Consider your mate!

[christinek]

Would any of you consider another CD or Trans as a soul mate?

I am asking due to I would!

The thought of sharing my life with someone else with this curse would be amazing, who else would understand you better. Who else would not judge you for being what and who you are!

I welcome you comments?

[Lorileah]

who else would steal your clothes, mess up your bathroom with makeup, complain about how no one understands her?

It does not matter what the the person I am with wears, or how they perceive themselves. All that would matter is if I enjoyed being with them. But being with another CD would be a challange

[Sally2005]

The way I see it, you don't get to choose your soul mate, so sure, why not?

[suchacutie]

My current perspective is that there is so much to learn about being a woman that only a GG can explain that I do and continue to prefer a GG longterm. Ok, that's selfish in some regard, but sharing between each other these very personal experiences of growing up one gender by interested in the other has brought us very very close and I can't imagine a better connection in a soul mate.

tina

[Loni]

one does not chose there life partner. so why not.

but I would not call being a cd, a curse, but a blessing.

others not able to handle this, have the curse of a closed mind.

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[carolinoakland]

yes and no. both would most definately have to be post everything

[kellycan27]

Nope

[Danica_7]

I'd date a trans , FtM OR MtF but i'd have to be fairly attracted to that "Person"

I'm not opposed to any gender variance really. As long as they're awsome.

CD i dont know. I might, but i havent explored that side of my sexuality enough to really know yet...Im trying..

[Daniela76]

I would be willing to be with a MtF fully trans person. No male anatomy allowed. However I have already stated that I would be willing to have a little clothed fun with another CD who was really pretty.

[Phyliss]

I guess the key word here is "CONSIDER". Yeah I would. Now, having said that, there is the reality of the situation, which can be a whole different thing. Having as a "soul mate" and living with a "trans" person would have challenges, but, I think they could be overcome, provided we cared very much for each other.
Now, living with a CD would be lots of fun ... for the first three hours and fifteen minutes. Then would come the comments about fashion sense, and how the other one is totally lacking in it. The catty nasty comments about leaving lipstick stains on the glasses. That and why do you wear those old fashion granny panties? Somehow I just don't think it would work.

[Schatten Lupus]

I could be with another TS, MTF, FTM, pre or post-op, no problem. A CD though, it would depend. I think the only hang up I would have is if it was a CD that done it for sexual purposes. I myself am not turned on by crossdressing, or crossdressers, so I don't think that would work to well.

[christinek]

A lot of really good opinions here, Thanks

I am happily married and sometimes feel bad that she did not choose this in here spouse. I do not dress as often as I would like either do to the same. I do get out and she is fully (at least says so) accepting.

I always wonder what may be on the other side I may be missing or depriving my spouse of.

[Renee_E]

Whats to consider. A soul mate is not a choice but a person who fits your life like a glove. I couldn' t reject a soul mate it would be too painful.

[Katesback]

Very touchey question. The odds are very unlikely I would date anyone in the TG community. Why? Well for one I work for trans people in my job. In my personal life I take that hat off and I am just the girl. If I were to date someone who was trans I would probably be putting my own personal life back into trans land. IS that really good for my own health and outlook? Do I want to deal with this in my persoanal life?

I think ya get where I am comming from. Now I would consider a TG person however they would have to have the uncommon ability to detach thier TG stuff when they were in my presence. I know I sound like the typical wife but needless to say that is how I feel.

Katie

[Kate Simmons]

It would depend entirely on the person Hon.:)

[Sandra]

The thought of sharing my life with someone else with this curse would be amazing,

Oh please don't say that, it's not a curse it's who you are.




who else would understand you better. Who else would not judge you for being what and who you are!


Ummm there are some GGs who understand and don't judge.

[KarenHiller]

Love the person, not the genitals. It's who they are inside that's important.

Karen

[Samantha_Smile]

As long as your hearts and minds are connected then what else matters?
Its all too easy to cast judgement on whatever strays from 'the norm' we should all know this better than anyone.
But the fact of the matter is that x-dressing is for straight, gay and bi alike.

Ive never liked pigeon holing.
This is yet another reason why.

[kellycan27]

Love the person, not the genitals. It's who they are inside that's important.

Karen

I agree, but there are other things to consider and sex is one of them. (I am trying to tread lightly here as to not offend anyone's sensibilities). I haven't had a lot of experience, but I do enjoy it.... so genitals would actually be a major consideration when choosing a partner. What a person is on the inside is important to be sure, but what they have on the outside could come in pretty handy too. What do you do if it's raining or cold outside or there is nothing on TV? :heehee:

[Sandra]

What do you do if it's raining or cold outside or there is nothing on TV? :heehee:

Talk, read a book :tongueout sorry couldn't resist

[christinek]

Very touchey question. The odds are very unlikely I would date anyone in the TG community. Why? Well for one I work for trans people in my job. In my personal life I take that hat off and I am just the girl. If I were to date someone who was trans I would probably be putting my own personal life back into trans land. IS that really good for my own health and outlook? Do I want to deal with this in my persoanal life?

I think ya get where I am comming from. Now I would consider a TG person however they would have to have the uncommon ability to detach thier TG stuff when they were in my presence. I know I sound like the typical wife but needless to say that is how I feel.

Katie

Hey Katie, we have met! I remember you from the SCC