Leanne2
09-30-2009, 10:27 AM
I feel lucky that I can usually pass whenever I want to. And luck has a lot to do with it. I'm 5'9" tall which is tall for a woman but some are taller. I still have a head of thick wavy hair with some gray streaks, all natural. My facial features aren't overly masculine. My beautician says I have wonderful full lips. I gained weight when I got older but my breasts are bigger as well. A little HRT a year ago helped that along. In short, I look a lot like a sixty year old woman.
When I don't try to pass is when I have some fun as well. My hair is styled in a wedge. I always shave up to a feminine hairline. And I carry a ladies black wallet instead of using a bill fold. When I shop I don't announce whether I am male or female. I get some interesting reactions. On Monday I went in a drug store to drop off a prescription for myself. The girl at the counter looked confused and then said, " Has he ever had a prescription filled here before?" I just smiled and said yes.
Next I went grocery shopping at a discount grocery store where it takes a quarter to get a cart. When I was done and taking my cart back a man my age held up a quarter and said," Ma'am I'll buy your cart." I just smiled as I accepted the coin. Now I must add that several people called me sir at other times. If anyone asks my name to get a clue I could say," Just call me Pat." Leanne2
When I don't try to pass is when I have some fun as well. My hair is styled in a wedge. I always shave up to a feminine hairline. And I carry a ladies black wallet instead of using a bill fold. When I shop I don't announce whether I am male or female. I get some interesting reactions. On Monday I went in a drug store to drop off a prescription for myself. The girl at the counter looked confused and then said, " Has he ever had a prescription filled here before?" I just smiled and said yes.
Next I went grocery shopping at a discount grocery store where it takes a quarter to get a cart. When I was done and taking my cart back a man my age held up a quarter and said," Ma'am I'll buy your cart." I just smiled as I accepted the coin. Now I must add that several people called me sir at other times. If anyone asks my name to get a clue I could say," Just call me Pat." Leanne2