JenniferZ2009
10-28-2009, 12:03 AM
Here is a question for you wonderful men in here.
I have a friend at work who is female and she is lesbian and very open about it. We talk about her SO sometimes at work.
She dresses extremely like a guy and we are becoming friends I think and would like to come out to her as being in transition.
Today we were talking about our degrees (she has a mnasters and I have an AA). Somehow we got on the ubject of me borowing her Master and then I said hey we can trade lives. I can be you and you can be me. I sorta implied in the essence of "everything". She had this look for a second and she said that would be a raw deal for her since she would only have an AA after that.
I think that she may "transitional'ish" and I am not sure if this is clouded by my own transition to Female.
So my question is, is it kosher to find out if she is transitional? (I am thinking not) and how would be the best way to come out to her?
I have a friend at work who is female and she is lesbian and very open about it. We talk about her SO sometimes at work.
She dresses extremely like a guy and we are becoming friends I think and would like to come out to her as being in transition.
Today we were talking about our degrees (she has a mnasters and I have an AA). Somehow we got on the ubject of me borowing her Master and then I said hey we can trade lives. I can be you and you can be me. I sorta implied in the essence of "everything". She had this look for a second and she said that would be a raw deal for her since she would only have an AA after that.
I think that she may "transitional'ish" and I am not sure if this is clouded by my own transition to Female.
So my question is, is it kosher to find out if she is transitional? (I am thinking not) and how would be the best way to come out to her?