Still crossdressing 10 years from now?

[emmicd]

Do you think you will still be crossdressing 10 years from now and possibly even further into the future?

Did you ever contemplate or dream of going to your highschool reunion crossdressed?

Emmi

[Lisa Maren]

Hi everyone

Will I still be CDing in ten years? Erm, will the pope still be catholic in 10 years? :D lol

Yup, I'm sure I probably will be. I won't want to kill off half of me then any more than I do now. If I'm married with children in ten years I may have to make some sacrifices, but Lisa will still be very much alive.

Going to my high school reunion dressed? Not likely. I don't feel a need to do that. Plus, I went to a protestant prep-school (at least at the time of its founding) so that would not likely go over very well -- better than a Catholic school, to be sure :D but not likely well.

Hugs,
Lisa

[uknowhoo]

Well, I've been doing it for almost thirty years. I can't imagine I won't still be doing it 10 years hence (hopefully I will not have resorted to granny panties).

As for the reunion thing, it's fun to think about going en femme, but I don't see that happening (an all guys Catholic H.S.).

[Phoebe Reece]

I've been crossdressing and going out for more than 30 years. I expect the next 10 years will be more of the same, and the next 10, and the next 10....

I'm not prepared to out myself to what's left of my high school class, even though I am not in regular contact with any of them. Not even in my dreams would I do it. I have enough other opportunities to get out and about as my femmeself.

[Rainbow6562005]

Doing this in ten years? If I'm still alive, for sure! :cheer:

Going CD to my high-school reunion? :eek: (I am SO glad that I'm totally disinterested in dressing-up outside my home. Whew!)

Rainbow

[cosmolovesph]

10 years? you bet

20? 30? 40? of course :thumbsup:

[Jesse69]

I've been crossdressing since 1990. Tried 3 times to quit, longest lasted 8 months. I sometimes feel like quitting now but I won't purge - I'll just store everything in the garage and sell some stuff on ebay.

I would never go to any reunion crossdressed or mention that I am a crossdressor.

[Tristen Cox]

Crossdressing doesn't go away, not in five years, ten years, forty or fifty years. There is no cure so don't expect to find one.

[Deanna2]

Crossdressing doesn't go away, not in five years, ten years, forty or fifty years. There is no cure so don't expect to find one.

I wonder why you talk about a 'cure' when there is nothing wrong.

Luvya

[Tristen Cox]

I wonder why you talk about a 'cure' when there is nothing wrong.

Luvya
I'm not everyone else keeps bringing it up like there should be some deadline we all stop dressing, like the question in this thread. How can you stop what simply is?

[emmicd]

I realize as a crossdresser who has been doing it since I was 9 and earliest recollection was at age 5 that I will be crossdressing till the very end. I only posed the question in a way as a satirical view since most crossdressers have no real control to stop nor a desire to stop. It seems that it is part of the crossdressers makeup. They can't help it!

I certainly have no control over it. I've tried to styfle it but very unsuccessful!

As far as revealing it to others. I don't think so! Only a few people know! I don't need a public forum to dress up. I prefer my privacy. The highscool reunion question is asked just because it usually takes place 20, 25, 30, 40 and 50 years after highschool and most longterm crossdressers have been doing it possibly for that length of time. I was just curious if they ever feel no big deal anymore. I don't care what others think. I will dress or at least dream about dressing at this occasion.

Emmi

[Deanna2]

Sorry Tristen. I really meant 'everyone'. I shouldn't have said 'you' meaning 'you personally'.

Perhaps people should take note that there is nothing wrong with crossdressing at any level, other than perhaps the opportunities to indulge don't always come often enough.

Luvya

[Olivia]

Tristen said:
How can you stop what simply is?

I certainly agree. How could it ever stop? Olivia

[tammie]

Hi everyone: In the beginning I CDed for sexual excitement. After 40 yrs now I do it often because it feels good, is relaxing and I just enjoy it for differant reasons. My point being; if I still enjoy crossdressing even after its not a sexual event, I expect I will be doing it long after I am past that part of my life. I am 54yo now and I know my libido has slowed somewhat. I still get worked up into a frenzy when I see some beautiful young hardbody who smiles at me, problem is they R thinking grandfather and I am thinking heels in the air in my bed for the night, forget an hour.

[Paula Rae]

Hey Ladies

Quote: Deanna2
"Perhaps people should take note that there is nothing wrong with crossdressing at any level,"

Crossdressing is wrong when you hurt others, especially when it's someone you love. i.e. wife, SO or children.

If CrossDressing is ruining your life, you certainly can quit, just like an alcoholic or a smoker can quit. It more than likely will not be easy, but it can be done. I know this to be true, because I am an Alcoholic, but I have been clean for ELEVEN years, and I quit smoking 5½ years ago.

