Advise please

[Connie D50]

I have a chance to go shopping dressed (only for the second time) the first time I went with 1GG and other then 1 questionable stare felt like I passed. My question is this trip 2 GG's want to come soo does 3 ladies shopping draw more attention then 2? I'm I way over thinking this?

Connie

[renee k]

I think you'll be just fine. And yes your over thinking this. I'd love to have to gal pals to go shopping with, your a lucky gal. Just take their lead and have fun.

Huggs, Renee

[Sara Jessica]

What's more important, being out with friends having a good time or obsessing about whether or not one "passes" (something which we never really know for certain if we actually accomplish)???

[Sandra]

Yep your over thinking it :)

Just go with them and have some fun...and let us know how it goes.

[Jillt]

overthing!!!

[CherylFlint]

Way overthinking. Think POSITIVE and have a good time.

[suesan]

i agree, stop over thinking and enjoy yourself.

[anna kate]

Connie,
Have them take you out to lunch,too. Did the Olive Garden with my two nieces, on our last shopping excursion. Each time for me, becomes a memorable occasion. Enjoy!

[Karren H]

I think there's probably some exponential relationship between the number of shoppers... And getting noticed for sure... 1 is probably the safest and 2 is definately twice that of one but 3 is more like 6 times as likely to get notices... But that's just an estimate... The only sure number is zero... If you don't go then you have no chance of getting notice... Wonder what negative numbers do to the equation?

[carhill2mn]

Yes, you are "over-thinking this". Dress similarily to the GGs and act as they do and you will be just fine.

[az_azeel]

as the others have said.. stop overthinking and have agreat day shopping... im sure you will be fine.. ;)

[SherriePall]

Overthinking it. However, when three ladies are looked at, each one is looked at for a shorter period of time.

[Ras]

over thinking. There is strength in numbers!

[tamarav]

Heck yes you are over-thinking this! Just go and have a great time.

Some of the ladies I work with don't pass....

[KayVeau]

Have a great time. I have one gg that is close to me that helps me out. You are a lucky girl.

[sissy meg]

Connie,

Where are you going to go shopping? I get up to your area once in a while and am always looking for cd friendly places to go.

Any bars, etc in the area?

Have fun and buy some pretty outfits

Hugs and kisses,
Meghan

[IamSara]

over thinking. Go enjoy yourself.
Sarah :rose2:

[sherri52]

You'll be fine and I would think less attention will befall you

[trannie T]

You are most definately underthinking, you have a chance to go shopping with two ladies. What is there to ponder? Do not squander the opportunity.

[Ugly Michele]

Go for it and enjoy, wish I could do this just once.

[Carly D.]

That depends, are there masks and weapons involved?? actually I think women do shop in groups sometimes...

[NathalieX66]

Just GO!!!

[Elizebeth]

Go then brag to us how great it was.

[Sandy Banks]

I would, if I could............:thumbsup:

[windycissy]

Of course you’re overthinking, we all do, that’s what makes this place: Should I go out dressed? Should I tell my SO? Pantyhose or stockings?

The answer to your question is yes, being with 2 real women will definitely improve your odds of passing, here’s a tip: if you’re way taller than the ladies, suggest that they wear heels and you wear flats, a great equalizer.

The opposite is true, of course, if you’re with two other crossdressers, then the lowest common denominator rule applies: the least passable person drags the others down….