaJaneThomas]

It's a grand day you've picked for an outing. Make the most of it and enjoy yourself.

[Sheila]

We are about to head out the door, thanks for all your good wishes and for helping to boost her confidence, she is a nervous as hell , but that was to be expected :straightface:

[Tracy_Victoria]

Lets hope it's a "Grand day Out"

Good luck to both of you.

[Sheila]

we have had a great day, all went better than we planned, so many highlights. We have come home and she is buzzing, I am whacked, all the nervous and excitement is no good to this old bird :heehee:

Debs is currently doing our out and about day over in the out and about section, where she is choosing the pics to go in, you may have a while to wait she is so excited and so many pics to choose from :eek::D

Thanks again to all of you for your support in getting her out, it was well worth it, the girl did good :D

[MichelleSanders]

Sheila,

I'm so glad you two had a good time. Can't wait to read the Out And About thread.

Two more things....
Your new avatar looks really good!

You are one post away from the big 10,000! I guess it's time to break out the noise makers and funny hats.

[Deborah Jane]

We went, we saw, we shopped Click here to see , ..... in words and pics Debs does Brighton (http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=116683)

Thanks for all the encouragement, but does Sheila know what she's now released on the world? :eek::eek:

[Kayla Shadows]

Yay,Debs!!! This is awesome!! :) Congrats on your outing.Can't wait to see the pics.