Am I going to quit CrossDressing? No, I am OUT to everyone who matters and I love doing it.
I do expect to be CrossDressing eleven years from now.

Ricki B

[Rikki]

I would probably say yes , I will more'n likely be cross dressing ten years from now, if I am still alive and capable to dress myself. I've been doing it near on fifty years now, so the chances are that I may still be doing it for a while longer.


Rikki

[Angela Burke]

10 years from now?
A million years from now!

You bet! You bet!

Love Angela XX

ps I'm getting buried or burned (don't really care!) in drag!

[Gemma]

10 mins, 10 years or 100 years, as long as I'm still breathing, Yes! :D

[FionaAlexis]

Hi Emmi,

I don't know - is the short answer.

My current needs and plans are that I will be....but then I wasn't dressing in 1995.....but I was in 1985........but I wasn't in 1975.......but I was in 1965.....but I wasn't in 1955 cos I was a baby. So if I follow my past pattern I'll get cheesed off with it sometime in June 2010 - winter solstice.

However - I think the follow up questions, Emmi, are:

Will I be the same in 10 years? Or will I be more or less feminised? Will I be 'better' ? And move to a different level? Maybe like Natasha, will I want to go from 'Sometimes' to 'Full Time'. I don't think so - but who knows....

Fiona xx

[RachelDenise]

There is no doubt that I will be crossdressing 10 yrs from now and longer into the future. High school reunion? Doubt it, I never really liked most of those people so I don't go!

[Clare]

Well, I've been doing it for almost thirty years. I can't imagine I won't still be doing it 10 years hence.

As for the reunion thing, it's fun to think about going en femme, but I don't see that happening (an all guys Catholic H.S.).

Ditto!

Tammi, are we twins and did we go to the same school? (my school was co-ed though).

Christine

[Amelie]

Do you think you will still be crossdressing 10 years from now and possibly even further into the future?

Did you ever contemplate or dream of going to your highschool reunion crossdressed?

Emmi

I will be dressing ten years from now,,,that is if they bury me in fem clothes.


First, I would have to go to high school before I can go to a reunion.

[Trish]

I've been dressing for about 36 years. I don't think it will ever end. I still enjoy dressing, and don't see that to stop durring my life time.

[Wendy me]

10 years from now hell yes i will be dressing like quitting is going to happen...
the high school reuion in fem could be intresting but not worth the trouble ..

[Tristen Cox]

Sorry Tristen. I really meant 'everyone'. I shouldn't have said 'you' meaning 'you personally'.

Perhaps people should take note that there is nothing wrong with crossdressing at any level, other than perhaps the opportunities to indulge don't always come often enough.

Luvya
Quite true. (forgive me I was tired when I replied to you) No offense Emmi, but the question does seem a bit silly in all honesty. I've known a few people who have had to give up the physical dressing part, but it's something you never give up in your mind. It doesn't go away. It's not a disease.

A wonderful quote I heard somewhere in my studies:
If it harms no one, do as you will
I will be doing and wearing what I want to for the rest of my life. Why? Because it IS my life and no one else's. I have that right to choice "as long as it harms no one". I could fool myself and say "Well if I meet the right person, I could give it up". But that would turn out a lie in the end.

[Tiffy]

I have suffered twenty years to become ok with the fact that I am a CD. Now I love that fact, it is my better half for sure. And I now know I am not broken and do not need fixing. So there is no way I would ever want to give up something I worked twenty years to get. And still working on making myself better with it.

Kisses, April

[eleventhdr]

Since i was not a gg this time im looking forward to my next life when i will be and then again once this body does die my soul is female so it will return to that state once this body dies. Suzy!.

[Toni]

Hi Girls,

When I was 20 I wondered if I'd be doing it when I was 30. Now that I am 63 I know with all my being that I will be wearing womens clothes until I am physically unable to or I have kicked the bucket. There is no "Cure" just go with the flow.

[Jamie M]

I just thank god that , although we might not initially believe it , we live in a more tolerant world than those sisters who have gone before us .

I remember reading stories of ladies like us as little as 30 years ago who were 'treated' for crossdressing with electro shock therapy and various cocktails of sedatives as well as other nightmares.

It's still worth remembering that there are still some countries with attitudes that have not caught up with our own.

[Stormgirl]

Do you think you will still be crossdressing 10 years from now and possibly even further into the future?

Did you ever contemplate or dream of going to your highschool reunion crossdressed?

Emmi


If I am not dead

F**k high school

[Sharon]

Who knows? When I'm dressing this way ten years from now, perhaps I won't actually be crossdressing any longer,

[Jo_2s]

Yes, for as long as I'am alive and no I would not go to a reunion, why would you want to ? Do you want to shock, stand out, get people talking and pointing the finger ?
My dream would be one day to be able to walk out, dressed and no one notice me ( fat chance ) or, and you wont belive this, to go out as the other me, just a man in a skirt and not have to try to pass.

