minalost
01-04-2010, 03:22 PM
Okay, I posted last week that I went to my wife and told her that I wanted to start dressing again…
She came to me last night and said she was ready to talk about it some more – I think the fact that she came to me is a good sign :)! It turns out that she went on line and found some sites that talked about crossdressing from the spouse’s point of view (God I love that woman :love:!). She was a little more understanding but not quite ready to see me dressed yet. Just as well, I’m still working on my wardrobe and money is a problem – although she did say she would be willing to help me shop for clothing:)!
We talked about how far I wanted to go – no sex change, no permanent changes in my body, but I do want to start shaving my legs and some “other” areas. We talked about her other fears and about my needs and why I feel the way I do. I really think we both made some headway.
I didn’t press for a date/time when I could dress yet. She doesn’t want me to go out in public at all :sad:, but I got her to add “in our local town” and we would talk about other towns when I was ready.
I’m sure we’ll talk again, but it looks good so far. The anticipation is starting to drive me a little nuts! Hopefully I’ll even have pictures!
Thanks again for listening!
She came to me last night and said she was ready to talk about it some more – I think the fact that she came to me is a good sign :)! It turns out that she went on line and found some sites that talked about crossdressing from the spouse’s point of view (God I love that woman :love:!). She was a little more understanding but not quite ready to see me dressed yet. Just as well, I’m still working on my wardrobe and money is a problem – although she did say she would be willing to help me shop for clothing:)!
We talked about how far I wanted to go – no sex change, no permanent changes in my body, but I do want to start shaving my legs and some “other” areas. We talked about her other fears and about my needs and why I feel the way I do. I really think we both made some headway.
I didn’t press for a date/time when I could dress yet. She doesn’t want me to go out in public at all :sad:, but I got her to add “in our local town” and we would talk about other towns when I was ready.
I’m sure we’ll talk again, but it looks good so far. The anticipation is starting to drive me a little nuts! Hopefully I’ll even have pictures!
Thanks again for listening!