In bed with your wife en femme, ever?

[MarinaKirax]

Trying not to be too racy or explicit. But for those of you who have sympathetic SO's, where do you stand on the subject of marital relations with you dressed? My perspective is a straight CD, but I do have a femdom thing going on, too, and I have fantasized about my wife insisting I go to bed with her as a woman. (I think the term Male Lesbian kinda fits the situation) Is this something that other of 'us girls' think about? How about the SO's, does accepting your mate en femme extend to the bedroom, as long as the dance steps remain the same?

[Nicola2876]

I wore lingerie a couple of times with a girlfriend years ago but I didn't feel right. She was the wrong person I guess and my wife doesn't know I CD so not tried with her. I think I would like to be treated as a lady so I can't see it working for me.

[abigailf]

Many years ago, I had girlfriends that liked to dress me up before unmarital relations. But the wife is not into that. However, I had lingerie on during foreplay but was told to take it off before things progressed.

I would like to try being fully dressed. Maybe one day she will entertain me.

[Emma Leigh]

Yep, been there, done that! in fact it got to the point were it was the only thing we did! Note the past tense there!

[janet p]

I slept with my wife a good part of the time in femme and we would do it which ever way we felt,I always would at least have my panties on.:love:

[geri-tg.]

I always wear women's night clothes. Capri satin pj's or night shirts. Feels normal for us.

[Misty_VA]

I normally sleep in a nightown.

[Kimberly Michelle]

I am with geri-tg and Misty VA, it would be unusual for me not to go to bed (sleep or not) without a nightgown and almost always a bra and forms. Nothing like having her hold up my nightgown and feeling it cascade all over us when doing "the BAD thing!"

Kim

[kaitlin]

When it comes to the bed room, well lets just say Kaitlin get as much time as me! But it's not that big of a change, I always wear panties, legs are shaved and smooth and my toenails are always polished. So when we bring in Kaitlin we add in a sexy night gown, lacy bra and forms and a little makeup! As far as when and how often, that just depends on what mood were in! It's like bondage, were heavy into that as well but it just depends on the mood!

[SueanneW]

Every night in a silk night shirt. When it is playtime we bring out the baby dolls. It adds to the fun. SA

[stephi]

Not all of the time but about 30 % or so. Had some very racy times in all of the varieties that you could think of between two happily married people. Makes life very varied and interesting - wife has small love-heart tattoo on back with my drab name and one on top of left breast with Stephi.


:)

[belindat]

Always. My wife insists and even picks our the nigthies and panties for me.
Actually I don't think I could get a good nights sleep without wearing something frilly.
Even when travelling I always sleep 'atired'.

I feel so sad for those who don't have a supportive partner. And so lucky to have a partner who actually supports/encourages/insists my femme side.

[SouthernBelle.GG]

How about the SO's, does accepting your mate en femme extend to the bedroom, as long as the dance steps remain the same?

Absolutely! I like it when I pull back the covers and discover Hubby 'dressed' - he doesn't wear a wig or make up to bed(his choice). It's also fun to wear matching 'outfits'. He's not en femme every night, but he's free to be whenever he wants. As for 'as long as the dance steps remain the same'? Not necessarily. :D

[Michelle-Leigh]

We more or less lost interest in bedroom sports years ago and are celibate, but I always sleep in one of my silky-feeling nylon nightgowns with my hair on. I recently acquired good silicon forms, so I think I'll get some of that Hollister adhesive so I can sleep with the breasts on also.

[Sandra]

My SO is TS so of course she's allowed into the bedroom, so long as she brings a nice hunk with her. :D :D :D

[Ruth]

I always sleep (with my wife) in a nightgown and sometimes wear lacy panties underneath, but if we engage in marital relations (which isn't very often these days) it all comes off.

[msniki48]

Marina,

Yes, i sleep en femme with my wife at night. I usually wear silk PJ's a night gown or a full slip. if i am especially troubled by work or stress, she insists on me being dressed as i sleep much better...

Ps: the other part is better too...:heehee:

[Sally24]

Nope! My wife is very accepting, most of the time, but Sally is not allowed in the bedroom. We even try to avoid TG discussions in the bedroom to throw her off from being with her male mate. She isn't attracted to women at all and if she sees Sally when she looks in my face then all possiblities of fun are off for that night!

