~Emma D~
11-27-2009, 11:49 AM
Last weekend was not very good for me, this is an account of where my thoughts went over those few days.
It is quite long and for that I apologise.
Friday
Last Friday I was out for the night from work, with both male and female colleagues. I tend to avoid these events, partly as I prefer not too drink that much at night and more often than not, the girls are always impeccably dressed which only heightens my anxieties as the night goes on.
This night was different, sure I was envious of so many people that night, but late on in the night, a lady walked into the bar wearing a dress that I had bought myself two weeks earlier. She looked fabulous and the dress was so gorgeous on her, she made it look good – I could not help but notice her later as she was dancing with a guy - with the only thoughts going through my mind were of how I wished that was me – I was so jealous. I had the same dress and how I wanted to be wearing mine on a night out.
Making excuses, l left soon after – probably a bit worse for wear, particularly with my thoughts as they were. A few tears on the way home, just wishing!
Saturday
The following morning was worse again, at home I was overcome with guilt, hatred of myself, and saw no point in anything anymore.
There were a few femme things in my car, make-up and lingerie I had just bought and these were purged without any thought whatsoever. All my other possessions were where I could not easily get too, so they survived at that point.
Sunday
I retrieved the remainder of my possessions and put in my car, intending to give away to charity shop on Monday.
However, as the day went on, the question I asked myself, time and time again, was why – not again?
Becoming more and more gutted and sick at the thought of what I was about to do.
On Sunday night I read so many posts on the forum, including those of my own, realising that nothing had actually changed in my thoughts since I had joined, if anything, I had felt I was becoming stronger – so much so that I have gone out in public fully en femme.
Monday
I did not purge anymore, the cycle I have gone through so many times was broken on this occasion.
Thanks to Everyone:hugs:
It is quite long and for that I apologise.
Friday
Last Friday I was out for the night from work, with both male and female colleagues. I tend to avoid these events, partly as I prefer not too drink that much at night and more often than not, the girls are always impeccably dressed which only heightens my anxieties as the night goes on.
This night was different, sure I was envious of so many people that night, but late on in the night, a lady walked into the bar wearing a dress that I had bought myself two weeks earlier. She looked fabulous and the dress was so gorgeous on her, she made it look good – I could not help but notice her later as she was dancing with a guy - with the only thoughts going through my mind were of how I wished that was me – I was so jealous. I had the same dress and how I wanted to be wearing mine on a night out.
Making excuses, l left soon after – probably a bit worse for wear, particularly with my thoughts as they were. A few tears on the way home, just wishing!
Saturday
The following morning was worse again, at home I was overcome with guilt, hatred of myself, and saw no point in anything anymore.
There were a few femme things in my car, make-up and lingerie I had just bought and these were purged without any thought whatsoever. All my other possessions were where I could not easily get too, so they survived at that point.
Sunday
I retrieved the remainder of my possessions and put in my car, intending to give away to charity shop on Monday.
However, as the day went on, the question I asked myself, time and time again, was why – not again?
Becoming more and more gutted and sick at the thought of what I was about to do.
On Sunday night I read so many posts on the forum, including those of my own, realising that nothing had actually changed in my thoughts since I had joined, if anything, I had felt I was becoming stronger – so much so that I have gone out in public fully en femme.
Monday
I did not purge anymore, the cycle I have gone through so many times was broken on this occasion.
Thanks to Everyone:hugs: