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allisonrn06
10-03-2009, 06:52 AM
I've seen posts on here about the first item that you tried, and became curious about how many started with a single item and graduated to full crossdressing vs. those who wanted to fully dress right from the start. For me, in early childhood, I had wanted to wear tights and pantyhose, didn't try them till about age 14. Started adding my sister's heels to the mix a couple of years later, but didn't really consider anything more than that till my late teens/early twenties, when I started to find stories about crossdressers and decided I wanted to wear more than just heels and hose, although they always have been my favorites. So what are your experiences?(Forgive me if this is a repeat topic)

Jess81CD
10-03-2009, 07:03 AM
I remember being very young, probably 6 or 7, and i would sneak out of bed to my sister's room and steal her panties. After that it stopped for several years until i was probably 14 or so. I found a suspender belt. I remember thinking "what a strange bra..." still don't know how i realised what it was as at 14 my experience of women's clothes was rather limited! From there i started again.

joannemarie barker
10-03-2009, 09:14 AM
yeah i started with my sisters one piece swimsuit that was drying over the bath.wasn't long before i was raiding her room for dresses and knickers :)

Jess81CD
10-03-2009, 04:36 PM
Ha, I love the story about suspenders! I was interested in checking out panties in the house -- but came across suspenders in a drawer and had the exact same experience.....

oh, you would have laughed as you saw me try to figure out what they did!!

Yeah i remember thinking "these must attach up here... hang on... but there's the same attachment each side??...OHHHHHHH!"

vikki2020
10-03-2009, 05:00 PM
It's funny when I think about it, but I got back into dressing about 3 years ago, after a long time out. Just some panty hose--at first. I'll keep a pair in the drawer. Well, I should have a bra, too. Add a piece here,then there, and I tell myself--just a large zip-lock bag, that's it! Whatever I can fit in it. Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuurre:devil: Now, I need a whole closet to hold all my "stuff"!:)

KellyKream
10-03-2009, 08:03 PM
I started by trying on my mom's shoes out of curiousity. It went from there to her 1 piece bathing suit, nylons, panties, and bra when she wasn't around. I was probably 12 and still able to fit her clothes without stretching it and her knowing anything. Then I started again after my mid twenties when I moved out by owning a pair of 3 inch stilettos. I love shoes and I really have to control myself from purchasing too much clothes. It gets compulsive at times.

angpai30
10-03-2009, 08:06 PM
I actually started out wearing dresses. I found my sisters stash of old clothes she wore when she was younger. I tried on a few of the dresses and they fit and I loved the feel; I loved the puffed sleeves and the twirly skirt. I would let it flow around my legs for a couple minutes before taking it off.

sabrina mercedes
10-03-2009, 08:49 PM
I began with panties and slips. My mom had some old slips in the bottom of my dresser. I found them one day along with some panties. Tried them and the rest has been ecstasy!:daydreaming::kiss:

Ballerina
10-04-2009, 02:17 AM
I started fantasizing when I was 10, and then moved on to stealing a dress my cousin had when I was 14. Then, my other cousin moved out after a summer stay, and I snatched a brand new bra that she had left behind. Still don't understand why I grabbed it, it was pure instinct, lol.

Teri Jean
10-04-2009, 12:14 PM
Early on I found a fusia dress that I kept hidden for some time in my room to later find it gone. After that the laundry hamper was my friend. Mom knew but kept things picked up and never said anything.LOL Now with my transitioning she must remember those incidences.

Teri

joandher
10-04-2009, 02:41 PM
I started when I was 5 I remember having to stay at my aunts house because I had measles and on my way back from the little boys room I spotted a pair of nylons ,I had often seen my mum putting hers on so I sneaked them into my bedroom and tried them on WELL I WAS HOOKED ,LINE, AND SINKER the feeling was so natural, I never looked back

:love:

J-JAY

DaisyG
10-04-2009, 02:47 PM
From first memories, cute and stylish shoes get my attention before just about anything else.