[Megan70]

Why sure, did it all the time, everythong wig included minus makeup. It is a marvelous experience for those who've never done that. The climax is unbelievable... but after a while the wife tires of the Suzy Q role playing that she does just to placate me and wants a man, her husband to make love to her. Her reason and rightly so is that we selfish narcistic CD's including me are more into making love to our clothes at that moment than our spouse underneath us, and its terribly unfair after a while. Don't push it.
That was many years ago and lasted for about 10 years on ocasion but those days are over and we are celibate alao for various personal reasons. No husband/wife sex.

Megan

[Missy]

some times in bed wearing underwear while making love
all the time sleeping
i let her feel like a woman
some times she treats me like woman
most of the time she treats me like a real man
we love each other

[allisonrn06]

I'm wearing lingerie nearly 100% of the time my wife and are... well you know:o

[amflguy]

So, the question to me is - where did you find these women? I find it amazing and I'm completely jealous.

I wouldn't even know how to get to that point in a relationship, and, if any of your wives have a sister with a similar personality, send them my way!

[ArleneRaquel]

No, never, darn it !:sad:

[RobynBella]

So, the question to me is - where did you find these women? I find it amazing and I'm completely jealous.

I wouldn't even know how to get to that point in a relationship, and, if any of your wives have a sister with a similar personality, send them my way!

Mine's bisexual. In her words "more attracted to girls, but can't live without... ;)" so that's how it works with me.

We haven't slept together while I'm dressed yet though, as we separated before we got the chance. Then I moved home to be near family. So once we're ready to give our marriage another chance, there will be plenty of that :D

[Carroll]

Yep, every now and them...completely dressed. First she....than she......and then.....:devil:

[DaisyG]

It took about a year after my wife "discovered" Daisy, for her to allow me into the bedroom wearing panties and a nightie. But when she did, my access came with unlimited privileges. However, she usually turned off the lights before the main event. :hugs:

Daisy :)

[Joann Smith]

Married people .....

still having sex ?

with each other ?

really !

got to tell the wife bout this one......


LOL

Joann

[2b.Lauren]

Married people .....

still having sex ?

with each other ?

really !

got to tell the wife bout this one......


LOL

Joann

Can't get it as the guy, so I know Lauren ain't getting no play.

[Jess]

When I first told my wife, she said absolutely no cuddling, etc.
She told me "I'm not into girls, that would be gross" one night, I pointed out "I'm not a girl, just dressed..." and almost immediately she was cuddling on the couch. The next night I was allowed to wear a cammi and matching panties, and was quite surprised to find her cuddling with me as we slept. As far as the "relations" go, I am still figuring this out myself (thanks to this site, and another I recently realized that nothing is actually wrong with me, and let her in on it), so I have not really tried.

[Andrea_girl]

I am so lucky that for the past 5 years i have slept with my so in a nightie

In fact i have more nighties than she does

[Terri Andrews]

We have had "Terri "in our bed and relations since we have been married and we both think it has enhanced our lives .

[dana 1]

I guess i'm lucky, my wife loves our intimate, moments in the bedroom when i'm dressed. of course it comes with a price, i have to give her a great back rub. but i enjoy that to, i look at myself in the mirror when i'm doing it. life is good

[Staci]

Yes we have. She has picked out what I wear at times. I am always sleeping at least in a pair of panties at night if not a nightgown of some type.

[love heels]

Yeh works for me i'v been to bed with my wife wearing stockings suspenders and panties, she loves it but not all the time! which suit me too. :)

[Tanya83]

No second thoughts. I have something soft and pretty on every night and when the time comes, well...:D

[Maria in heels]

I am lucky that my wife has totally accepted Maria, and all of my shoes and clothes as well. She has recently , since Halloween, actually started to participate fully in my dressing, helping with make up and nails, which is wonderful. Sometimes, I may not be dressed fully, but there is ALWAYS at lease a pair of my heels on during intimate times. Other times, I do dress and just be fine holding her, or vice versa...

[SuzanneBender]

Married people .....
still having sex ?
with each other ?
really !
got to tell the wife bout this one......
LOL
Joann

:yt::fs:because that sure isn't going on around here either!!!!---->>>:dom::lol2: OMG I feel so bad for reacting that way to your post but sometimes that Y chromosome just wont stay hidden.

I sleep in a long XXXL mens shirt and bikini panties. My wife tolerated lingerie until we had a crisis involving a tornado and then it was decided that since we have kids that probably wasnt the prudent thing to do. My wife has never allowed me to fully dress in bed.

[Rogina B]

I think that line of thought applies to many of us.And no big kisses as I am going out the door,either..."don't want to smear your lipstick like you do to mine..":2c:

[Jenniferpl]

I have worn everything to bed from nylons and garter belts to teddys to cotton slip shirts and everything else in between. It must do something for her, becasue she has aked me to dress up for her. It sure makes it fun.

[Abbyru1]

Tried a couple of times--but wifey really isn't keen on the idea.

[terrinoble]

I was married for three years; before the wedding we had been together two years, and she knew about me early on (the second time she met me I was fully dressed).
Before the marriage, I went to bed with her while wearing a black negligee. She had a problem with that (not anger, just discomfort), and I never wore it to bed again.

[Sedona]

Before we got married, we "had fun" when I was dressed, but only a couple of times. Both involved a couple of drinks, and I don't think she would have been too eager had she been sober. Since we've been married, she's seen me dressed numerous times, but has never said "hey, let's fool around." Darn it.

Oh well.

[Diane Elizabeth]

As for clothing I wear a sweatshirt and lounge pants mostly. However I am always en fem in bed as ME.... after all that is who I am.

[bethany356]

I haven't slept with Veronica as I didn't know she existed until a couple of weeks ago... But I can't wait to! I'm even picking out sexy under things for her to wear!:D

[cdinmd206]

We have played around and had sex while i was wearing stocking, garter belt and panties, but we have never done anything sexual when I was fully dressed. When I am completely dressed she says she thinks of me as her sister and she is not into incest!!!!

[Melanie R]

If I was not dressed enfemme every night in bed and during relations, my wife would ask if I am ill.

[Sarah Doepner]

My bride was not willing to let Sarah in the bedroom during those times. That's not who she married and she wasn't giving in. Since she was so supportive in every other aspect of my crossdressing, this wasn't worth fighting.
Still happy and Sarah will probably die an old maid. That's okay by me.

[Tasha VanEssen]

This thread really rings true for me as my daughter was conceived with me wearing white stockings and garter belt (I was all dolled up then clothes came off). I soon became quite enthralled with the idea of coming home to dress up all the time which sparked the beginning of the end for that relationship. I still put my daughter to bed every night 13 years later but not a day goes by where I don't pine for the way things were.

Life is more complicated now...

[t-girlxsophie]

I work nightshift so i dont dress sexy then,maybe my panties,but when am off I usually dress in Silky nightie,and bra and panties,feels so right and if we then do wat comes naturally,then my wife has absolutely no problem with that
On occassion she likes to take charge and be dominant and I have no problem with that :D:D

[Bethany38]

My dressing all resurfaced because of the bedroom thing. I had burried it for years, and was pretty miserable not remembering why. My wife knew I loved her to wear stockings and sexy stuff during relations. Then it happened though she asked me to try some stockings one night, ooops. Things have progressed from there. Now here I am a full blown CD. I had always been so, just would not let it be so. Any how now my Wife and I enjoy both sides of my self. As she put it "she gets the best of both worlds
'. Ya gotta love the woman.:love:

[Suzie S.]

Nope, not in a million years! :eek: My wife is cool about me dressing around the house, but the 'buck stops' at the bedroom door.

[Renee_E]

My SO loves me in silky things in bed. She has even bought me pajamas.

[Tina L.]

I go to bed every night with panties, camisole or gown but if any hanky panky is to take place they will be off at the end.

[Angie G]

Hasn't happened yet. I do think about it.:hugs:
Angie

[Crissy65]

My wife and I have been bed enfemme several times. We have matching girdles. I enjoy this time together so much. I don't think she is turned on by it, but is making me happy, God bless her heart.

[Chloe Renee]

A couple times but not very often. That was an early conditional boundary. Over time each of us grew more comfortable, and the boundary was breached. But only when she was comfortable with it.
The first was after a night,at a club in femme. Things just happened, the next time we tried I was so nervous and tense. It didn't work to well.

So short version yes but, only if things are right, for her.

[KarenHiller]

Yes, I always sleep in a nightie and panties, unless it's too hot, and then it's only panties, and she has absolutely no problem with it. We even have matching pink nighties.

