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Korina
08-01-2004, 01:15 PM
Its me Again!!!
this days i have a big problem , i think it all day , and i dont
know what to do...so i need your advice , i am not feel guilty
anymore because i like to wear woman clothes.....so i am thinking
to telling this in my ex-girlfriend , we have break up almost 2 years
now , but we are very close friends , and we talk about everything , she
knows something , when whe are together sometimes , i was dress and then we have sex , she like it so much , but now , i am thinking to tell her
that i like to dress all day , and not only in sex , and also i dont know what i like in sex anymore , ( i like so so much girls , but day with day , i think i am transform to a woman because i get horny when i see great looking man's...
so i think my ex-girlfriend she gonna support me and help a lot , i am sure about this
* sorry for my bad english
so give me your advice ....how to tell her?
Korina
HillaryArtemis
08-01-2004, 05:00 PM
Hmmm that is an interesting problem. I gues it kind of depends what type of support that you want. Doyou want friendship, make up tips, a shoulder to cry on, someone to share and confind in or just to tell someone. Since she knows you dressed before and she liked it, it probably won't be too difficult for her to accept. Since she is an ex, then you don't really have anything to lose. I guess I would tell her if I was you. I recommend do it in the most comfortable way for both of you. Good luck to you.
JodiArtemis
Shy Charlotte
08-02-2004, 03:21 AM
Like Jodi was saying, she can't even break up with you anymore, so at least you don't have to worry about that. I guess the only thing to becareful of is whether or not she is the type of person to tell everyone. If she is not, then I recommend telling her. Plus, if you already had sex with her in women's clothing, I'm sure she has some idea that you like to crossdress.
By the way, your English is superb..... much better than my Greek.
Korina
08-02-2004, 05:02 AM
Thank you Jodi and Shy Charlotte for your advice
tonight i am gonna tell her , so tomorow i will let you know
what happen.......
Korina
diane
08-02-2004, 07:31 AM
I'm interested to see your follow up. To me reading your post it seems you have very little to lose. She already knows you like to dress ...
Jennifer_Ph
08-02-2004, 10:06 AM
I'd say tell her, too. The great thing is that the more people you tell, the easier it gets. The first time is the most difficult, but as you do it more and more it gets easier and easier. The other great thing that comes out of this is acceptance in your own mind. Once other people know about you, and you've talked about it face to face, a calm will come over you and you'll wonder why you ever waited so long to tell anyone. If she is a true friend she will support you, I am sure. If nothing else, it gets you some "Hey I gotta tell you something" experience under your belt.
One last piece of advice, don't lie. Meaning tell her everything. Don't try to make it seem like you do it less than you do, or have weaker feelings about it than you do. Come clean with all of it - you will feel so much better in the end. Good luck!
Korina
08-04-2004, 06:04 PM
Well , i was very close to tell her last night , but i dont something has
stop me.....
i dont know what to do , i am thinking to make another try...
Korina
Priss
08-04-2004, 06:57 PM
Hi Korina.
It has been said, that we do not tell someone, until the need to tell them outweighs the fear of telling them. I know it's always been that way with me... Iam verrrrrryyyyyy good at being tight liped about myself.
It does sound like a good bet for you though. I'd tell...
Good luck. Hope it works out the way you want it to.
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