Start at age 4. We were in the midst of WW II and kid's shoes were simply unavailable; Mom and I would look in the stores every time she went shopping. Finally we happened on a pair of Mary Janes, which she let me try on. They fit. Mom said they were really girl's shoes, but for lack of anything else, Mom bought them. I did get a few snide remarks from playmates, but I thought they were pretty. Wouldn't have known it at the time, but this was at the beginning of a lifelong love for pretty shoes.:o

Just after the end of the war, two of my playmates - brothers - fished several pairs of heels out of their mom's trash. We had a ball trotting around in those shoes, until she found out. She made it clear, our kind of fun was reserved for GRILS!

A year later another playmate showed me her new Mary Janes. I told her how nice they looked and how nice they made her look. She asked if I'd like to try them on. Would I ever! I still remember how they felt. Good to my feet. Great to my inner self. What a shame Sonja needed her shoes back.

Fast forward 63 years. I feel so good in a dress or skirt; I need to dress often. But my first focus remains shoes. I count 17 pairs in my closet, from 2-in pumps to 4-in sandals. Often when I dress, I'll assemble the rest of my outfit around the shoes I've chosen to wear.

DaisyG :)

Jaclyn NM
10-04-2009, 03:26 PM
I started with my mom's high heels, and the I thought I should try her stockings also, and I fell in live with both. For many years, that was the extent of my crossdressing, but I found that it just wasn't enough. I wanted to go out in public wearing my stockings and heels, and of course that meant I needed to fully dress. Once I did, I knew it was meant to be. I now love to completely dress female, even though I don't get to do it as much as I'd like (which would be all the time).

Michelle123
10-05-2009, 08:38 AM
Well, my mother said she recalls when I was around 5 yrs. old, that I used to try on her pumps, and dresses. But my first recollection is from when I was around 10 or 11 yrs. old, trying on her lovely nylon rht stockings. I vividly remember taking a pr. to my room, slipping them on my legs, and the most wonderful feeling swept over me. It wasnt long before I had to try on one of her girdles to hold the stockings up properly.
Well, that opened the floodgates. Next was her panties, bras, slips, etc.
Mom is a very "petite" woman, only wears a size 5 pumps, so as much as I wanted to wear her shoes, It wasnt long before I could no longer fit into them. Her stockings also became too small, but I still wore them because...Like so many of us. It was all I could get....
I suppose it was because of my early experiences that girdles and sheer stockings are to this day very essential for me in my daily dressing.....

Sarah Michelle
10-05-2009, 08:54 AM
I started as a pre-teen, trying on my mother's undergarments, didn't have any sisters so no options there.
I have an openly gay cousin so I knew what kind of reaction I might get if I was caught, not good.
I went through a panties and nylons [and shoes] phase a few years ago before I got it back under control.
Now, I'm building a wardrobe of day clothes and wanting to learn how to do make-up.....

Cassiecd
10-05-2009, 09:06 AM
I always had a love of long hair.

One day it occurred to me all I had to do was go buy a wig if i wanted to feel and enjoy the long hair. Ding Ding Ding!

the rest of the out fit soon followed :)

SherylynJade
10-05-2009, 09:14 AM
my first was a bra when I was around 7 or 8. I loved the way it felt and wanted to wear it always. I had no idea that it would lead to where I am now.

Amymonroe
10-05-2009, 09:30 AM
it started off with my moms one piece bathing suit. she did'nt wear it much if at all. then it was on to this lovley one peice teddy. it was blue with black lace all over it. then on to a pair of red satin panties that had friday written on them. and the rest is history.

il.dso
10-05-2009, 09:33 AM
Yes, started with a single item: panties.
Not sure where it will end...

nikkijo
10-05-2009, 09:40 AM
my first piece was a friends sports bra, but technically it wasnt the first item but dont see the panty hose i used as drag for swimming training as a cd item, it was just another tool of the trade, same with tights, full body 1 piece suits, and anything else we could use to slow us down and make us work harder..

Charis
10-05-2009, 09:42 AM
I can't remember what sort of stuff I got my hands on when I was still a teenager, but my interest in crossdressing got reawoken fairly recently, when a girl I was with got me to wear her panties while we did "stuff".