[jenniferluv]

I spent 30 years trying to kill this thing off.....I finally gave up..so, yes i'll still be dressing even when i'm ancient (i'm just old right now)....and mabe for my final dress i'll be that little old lady lying in her coffin in the pink polka dot mini!!!

[michellej]

They are going to have to bury me with my nice, pretty undergarments! Or go buy some man thingies.

[eileen1969]

THE REST OF MY NATURAL LIFE! so put up with me and deal with me! until such a day comes! :p :p :p :p

[Teddie]

First, do I want to stop crossdressing :evilbegon Hell no! :eyes:

Now, will I be crossdressing 10 years from how? Hmmmm... Since I've been doing it for about 50 years. There are no if's, and's, or but's about. Yes! :dance:

[Ophelia D'Void]

Hmm, been dressing since about 1982/1984? Can remember exactly. There was a post by someone (can't remember who, but I think she was very beautiful and erudite) a while back regarding the whole cure for crossdressing thing.

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=922

Ya, I know I'm a ham...
O

[Anita]

In 10 Years Yes And Beyond That I Intend To Be The First Crossdressing Angel

[Natalie x]

They are going to have to bury me with my nice, pretty undergarments! Or go buy some man thingies.

Way ta go, Michelle!! :love:

[JenniRose]

Who knows! If I live that long I can assure you that I will be crossdressing, but other than that, who knows!

JenniRose

[Carla_CD]

I have been with the love of my life for 11 years now...

And still feel the need to express my femm side. (Just wish she'd let me shave....)

[gender_blender]

I don't plan to stop being the person I was clearly meant to be.

If I go to my high school reunion, I will be wearing that in which I feel comfortable. I may not be crossdressed, but I certainly won't be conforming to any popular appearance-based delusion such as gender.


Charlie

[ronna]

Good question, Emmi...
Ever heard of 'classmates?'
I got a free account there and my profile picture is Ronna!
It would be pretty hard for me to go back there like that, but that is where I am now

[kysmet]

10 years? I've made it this far, why stop now? As far as high school goes, I went to four different ones. I work with a friend that I graduated with and he knows, but he is the only one and I like it that way. My graduating class consisted mostly of uptight, snobbish prats. So I really don't care what they think of me anymore. I did attend my five year reunion with my then fiance. That moment proved to me that I never want to see any of those people again.

Ericka Jean

[pantywearer208]

Quite true. (forgive me I was tired when I replied to you) No offense Emmi, but the question does seem a bit silly in all honesty. I've known a few people who have had to give up the physical dressing part, but it's something you never give up in your mind. It doesn't go away. It's not a disease.

A wonderful quote I heard somewhere in my studies:
If it harms no one, do as you will
I will be doing and wearing what I want to for the rest of my life. Why? Because it IS my life and no one else's. I have that right to choice "as long as it harms no one". I could fool myself and say "Well if I meet the right person, I could give it up". But that would turn out a lie in the end.

just a question tristen. is this a forum to ask questions or not? it seems on a lot of posts, you either stae that this question has been asked before so many times or in this case " a silly one". maybe some of us weren't here when questions were asked before and maybe to some a question is not silly. if you don't like a question or have heard it too many times why do you answer it?

[Tristen Cox]

just a question tristen. is this a forum to ask questions or not? it seems on a lot of posts, you either stae that this question has been asked before so many times or in this case " a silly one". maybe some of us weren't here when questions were asked before and maybe to some a question is not silly. if you don't like a question or have heard it too many times why do you answer it?
Fair enough, I must make a note that you did not answer the question yourself and instead questioned me.


Crossdressing doesn't go away, not in five years, ten years, forty or fifty years. There is no cure so don't expect to find one.
I was making an educated statement in my first reply, attempting to 'in my own' way answer for myself which was questioned because I mentioned the word 'cure'.



Quote:
Originally Posted by Deanna2
I wonder why you talk about a 'cure' when there is nothing wrong.

Luvya


I'm not, everyone else keeps bringing it up like there should be some deadline we all stop dressing, like the question in this thread. How can you stop what simply is?

I was making a point that there is no time limit, when you start or when you stop. So the question "would you still be dressing in ten years" to me and many others here (judging by the responses) would seem in 'a way' silly because we know we will be life long crossdressers.

Emmi has the right to ask anything here, and I like anyone else have the right to respond.

[Priscilla1018]

Very well said.Personaly there is nothing to cure,I will be doing this until I die.About the High School reunion bit most of those people wher Glass Boles.