Destiny
12-08-2009, 05:13 PM
...or at least it's been good for me. Here's why
1) I now eat much healthier and excersize, a side effect of striving for a more feminine physique.
2) My hygiene is better, if was always pretty good, but now I spend alot more time on myself, everything from keeping my nails clean and presentable to facial cleansers, moisturizing, shaving, waxing and even occasional oatmeal baths. :)
3) My demeanor is much improved, getting in touch with the inner me has helped me be more patient and understanding to those around me. Even as a male, the fem still bleeds over to an extent and I think it has made me much more pleasurable to be around. (I wasnt that bad before..well..maybe a little lol)
4) I just feel better, maybe it's the weight loss and the taking care of myself more or maybe it's the fact that I am now doing what I dreamed of my whole life. I think it has alot to do with the way I have started to enjoy some of lifes little pleasures like a long hot bath with a scrungee and nice smelling bodywash as opposed to a quick shower with a wash rag or better yet, only a bar of soap. I feel like I have been taking myself for granted for so long now and I am really happy with me that I am paying myself more attention now. (Im not near as self centered as that last sentence made me sound lmao)
5) I feel closer than ever with my wife, we have soooo much more in common and I now know the things she goes thru every day that never occured to me before, walking on heels for hours, ingrown hairs or (eeek!) bad hair days. lol
I feel like anything (withing reason) that makes you feel happy should not be overlooked, if you enjoy wearing a dress then do it, if you like wearing a wig then do it too because when you feel good you stand the chance of living a much longer and more enjoyable life. Stress leads to numerous health issues and I dont know that I've ever been stressed out and wearing heels at the same time. :)
Just my opinions
1) I now eat much healthier and excersize, a side effect of striving for a more feminine physique.
2) My hygiene is better, if was always pretty good, but now I spend alot more time on myself, everything from keeping my nails clean and presentable to facial cleansers, moisturizing, shaving, waxing and even occasional oatmeal baths. :)
3) My demeanor is much improved, getting in touch with the inner me has helped me be more patient and understanding to those around me. Even as a male, the fem still bleeds over to an extent and I think it has made me much more pleasurable to be around. (I wasnt that bad before..well..maybe a little lol)
4) I just feel better, maybe it's the weight loss and the taking care of myself more or maybe it's the fact that I am now doing what I dreamed of my whole life. I think it has alot to do with the way I have started to enjoy some of lifes little pleasures like a long hot bath with a scrungee and nice smelling bodywash as opposed to a quick shower with a wash rag or better yet, only a bar of soap. I feel like I have been taking myself for granted for so long now and I am really happy with me that I am paying myself more attention now. (Im not near as self centered as that last sentence made me sound lmao)
5) I feel closer than ever with my wife, we have soooo much more in common and I now know the things she goes thru every day that never occured to me before, walking on heels for hours, ingrown hairs or (eeek!) bad hair days. lol
I feel like anything (withing reason) that makes you feel happy should not be overlooked, if you enjoy wearing a dress then do it, if you like wearing a wig then do it too because when you feel good you stand the chance of living a much longer and more enjoyable life. Stress leads to numerous health issues and I dont know that I've ever been stressed out and wearing heels at the same time. :)
Just my opinions