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Lee51964
02-17-2010, 01:12 PM
so I'm sitting here watching a movie and the male lead says something beautiful to the female lead and I start to cry my wife looks at me and I just wipe my eyes and keep watching the movie all I could think was I wish someone would say something like that to Sarah

NatashaCD
02-17-2010, 01:32 PM
LOL dont you hate that ive been doing alot of crying at movies lately im just a big softy

Alice B
02-17-2010, 01:34 PM
I cry at movies all the time and always have. It has nothing to do with my being a cross dresser. It is just my basic make up. I'm sentimental.

eileendover
02-17-2010, 01:43 PM
I cry at movies all the time and always have. It has nothing to do with my being a cross dresser. It is just my basic make up. I'm sentimental.

Me too, Alice.

One of my favorite cry-inducing movies is "What Dreams May Come" http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120889/ with another great serious performance by Robin Williams. I especially tear up during the father-son scenes.

Shadeauxmarie
02-17-2010, 01:45 PM
I knew something was wrong when she did'nt cry when Old Yeller died. Or something like that.

I too have "contact problems" very often while watching movies. For me it has nothing to do with being dressed since I never watch movies while dressed. No opportunities.

DiannaRose
02-17-2010, 01:53 PM
I've alway been more apt to cry during a film than my wife--not that she doesn't, but I definitely think I'm more emotional that way.

Although, during the Vancouver opening ceremonies, watching the part where the kid was flying over the arena to Joni Mitchell's "Both Sides Now", we both teared up. :)

The problem comes sometimes because she's allowed to pour out the waterworks if she wants to, but I feel like I have to hide my tears sometimes.

JustWendy
02-17-2010, 02:11 PM
I guess you can add me to the list. I haven't actually cried, but I tear up and I definitely get choked up so that I can't speak for awhile. That used to be a little embarrassing when my now ex would want to discuss a scene and I couldn't disguise the emotion in my voice. I'm glad I can feel that, even if it isn't the norm. I mean, I don't think a person has to look to hard to see more obvious signs that I'm not exactly fitting the norm :D .

Wendy

Karren H
02-17-2010, 02:13 PM
Hell I cry during the reveal on Clean House"... Sniffle sniffle. Look at that beautiful sette!! Awwwww..

Christina Horton
02-17-2010, 02:22 PM
I have allways cryed at movies or a sad tv or such thing. I just did not let my tears fall if others were Round. The manlly thing to do eh. When I started to get in touch with my fem-side a got to the point where I don't care if anyone sees me cry. Guy (can) get laughed ad or teesed about it and I did not want that. Now I don't care if anyone see me cry.

The funny thing is when I started to fo out to movies dressed and I wanted to cry I would stop my tears from falling cuz I don't want to rune my makeup. So when I fully feel like crying I don't for the makeup reason. Now that I can cry and no one would think it strange I don't. Funny eh!!!!

I just need to find makeup that fully will not run. One day I will find it but now I will be watching my makeup.

I will cry again and again at the same movie if it moves me so when I buy the DVD I can cry buckets full and not worrie about my makeup.

Anyone have the same prob . Sarah I think you do to eh. Lol.

I love love love s good cry and I think all men and some women need to cry more. It is such a good stress release that most men would never know. Sad I know but..... True ?

Sharon B.
02-17-2010, 04:16 PM
I cry at happy endings and not so happing endings, can't explain why I do it, but I do, do it.

Brandi Wyne
02-17-2010, 04:35 PM
We are each one on our own individual journey and mine has crossed the "chick flick" threshold with the movies. I didn't cry, but I actually pointed out the romance movie for us to watch while my wife picked out a spy flick, thinking I'd rather see that.

I think she sort of likes that part of Brandi in her life, even though I've not outed to her yet.:battingeyelashes:

Nigella23
02-17-2010, 06:35 PM
I'm a total cry baby! I'll choke up at something the wife reads out of the paper, a sports event, nature programme, really doesn't matter what, if I empathise an emotional situation then thats me blubbing! :cry:

sherri52
02-17-2010, 06:38 PM
I don't cry a good cry but I have always had tears in my eyes for special moments.

