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charlytuna
01-09-2010, 11:32 PM
This may have been brought up before but I may hve missed it
I just been wondering how to passm out in the public as a women being 6'3"? I been looking and haven't seen women yet that tall. So any suggestion?
aggi123
01-09-2010, 11:34 PM
I've seen plenty of women at least 6'0. Definitely don't overdress and keep away from heels
Try to dress like the local women you will be around. If you like fetish clothing, don't wear it to the mall. Flats or slingbacks are "regular" womens shoes. Have confidence.
Jeans and a top with out too much top ( Big boobs) and a fluffy hairdo. Light makeup.
I practiced and took a lot of pictures. When I first went out I was surprised as I passed a window and there was a woman walking beside me....it was me!
In general Blend in and have fun.
Be careful where you go alone.
charlytuna
01-09-2010, 11:54 PM
thank for the advice but being not young and weighting over 200 being tall a bit scary for me right now
angelfire
01-10-2010, 12:58 AM
Well, some shape-wear or a corset could help with your figure at least. I have met a few GGs who are over 6'0 (I'm almost 6'2, and I have met a few women taller than me, and who weight close to me, or possibly more).
Definitely stick with flats though. Heels will just make you look taller and draw more attention.
Jamz1b
01-10-2010, 01:10 AM
I have seen very few tall girls. I am just under 6'2" and love the look of heels. Of the few I have seen only 1 wore heels and she was a doll! I tried not to stare but I sure was excited to figure out her look quick.
The rest have been college sport players I have seen out and about. Not a look Im going for personaly. But most were super cute.
I think for the tall CD things that are natural and not flashy. I tend to look at the "New York" type styles more, dark colors and less skin.
I normally don't speak of family on the forum, but this thread has to be answered. I have a daughter who stands 5'-11 1/2" tall. She weighs about 145-150 lbs and wears 3" or 3 1/2" heels. Her girl friends tell her men don't like to look up at women. Her response is " They will get use to it."
:thumbsup:
Stitch
01-10-2010, 03:42 AM
I know lots of tall women. 2 of my co-workers are my age but 6 foot. One is one of most beautiful women I've ever seen, and that's spoken from an admiring view.
People come in all shapes and sizes. Don't let height worry you. :)
Elsa Larson
01-10-2010, 03:50 AM
Find a taller man - as a fashion accessory to start.
Get dolled up and hang out in the lounge of the hotel where the visiting WNBA team is staying.
Cultivate friendships with very tall women.
Watch stand-up comedy by Judy Gold (6'3").
Play beach volleyball with Kerri Walsh (6'3").
noeleena
01-10-2010, 04:38 AM
Hi..
Im 5 .9 11 stone =179 lb. shoe 11 womens . avergebuild . close to a woman . shape.
Now i have friends who are bigger weigh in more . have bigger feet . & stand at 6 ft & some more . our women in n z are getting bigger . over all . not a food detail like at mac s or fast food shops . just we are better now a days . than 40 years ago .& some are stronger
weight lifters . oooops time to get out of there way ....
So im getting to that point of hey these are gg ..
So i would not worry . well not yet .
Just go & you will see some arond in your outings .
...noeleena...
wendy360
01-10-2010, 10:54 AM
At 6'3 even in drab you are noticed. I'm 6'5 and get noticed in drab, not to be noticed while dressed while this tall not going to happen.
Janet Bern
01-10-2010, 11:06 AM
I am 6'3 and go out occasionally to malls and lunch during the weekdays. I have not had any problem blending and have blended very well. I shop the department stores in ladies sections and women really dont notice me.
I will confess as much as I like heels, I wear flats. I have worn womens pants or 3/4 length skirts with conservative clothes that wont arouse attention.
No problem at all now that there are more women that are around 6' in society. By the way I am 185lbs and wear a size 14 dress.
Janet (NJ)
johnboy23
01-10-2010, 11:33 AM
I wear heels to the gay bars but when I am out I just stick with flip flops normally or some converse
Kaitlyn Michele
01-10-2010, 11:36 AM
Well it depends on how you look and act otherwise..
having shoes and clothes appropriate for taller women and your specific build also matters..
i'm 6'2
msginaadoll
01-10-2010, 01:20 PM
Getting out and about, you notice women come in all sizes and shapes. Some of the most attractive cds i have met have been taller ladies. Anunber of sexxy drag queens I have seen have also been close to or over six feet tall.
angelfire
01-10-2010, 01:37 PM
At 6'3 even in drab you are noticed. I'm 6'5 and get noticed in drab, not to be noticed while dressed while this tall not going to happen.
I have some male friends who are 6'5 & 6'7, and yea, they get noticed pretty much everywhere they go.
Daniela76
01-10-2010, 02:06 PM
I normally don't speak of family on the forum, but this thread has to be answered. I have a daughter who stands 5'-11 1/2" tall. She weighs about 145-150 lbs and wears 3" or 3 1/2" heels. Her girl friends tell her men don't like to look up at women. Her response is " They will get use to it."
:thumbsup:
Amen for your daughter. I love tall women. (All women actually)
No problem looking up at a woman. She and I are almost the same height. I'd love that. I'd let a girl that tall wear higher heels & I'd be the girlfriend.
Oh and for the OP. 6'3" and over 200 is not really that big. Unless you are OVER 200.