Karen

[patty328cd]

I have slept quite a few times in nightgowns. My wife doesn't think anything of it and it usually leads to good things in the morning.

[EnglishRose]

Sleeping? I thought this was about sex?

Anyway Christina goes somewhere else during sex and my wife gets all of her husband. I separate my dressing from our sex life which is fine with me and better for my wife.

Of course if I'm feeling particularly fem that day I'll then change into a nightie for the sleeping part :)

[Danielle76]

Hmmm. I would be interested in trying this at some point, but I don't know....I couldn't ever see doing that with my wife. I think that's something I'd rather do with someone I don't have to wake up with the next morning, ya know? That would be weird for me, I think...

I would like to try it, though.

[HappyWife42]

When I first told my wife, she said absolutely no cuddling, etc.
She told me "I'm not into girls, that would be gross" one night, I pointed out "I'm not a girl, just dressed..." and almost immediately she was cuddling on the couch. The next night I was allowed to wear a cammi and matching panties, and was quite surprised to find her cuddling with me as we slept. As far as the "relations" go, I am still figuring this out myself (thanks to this site, and another I recently realized that nothing is actually wrong with me, and let her in on it), so I have not really tried.

That's right. I am not attracted to women so if I think if my CD husband as a woman then it doesn't work for me. But he's not a woman..he's a CDing male..and I find I'm still attracted to him. So yes, sometimes, but not all the time. My husband isn't selfish so I know he'll be my man for me when I need my man too.

[Sully]

Oh yes, all the time! She likes it a lot! Perhaps it satisfies both our fantasies...? :o

Sully

[Katie Ellen]

If I was not dressed enfemme every night in bed and during relations, my wife would ask if I am ill.

Same for me. I really can't remember the last time Katie wasn't there in some way.

[kimdl93]

We always make love as two women...with a little added equipment. My wife is also bi-experienced, and has said that our love making is much more satisfying than it ever was with her male ex.

[Josephine 1941]

Hi Marina, My girl friend said she is not a L--- which is not a problem. I am Bi an she knows about it. To get to the point yes we have made love with me dressed she realy gets hot. GO FIGURE!!!!! Who am I to complaine. JO:brolleyes: :daydreaming: :devil::eek::lol2::Playnice::fs:

[kimdl93]

josephine,

it makes some sens to me - she's not a lesbian in the sense that she's overtly seeking female intimacy, but you're the ideal substitute, providing the f/f contact without challenge to her self image.

[JasmineD]

Not fully femme but often wearing panties, bra nighties or some other female stuff. Depending on day, wife either is ok with it or enjoys it.

[sherri52]

I had a GG friend when I lived in Fl who sometimes helped me dress before bed. Her opinion was that I was better dressed. Maybe I am.

[AnnaBMarie]

When I first suggested that I come to bed as Anna, my wife reminded me that just because I was CD, she wasn't a lesbian and didn't want to make love to a woman. That sort of ended any chance after that.

It's a shame too, because the one time that we started fooling around with me dressed the electricity of our nylons touching was so intense. I've never felt anything remotely like that before or since.

[sissystephanie]

I had almost 50 years with my lovely late wife. I was definitely her man, but was also her girl friend many times at night. I mostly wore nightgowns, or other feminine sleep apparel until the children grew older.

The "dance" steps did not always remain the same!!

[kathie225]

being in bed enfemme as I want to be or as appropriate for sleep. In the winter it is panties and the pjs my wife bought me and in the summer it's panties only or with a slip.

[darla_g]

sure but I quickly came to the conclusion it is all in the mind. it never "felt" any different. so it was a fun build up

[Missy Tanya]

I feel so naked without something silky, slinky, smoothy, agaist my skin. The only time I'm not in feminine bedroom attire is when sleeping at friends homes, or on road trips with friends.

Tanya gets more action than her male friend in our bedroom, but that an't saying much either as other have mentioned. As for the dance steps, I was never a good dancer, so I plan on letting her lead the dancing. And enjoy it from the other side and see if that helps.

I guess the wife is OK with, cause she knows for sure whats under all those cloths. And she never complains when Tanya's over for a night of fun.

Tanya

[Cathytg]

I wear a night gown almost every night and my wife is fine with it. I also wear breast forms and hip pads often. Our lovemaking is actually enhanced with the clothing.