She let me keep the panties afterwards, and so I consider them the first "item" that I ever owned.

xout101
10-05-2009, 10:13 AM
I always wanted to tie my hair up, so I let it grow as far as my parents/school would allow and would spend hours in the bathroom playing with it. The clothes seemed secondary, but my first article was one of my mom's dresses.

StaceyJane
10-05-2009, 10:17 AM
It started with my mom's pantyhose. As a teenager I loved the chances I got to wear pantyhose. Still love it today which is probably why I'm wearing pantyhose right now.

Emma Chase
10-05-2009, 11:04 AM
Started with pantyhose when I was about 5 or 6.. did nothing more for about a decade then bought a thong leotard when they were all the rage.. then I guess over time it has just grown from there.

JennyS.
10-05-2009, 11:20 AM
I was maybe eight or so. Went to a family friend's house to play. Out of fun, she put a dress on me, did my hair (my hair was quite long), put on some makeup and I pranced around like a little girl. From then on, I wanted to try on anything girlie. The behaviour would stifle for awhile, while I was married. But, there were times when the family was gone and I would put on my ex-wifes panties and lingerie. While married, I would sometimes buy lingerie with the excuse that it was for the wife. But, really, it was for me.

Dragster
10-05-2009, 11:30 AM
It started at about age 11 (54 years ago) with my mum's open bottom hookside corset, which was a little too tight. But the pressure on my "bits" caused a huge thrill and I was hooked for life. I then added stockings (tights still hadn't been invented, but I like stockings better anyway!) to the suspenders, silky knickers, tight dresses etc.

Tony

Karren H
10-05-2009, 11:36 AM
I went hog wild... Bra, girdle.. Ruffley panties and a baby doll nightie.. Mom and Dad were out to dinner and the baby sitter was watching TV...

JulieC
10-05-2009, 11:54 AM
For me, it started with a pair of pantyhose. It stayed that way, either tights or pantyhose, for years upon years. I still love pantyhose, and always will. They are nearest and dearest to my heart in crossdressing.

It wasn't until many years later (and less years than that ago) that I discovered a nearly as strong love of pretty heels and skirts. I just go bonkers over skirts and heels now. But, I'll never go without pantyhose for long. I love them too much.

Just to see my tolerance level, I once tried going an entire month wearing pantyhose. I changed pantyhose often enough, but when I did I'd put the next clean pair on right after taking the old pair off. I wore them to bed, work, showering (so I changed after showering), all errands, absolutely 24 hours a day, minus the minute or so in changing every day.

I made it 27 days before I finally decided I was (very temporarily) sick of wearing pantyhose.

Leohose
10-10-2009, 12:06 AM
then wearing the leotard slipped into pantyhose, went to buy matching danskin leotard and tights then tried heels, skirts and the rest is a silken memory,

MissyW
10-11-2009, 10:40 PM
For me it started in the early teen years with panties and then progressed. Pantyhose, slips and then dresses oh yes!

Cary
10-12-2009, 05:15 PM
Like a lot of us, cding for me started with my mom's pantyhose. I think I was about 7 or 8. It wasn't until a few years ago that I started fully dressing. Almost every week I'm in the thrift stores looking at women's clothes and shoes.

trannie T
10-12-2009, 09:44 PM
I followed the old adage, "A wardrobe of a thousand dresses begins with a single bra."

dilane
10-12-2009, 10:09 PM
My earliest memories are getting fully dressed, including makeup. I can't remember being fascinated with any single item, but rather the whole presentation.

RachelF
10-15-2009, 12:43 AM
I can't remember which was the first item I tried, believe it or not. It was a pair of pantyhose or a panty from my sister. That was back in my teens years (I am 46 now).

Around 4 years ago I started to crossdress again, now with my own clothes ... and my first own item was a black satin thong.

markinhose
10-17-2009, 06:49 AM
all started with pantyhose when i was 12 and just steamrolled from there. it wasnt long after i found panties and bras from both my sisters and my mom. i started dressing fully soon after that too.

Barbara918
10-17-2009, 07:26 AM
Mom's bras & stockings. Wore them with my PJs. So comforting.

äna
10-17-2009, 07:35 AM
starter with my sis panties

allisonrn06
10-18-2009, 08:58 AM
Thanks for all your replies. Seems a lot of you started with pantyhose/stockings, as I did.

