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Sally2005
10-27-2009, 11:30 PM
My wife and I have been working on my halloween costumes and the spare room has costumes, clothing, party wigs all spread all over. My daughter, 6 years old, had not seen the room, but yesterday she went in there and came running out...Daddy! Daddy! look at all the costume's in there!!! Then she spent 1/2 hour running and jumping out of the door, "Ta Da!"...look my hair is purple, then pink....then blond.... It was cute.
Later on, I was in there with her and she says to me, looking at the wedding dress I am going to wear. She says,very excited at seeing the dress, Daddy...who's wedding outfit? Are you a going to be a wedding vampire? (Last week I lied to her... I told her I was going to be a vampire...because I know she will talk at school...and vampire is easy for her friends to remember/understand) I'm not ready to explain much too her, but halloween is for fun and it is an easy way to introduce the concept to her, so I just said with confidence, "yup, something like that!" and she did this look...can't say for sure, but it was this surprised grin...like 5 milliseconds of doesn't compute, then cool - that's neat! (she loves princesses and wedding dresses). Then it was on to some other topic.

...its going to be fun when she sees me all made up (going for 100% flawless bride, except my face which is going to be either skull or zombie makeup, but with a female conturing to add some gender mystery)! My wife and I are going out to a danceclub party, the only thing I'm a little shy about is the neighbor babysitter...who has no idea. Hope she doesn't freak out (she's 18, very shy and conservative). Should be good for a laugh in any case! Maybe I'll sneak up behind her when she comes in the front door! ...I get this feeling her parents will be asking to see me dressed too...if I get really brave I might wear my costume handing out candies and walking my daughter door to door.

goofus
10-27-2009, 11:36 PM
Good luck! Sounds fun...

emmicd
10-27-2009, 11:42 PM
I think it is difficult to overcome the fear sometimes of displaying our crossdressing freely. On Halloween I think it provides us an opportunity to indeed dress as we always wanted to. I believe you should dress as you feel and for that day be as brave as you can. It seems hard to explain to children but I believe your daughter will be very proud of you in the wedding dress and she would love for you to walk her around your neighborhood. I just hope you can follow through and not lose heart as I have always wanted to dress for Halloween and this year I will try to wear my favorite dress the whole day and wish to go out with my 10 year old son trick or treating. I admit I will be quite nervous but am hoping I can do it and not feel ashamed or embarrased. I'm just concerned about my son and how he will react. That is my main concern if I were able to pull it off. This will be my first attempt at dressing as a girl on Halloween. I've been crossdressing since I was 5 years old and have dressed throughout my life but always in private and always by myself!

Good Luck!

Happy Halloween!

emmi

Miranda09
10-28-2009, 07:30 AM
Your 6 year sounds like a real sweetie. Have fun this Halloween and be sure you include some pics. We all want to see what a zombie/vampire bride looks like!! :D

Lorileah
10-28-2009, 10:46 AM
We all want to see what a zombie/vampire bride looks like!! :D

The image that came to my mind was Barbara being resurrected in Beetlejuice. Now that would be scary.

Sally, have fun with it. Little girls get dress up. It isn't strange to them. Now when she gets to be 13 and nothing you wear or do is correct, then you can start worrying

Karen7cd
10-28-2009, 10:50 AM
I bet you will look great, you are so pretty anyway!

Rogina B
10-28-2009, 06:02 PM
Enjoy being dressed with your daughter.Mine is 7 and has a great time with it!:2c:

cd_jamie
10-28-2009, 06:10 PM
I will be in drab. but a friend of mine who is not cd (to the best of my knowelge) is going as trailer park sally.

sherri52
10-28-2009, 06:12 PM
Act like it's a costume around everyone and you'll be fine