[rachel_rachel]

I'm allowed to wear whatever i want to bed with my wife.. She draws the line at clothes and shoes though. It must be either a nightie, satin PJ's, lingerie or just me. I do get her to take charge of things in the bedroom too, it really spices up our sex life and marriage.

[Bowmanls2]

My wife and I are very often intimate when I am dressed. She loves me in sexy lingerie!

[karennjcd]

My ex sort of tolerated it once in a while (but later used it in court against me when topic of child visitation/custody etc. came up). In my opinion I think I was a better lover when wearing stockings and heels (and pulling panties aside) than I was totally naked.

Karen

[BonnieJG]

Yes, I always sleep in a nightie or panties, camisole or gown, bra breast forms, with the wife

[ShirleyO]

Well I tell ya, my new girl friend loves my dressing up and wants me to go out with her dressed all the time and I must say she really loves trying to turn me on in public. At clubs that is she can't keep her hands from under my skirt. So most of the time we never get to the bed, LOL.

[JulieC]

But for those of you who have sympathetic SO's, where do you stand on the subject of marital relations with you dressed?

My wife is 100% accepting. Our bedroom activities often involve both of us wearing pantyhose. It's a great feeling with our legs rubbing together, and she enjoys it too.

Beyond that, she knew that I wanted to 'dance' while fully dressed, and indulged my fantasy. It's not something high on her list of favorite things to do, but she wasn't grossed out about it. We even had matching dresses :) She's content to do so again if the mood strikes, but knowing it's not among her favorite things I haven't asked her again.


So, the question to me is - where did you find these women? I find it amazing and I'm completely jealous.

I wouldn't even know how to get to that point in a relationship, and, if any of your wives have a sister with a similar personality, send them my way!

It's pretty simple really. It takes courage, self acceptance, and a willingness to see the current 'her' run for hills. All you have to be willing to do is be able to tell the woman you're dating that you are a crossdresser at some point early on in your dating her.

If she doesn't accept it, and runs away, you just saved yourself a bunch of time you would have wasted developing that relationship further. If she doesn't run, then you've potentially found the right person and you go from there.

Not all woman accept crossdressing, and even among the ones that accept it not all will accept their husbands dressed en femme in bed. But, life is too short for a CDer to accept having a woman that rejects who they are. Have the courage to step forward as all of you, not just the manly-man parts of you.

[JamieOH]

I sleep every night in a chemise, babydoll, or cami/panty set.. Something along those lines.. She sleeps in a tank top.. and granny panty.. She isnt into frilly things in bed, even when doing it, she just strips is off and says lets go.. much more like a man.. we have done it with me wearing the lingerie, but she really didnt do much with the touching and caressing.. it was much more to the point.. She has never been one for romance and foreplay though... hmm... makes me wonder...

[Debutante]

Yes, I have these fantasies about myself and my wife often. She hasn't quite accepted it, yes I have brought it up! ....Not yet. Maybe.... It is quite the usual for mtf CDers...

[Joan_CD]

Yes, I am always a woman in bed!

[Danielle Gee]

My sweetie and I tried it several times, but the outcome was unsatisfying. Even tho my wife loves and accepts Danielle in our marriage, I think this make her uncomfortable:2c:

[Dutchess]

Yes , of course,, all the time. He wears a nightgown to bed anyway . We are both into the Hollywood glam stuff anyway .. Sometimes he pefers to take a more submissive role but it is not overly obvious.. He also knows without me telling him when it is time to be his male self every so often , so he is not selfish like that ...but I think he is beautiful either way.

[Amanda Katharine]

Sometimes yes and sometimes no. We've also rocked the casbah with both of us dressed quite a few times. My wife's totally accepting but lets me decide if I want to dress for bed or not. Her favorite things at the moment are pantyhose and a red satin nightie she got me for Christmas. She says she loves the feel of the hose and the satin together against her body.

[azcdinhose]

99% of the time I wear pantyhose, a slip, night shirt or lingerie.

[Lilth]

When I first told my wife, she said absolutely no cuddling, etc.
She told me "I'm not into girls, that would be gross" one night, I pointed out "I'm not a girl, just dressed..." and almost immediately she was cuddling on the couch. The next night I was allowed to wear a cammi and matching panties, and was quite surprised to find her cuddling with me as we slept.

