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aggi123
11-02-2009, 03:48 PM
Title says it all. Finally decided I was tired of living with this secret and thought if there was one person in the world that would understand it was him. Him being gay helps him realize the difficulty I had with coming out to him. He took it really well and now I can't believe I hadn't told him a looooong time ago. I'm excited!
Marissa Mae
11-02-2009, 03:52 PM
Oh my god, what a relief! Good for you! You inspire me, since I haven't told my brother yet and have actually been thinking about doing so. The fact that his girlfriend knows should make it easier, right? (she knew before they started dating)
aggi123
11-02-2009, 03:53 PM
Oh my god, what a relief! Good for you! You inspire me, since I haven't told my brother yet and have actually been thinking about doing so. The fact that his girlfriend knows should make it easier, right? (she knew before they started dating)


You should do it! He's the one person that would probably understand you better than most!
Marissa Mae
11-02-2009, 04:19 PM
How did he react when you told? How did the conversation start? Details!


You should do it! He's the one person that would probably understand you better than most!

But I am the "older bro", the next heir to the throne, the rolemodel of the family. I wish it was simply cut and dry like that :sad: His gf says I need to tell him, and almost wish she would spill the beans for me :heehee: But she is honest and wouldn't do that to me, so it's my responsibility.
StephHamilton
11-02-2009, 05:02 PM
good going girl. wish i had the same bravery as you.
Lorileah
11-02-2009, 05:21 PM
Now I wonder how many CD's have gay brothers. My conversation with mine went like
Him "I'm gay."
ME "I wear dresses"
Him. "Lets grab a beer"
Marissa Mae
11-02-2009, 05:45 PM
Now I wonder how many CD's have gay brothers. My conversation with mine went like
Him "I'm gay."
ME "I wear dresses"
Him. "Lets grab a beer"

LOL I hope mine is as candid :)
cd_jamie
11-02-2009, 06:57 PM
Now I wonder how many CD's have gay brothers. My conversation with mine went like
Him "I'm gay."
ME "I wear dresses"
Him. "Lets grab a beer"

direct and to the point LOL
Rebecca Jayne
11-02-2009, 07:03 PM
Good for you I'm so happy for you and your brother. Now you have some family support which is a big plus.
sherri52
11-02-2009, 07:08 PM
Good for you aggi, now there is another type of bonding you share.
Barbara Dugan
11-02-2009, 08:17 PM
Now I wonder how many CD's have gay brothers. My conversation with mine went like
Him "I'm gay."
ME "I wear dresses"
Him. "Lets grab a beer"

I belong to the same club but I haven't spoken to him yet about it
Vi
11-02-2009, 10:00 PM
Hey aggsters i just noticed you had posted this, sometimes i dont check the posts. Glad it went well for you! If anyone notices your new top when you wear it he will probably instantly register its a femme article when he sees it lol.
StephanieAnn
11-02-2009, 10:27 PM
Gald to hear you told your brother. I myself have no brothers just 3 older sisters. Not sure how they would take the news.
aggi123
11-03-2009, 11:05 AM
How did he react when you told? How did the conversation start? Details!

He pretty much just was surprised I hadn't told him sooner! Mad about it lol. He didn't believe me at first.

I had a nice little speech prepared so I just went up to him and asked him if we could go to lunch on me. He said no (ruining my plans, bro!) So I said pleeeease I really want to talk to you about something..

He then started screaming at me "If you're gonna give me bad news then you better just come out with it!" Lol he was in a bad mood I think, so I didn't give my little speech I had prepared and just came out with it. He had lots of questions.



Now I wonder how many CD's have gay brothers.

I think it's more interesting that he is my twin brother.
Christina Horton
01-01-2010, 06:23 PM
It's funny My sister is gay and she asked me how I told my family . At first she was telling everybody that she was Bi. I think she was thinking she was Bi cuz she did not want to think she was fully gay.

My Uncle is a transvestite and Only Under dresses and at home wears night gowns to bed and he also have a few high heal shoes like 5 and 6 in pumps. He never want to dress fully like I do but My family is either very weired , Or very normal . What ya all think.