What would you prefer?

[nicola_j]

If you are in a relationship with a woman, would you prefer to go to bed with her:

1) with her dressed up in gorgeous, sexy lingerie and you naked?
2) with you dressed up in gorgeous, sexy lingerie and her naked?

I know that I would want to answer "with her dressed up in gorgeous, sexy lingerie and you dressed up in gorgeous, sexy lingerie", but that is not an option for this game!

[PaulaJeanette]

Nicola,

Is taking turns an option? How about #1, then switching to #2? One thing I've found about myself from being a lifelong crossdresser...being flexible and switching from one to the other is most natural and common.

Enjoy dressing...I am right now and loving every moment!

Paula J.

[nicola_j]

Paula J,

I guess the real question is "If my girlfriend wore sexy lingerie in bed more and satisfied my lingerie fetish, would I'd stop wearing it myself in secret?"

Probably not!

I love the feel of women's lingerie whether on myself or on a women. Given the choice I would prefer to see my girlfriend dressed up in sexy lingerie as she looks great in it - I would definitely go for option #1, but given that see doesn't dress up for bed much, I compensate and dress up myself when she is not here. I'm not sure I'd go for option #2, but would definitely like us both to dress up together.

Nicola xx

[PaulaJeanette]

Nicola,

My first love is to wear lingerie but seeing and feeling it on my wife is also good! As you say though, both partners being dressed is the ONLY way to go.

Interested in seeing what the other girls comment are.

Paula J.

[diane]

My wife in sexy lingerie ... no question hands down. She is one SEXY lady who has incredible legs and wears heels very well. One of my greatest thrills in life is when she comes to bed with garter belt, silk stockings and 5" heels.

(But as I assume you already know the most fun is when we both go to bed that way)

[PaulaJeanette]

Nicola:

Everytime I see one of your posts, I can't help but look at your avatar. It is so hot!

Good thread by the way...

Paula J.

[ChristineRenee]

If you are in a relationship with a woman, would you prefer to go to bed with her:

1) with her dressed up in gorgeous, sexy lingerie and you naked?
2) with you dressed up in gorgeous, sexy lingerie and her naked?

I know that I would want to answer "with her dressed up in gorgeous, sexy lingerie and you dressed up in gorgeous, sexy lingerie", but that is not an option for this game!Speaking for myself...option 2. Speaking for my wife...probably option 1, but knowing she would probably only feel good about herself if she lost a lot of weight and was "firmed up." Still a lot of self-esteem issues for the missus.


Christine

[Marda]

Hi Girls

Communication, whether it be physical, mental and/or spiritual (sensual is *in* here)is a 2 way street

Personally I don't see this as a "Me" or "You" situation ... but rather a "which one of us is leading the other on *tonite's* "Voyage to Paradise"

If I'm *Truly Unselfish* in Lovemaking, I give the option to my Sweetheart ... it's *Really Her* who turns me on ... if she expresses a desire to *Take Me* rather than to *Be Taken* ... ready ??

"She D' Man" !!!

Love / Marda

[Madilyn]

...this poll must have option three. It's three or nothing for me....see? :p

[Bernadina]

We both dress for bed all the time. So 3 is for me too.

[Elaine36b]

Mmm, definitly option three, for me, its was great when she took over!

[Stelli]

How about #4: Both naked?

(Somehow I find lingerie not to be cruical prerequisite)