It's odd how someone can think they know how they would feel about something but then find themselves completely opposite of what they thought. While we haven't ... done the dirty deed with him all dressed I have found myself appreciating certain aspects of him being dressed. Like this one time he came home from work and was walkin around with his undershirt and uniform pants on lookin for his lounge pants. I look up from my book to see hot pink with black lace peeking out from his pants and couldn't help but say that it looked hot. Do I think i could go all out with him dressed? I honestly don't know anymore but we are takin one day at a time and I'm finding myself comfortable with a lot I didn't think I would be.:cute:

[ginafaye]

always ,as gina really can't remember when we made love and i didn't at least have a nitie on. she is so good to me

[Kathi Lake]

Ummm, the only thing that comes to mind is, . . . ewwww.

Actually, there is another thing that comes to mind. That would be why?


My wife is my wife

My wife is a woman
I am her husband

I am not

When we are in bed, any lingerie in the whole equation is soon seen as an obstacle anyway, so why.

Puzzled.

Kathi

[silkenhose]

When we sleep my SO wants me with nothing on.....occationally She will put me in a short nighty with pantyhose, but not that often.

When we have, as u put it "marital affairs", i am 90% of the time dressed in things ranging from fem under things to full on outfits, it all depends on what She wants me wearing

silk

[Joni Marie Cruz]

Nope. It's one of the places my wife draws a very definite line. She won't even kiss me when I'm enfemme, well, a kiss on the cheek, but not a full on liplock.

Hugs...Joni Mari

[JustAlex]

Whenever we're home alone, I go to bed en femme. Kind of, just panties and a nightie.

We go to hotels a lot lately. With the kids all day around the house (crazy schedules, it's [-]almost[/-] impossible to find one hour without one of them in the house), it's our only chance to have some time for ourselves. I always wear female on those occasions.

[Roxi Loh]

Yes, my wife and I have done it in full dress and makeup. She stopped for several years but last NYE I got dressed up and we made love. It was awesome.

[bron]

my ex-wife slept with me in ligerie....my former girlfriend did too.......my present partner.....no way.

[vjaducd]

Trying not to be too racy or explicit. But for those of you who have sympathetic SO's, where do you stand on the subject of marital relations with you dressed? My perspective is a straight CD, but I do have a femdom thing going on, too, and I have fantasized about my wife insisting I go to bed with her as a woman. (I think the term Male Lesbian kinda fits the situation) Is this something that other of 'us girls' think about? How about the SO's, does accepting your mate en femme extend to the bedroom, as long as the dance steps remain the same?
Yes I had tried once with my wife on my marriage anniversery , Being totally feminine with bridle make up.,wear & slept whole night with all other natural process & enjoyed night but now I want next chance
vjaducd/kirancd

[priscellia]

Yes it is very sexy when you both wear matching bras and garterbelts with long stockings.:love::hugs:

Lucky for everyone
Priscellia

[Kate17]

I wear some kind of nightie every night - well except when we want to ... She cant get into that - yet. Anyway, getting ready for bed at our house is a girls routine. There we are in front of our mirrors putting on our cremes and such - both in our nighties. I love it !

[MissyW]

I sleep en fem every night

[Stephanie Michelle]

I usually sleep with nothing on. Occasionaly when the wife and I would play around we would wear night gowns to bed. Although they didn't stay on for long.

Stephanie Michelle

[fetishtop]

For sure, many times. as I did, she had on a slip, panties, and stockings. We slipped and slid all over each other and touched each other and it was great

[RACHEL H]

Yes i do my wife really loves it ''play time'' is always great in a nice teddy and heels. :)

[KarenCDFL]

We have a better time when we are both all dolled up!

We both like spending the time getting ready which just adds to the evening.

[Dragster]

I've heard that there's nothing like making love with BOTH of you laced into tight corsets. It's my top fantasy, but would also include satin sheets, suspenders, nylon stockings, satin chemises and maybe satin opera gloves. Then we could slip slide our way to oblivion, caressing one another in our satin heaven. Waking up in the morning dressed might also lead to a repeat performance now we've no work to go to!

Utopia!!! Well it would be if she'd just accept my CD Side!

Tony

[tamarav]

Nope.

[Yvonne York]

We regularly sleep together with me fully dressed in sexy lingerie, nighties etc. We have a great sex life, sometimes she just wants me as a man, but often as a woman. We role play, explore one another, and it is wonderful.