Dorisnycd
01-10-2010, 02:39 PM
6'4" wear 5 inch heels all the time. Be confident otherwise u will never feel likE u belong!
Ugly Michele
01-10-2010, 02:47 PM
At 6'6"+ I like to go out but stay where mainly will be seen from afar. If someone is close I just keep walking. Do you really care? I don't but don't want to offend.
Joanne f
01-10-2010, 02:51 PM
I have seen many tall women and all of them have stood tall and proud you should do the same.
sherri52
01-10-2010, 03:09 PM
Dress appropriately for the area nad act naturally. You are taller than the normal girl but just go about your business and have a good time. At 6'3" you are sure to be noticed by someone but if you go about your business most will not even give you a second glance
I'm tall,,,but i try not to let it bother me, i could let it keep me down, or keep me indoors,,but the truth is that women are all sizes, so it really doesn't matter as much as you could build it up to. Just try to be confident, and stand as tall as you are, be proud of who you are, and have fun.
x flic x
Christina Horton
01-10-2010, 07:21 PM
If it were me and people were reading all the time . I would not worrie about it and just wear what I want and not care. But that's me, Last year I stopped caring what people thought and wear what I want. I am plus size and a very strong person and I don't pass well . I just wear what I want and have fun. When you get th that point then your stress level goes down so far you need a shovel to find it again. I love being this way now.
Your turn hun!!!
Staci G
01-10-2010, 07:36 PM
6'4" wear 5 inch heels all the time. Be confident otherwise u will never feel likE u belong!
Doris I have to agree I am 6'3" and love a 3-4 inch heel, I might get noticed but if I do I don't let it worry me.
christinek
01-10-2010, 07:52 PM
One of my genetic girlfriends is 6,2 and self conscious. We have had conversations about heels. I am 5,11 and we have figured that me in 5 inch stilettos and her in 2 inch heels we will be the same height. I do wear 5 inch heels too, see my profile pic :D
I explained to her that if she walked into the store in flats people may notice her, I walk in with 5" heels and every guy in there will notice. :heehee: GUARANTEED!
Ugly Michele
01-10-2010, 07:57 PM
One of my genetic girlfriends is 6,2 and self conscious. We have had conversations about heels. I am 5,11 and we have figured that me in 5 inch stilettos and her in 2 inch heels we will be the same height. I do wear 5 inch heels too, see my profile pic :D
I explained to her that if she walked into the store in flats people may notice her, I walk in with 5" heels and every guy in there will notice. :heehee: GUARANTEED!
She could wear 6 inch heels and still not look me eye to eye but would be close, if I was bare foot.
Julogden
01-11-2010, 11:50 AM
I have seen, on rare occasions, females in the 6'3"-6'5" range. They're almost always slender, so that leaves no hope for me at 6'5" and nowhere near slender. ;-)
Although, there have been a couple instances when I was mistaken for female when dressed totally male, once when I was fishing, for crying out loud, so I'm totally puzzled regarding my ability to pass. As a general rule, when I used to go out, I didn't pass, at least when standing.
Carol
JaytoJillian
01-11-2010, 12:35 PM
I'm a bit over 6' so, when I want to try to blend a bit, I opt for jeans, low -heeled boots, a dark top with long sleeves--not saying this pic is GG-quality, but the clothing is deliberately understated so as NOT to draw additional attention to the "tall chick with the big nose and the big hands," LOL.
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2738/4202997564_42e7d9c26e.jpg
tall sam
01-11-2010, 05:39 PM
Hi Girls,
I am 6'6" and even in guy mode get regular looks. Got a really weird look from an elderly lady today - she looked like she has seen a ghost!
So, I guess I wont exactly blend.
I have been out clubbing once and it wasnt too bad. Had a few interresting looks. The other t-girls I was with actually thought it was great that I was getting such attention, so there is something good in everything. Being slim and dressing with style rather than trying to be a **** does help blend.
I would love to be 6 foot as I would like to fit in a bit easier, but thats not going to happen until I am 75 and shrinking!
S, for the shorties out there - get out and enjoy yourself without being noticed!
LOL
Sam
sallyjones
01-11-2010, 07:18 PM
girl im 6'7" tall and i wear heels. a good way to go is womens jeans and a long shirt. a belt to break up the height is good to.
Teri Jean
01-11-2010, 08:52 PM
I stand 6-3 and 195lbs. I dress as a woman that I am everyday and have been told by many men and women that I pass well. I also work in a university athletic environment and there are plenty of women who are over 6ft tall.
Teri
charlytuna
01-13-2010, 09:01 PM
thank you all for all the encoragemrnt and some insites and all the well wishers angain thank you all
Kara Connor
01-13-2010, 10:11 PM
Since people notice tall GGs anyway - I love tall GGs by the way - I think it probably best that you just accept that you are going to get noticed. If you just have the mind set up front that you are not going to blend in as well as someone shorter, but you are going to be the best YOU can be, then that might help.
Having said that, I've never been out dressed and trying to pass as a GG, so I could be talking nonsense :) . I am 6'3" and when I do work up the courage, and find the right venue, to go out, I'm going to take the attitude that "I am what I am", though if I am presenting as female it would be courteous of people to treat me that way.
Tasha McIntyre
01-14-2010, 10:12 AM
I'm 6 ft 2 so try to stay away from shoes with a significant heel.....I think I'd break my ankles anyway lol.:doh:
Good luck
Tash :)
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