AKAMichelle
12-23-2009, 07:05 PM
A few days ago, I posted a thread about my middle son and his misunderstanding my crossdressing. I feel a great deal of this comes either directly or indirectly from my wife who is very unaccepting.
Today I had a talk with my oldest son. That talk couldn't have been much different. He told me that he was accepting and understood to a point. He still thinks it is weird which is ok. My son surprised me by telling me of one of his friends crossdressed at college and went out that way with his girlfriend.
The biggest difference between the 2 boys was that at least the oldest one allowed me to tell him how it all started and what I learned from accepting myself. I think that made a big difference to not think less of his dad.
Today I had a talk with my oldest son. That talk couldn't have been much different. He told me that he was accepting and understood to a point. He still thinks it is weird which is ok. My son surprised me by telling me of one of his friends crossdressed at college and went out that way with his girlfriend.
The biggest difference between the 2 boys was that at least the oldest one allowed me to tell him how it all started and what I learned from accepting myself. I think that made a big difference to not think less of his dad.