I AM Medoro
10-18-2009, 09:21 AM
I was about six when I found this pretty pink party dress and put it on. I went outside in it and had on heck of a time with the girls. Then on of the neighbor kids found out it was me and started throwing rocks and sticks at me untill a neighbor came along and told them to stop picking on that little girl. From that moment on I knew that I was ment to be ...

Yvonne York
10-18-2009, 09:25 AM
In the early days, I just wanted to wear a bra. Then I moved on, and now dress u as much and as often as possible. But I still love my bras, and other sexy lingerie or nighties.

Cristi
10-18-2009, 06:00 PM
I think what hooked me (and what I started with) was (were?) pantyhose. For a while, that is all I wore.

At some point, I stared 'borrowing' panties from my sister's drawer to add to it. Next it was probably a slip, then finally a skirt.

Tops never did much for me until I discovered the unitard type top (snaps in the crotch) that was a bit popular in the 70s. My sister had some in storage in the attic that became mine.

Strangely, a bra was the LAST thing I added. I don't think I even owned one until my early 20s and didn't incorporate it into my regular dressing until even later.

Finally was makeup. I started playing with that just a few short years ago. I still don't do anything with jewelry (though I do have pierced ears and several sets of earrings).

sherri52
10-18-2009, 08:15 PM
I think I started with a dress of my sisters and immediately put on my mothers heals.

ellieparsons
10-20-2009, 07:22 PM
started with my mothers pantyhose when i was about 7 or 8

Janine cd
10-20-2009, 08:17 PM
I remember being about 6 or 7 and finding a pair of my mom's shoes in her closet. They were navy blue pumps and made me feel really tall.
About the time I was 11, I discovered my mom's lingerie drawer. In it I found nylons, panties, a girdle and the most exquisite pink silk and lace nightie.
I had found heaven. Soon I was trying out her makeup and perfume. Life has never been the same since.

NicoleScott
10-21-2009, 02:00 PM
Lipstick. Then high heels. Then lipstick and high heels. I added a few more things occasionally until I was making up and dressing completely in my twenties.

khryss
10-22-2009, 02:51 AM
it started with me playing dress up with the girls in myh daycare when i was 6 or 7 it was cool cause i remamber the dress fit me perfectly then i became obsesses with maryjane shoes lol wo that was so long ago or at least it feels like it.

Pattie O
10-22-2009, 03:11 AM
I first recall slipping on a pair of pantyhose and some lippy and a hair clip in my hair and going to sleep(age 6/7).Mum came in to kiss me goodnight and caught me out but never made a fuss of it.I then longed to dress like a ballerina and wear the shoes and a tutu and my next memory was going to a costume shop after school in my early teens and purchasing a ballerina costume and trying it on and having the sales persons assistance.Wow that was fun!Then I just started trying on my mums whole wardrobe and enjoying when she was out and I could try on her girdles and bras and skirts ,blouses,dresses and then the make up and hairspray!And then dance in the music room to my favourite George Benson-Masquerade

Did you say 1 item??Well I s'pose thats how it started but it sure got more interesting after that!

Pattie:daydreaming::battingeyelashes:

Fiona Lindum
10-22-2009, 03:27 AM
I started at about the age of 14 with a leotard and tights.

Airidis
10-22-2009, 04:17 AM
I always had a love of long hair.

One day it occurred to me all I had to do was go buy a wig if i wanted to feel and enjoy the long hair. Ding Ding Ding!

the rest of the out fit soon followed :)

Same here,

i found my mothers wig when I was 9years old.

I always loved long hair and tried it on. That was when the magic started.

I tried Makeup and then clothes and and ......

Now I own 36 other wigs ( most of them still long haired *g*)

PerryWu
10-22-2009, 05:03 AM
Hi, my name is Perry Wu. I am a new member. I'm from Taiwan. Crossdress in Taiwan is difficult, I only do it in private. When I was 5, I liked hose the most, bra also very interested.

BRANDI66
10-25-2009, 09:46 PM
I never even considered it till my wife tossed me her panties 1 night... I thought she was nuts but i put them on, over time she would come home with a new item till it was complete.