DawnRodgers
02-17-2010, 06:43 PM
I am definitely a ChickFlic type gal. I'd rather see one of those than any other type of movie. Just get a thgrill when the guy finally realizes he's with the girl he really loves then the othe b***h and the teard of happiness run down my face. What's a ga; to do. Always wish it was me.

Laura Evans
02-17-2010, 07:03 PM
I get tearie eyes often at the movies, or reading something in the news paper, or in a conversation. It is not always involving a sad story it can be a triumphant situation. I often will have tears when my gf will be dry eyed. She understands this about me and generally never says anything. It use to embarrass me but now I don't let it bother me. When Laura is out and cries I am even less bothered by it, after all is it not normal for a girl to cry at movies?

Marissa
02-17-2010, 09:39 PM
Well I really don't know what is wrong with you sissy girls.. just because you dress fem, does not mean you have to let a simple movie or show get to you.. that just doesn't make sense..

I don't have those inner feelings to draw tears..

But will tell you each time I have gone to the movies and its one of them girl movies, they release some type of mist in the air.. not sure what it is..but everytime my eyes turn a bit red, sting a bit that draws tears.. almost like mustard gas..

I tell you, I don't know what it is..

And now that same mist is in my home as it has happened there alot too..

I'm getting tired of having to buy boxes of tissues to dry the wetness..

OKAY.. YES, I BALL LIKE A LITTLE SISSY and I love it.. :daydreaming::eek:

Its like a flood gate of feelings that were released..not sure if its tied to being free to dress more or life experiences in last few years..

Hope you girls didn't mind my teasing.. sniff.sniff.. :)

Hugs,

Karen564
02-17-2010, 10:12 PM
When asked if I was crying, I used to just say my eyes were broke and leaking..., or got something in my eye.......lol

Oh Don't get me going on crying, I've shed countless gallons of tears...

:hugs:

Kendra (Tx)
02-17-2010, 10:29 PM
Goodness...Don't let me sit and watch a Tom Hanks/Meg Ryan movie...The first and the last 5 minutes of "Sleepless in Seattle" or the the last 5 minutes of "You've got Mail" and I'm a wreck..:cry:

http://kendra954.com

marny
02-17-2010, 11:45 PM
EVERYBODY CRIES!! (Everybody Hurts![REM]) Nothing wrong with being moved by a good movie........or a good commercial. I can tear up at some of the dumbest moments in a sitcom or ....well, but what is going on now. Is it mandatory for everyone to cry on TV. Home Improvement shows. Undercover Boss(Yecchhh) and now every story about the olympics. I mean GAH! To Much. Obviously journalists don't have enough stories. Sorry i digress. I don't think crying has anything to do with being CD. it is about being human

WendyD
02-18-2010, 12:00 AM
Yes, I'm a cryer too.

Gina_C
02-18-2010, 01:31 AM
I cry when I see or hear beauty, not sadness

To quote Popeye "I yam what I yam"

Moe GG
02-18-2010, 02:26 AM
Happy movies make my cry, sad movies make me cry.. Disney movies make me cry.. :o
It's really just becoming pathetic... I'm not a girly-girl, so I can't start crying while watching films with mates without them teasing me about it.
I need people like you to watch movies with! :heehee:

Ze
02-18-2010, 02:51 AM
Disney movies make me cry.. :o

Fox and the Hound. Gets me every. Freaking. Time. And I don't consider myself a crier. A whiner, yeah, but not a crier. :elaugh:

donnalee
02-18-2010, 02:57 AM
The worst thing about it is that I tear up at the most obvious sentimental slop that is excreted from the pens of Hollywood's worst hacks.:eek:
It's embarassing.:o

Sandra65
02-18-2010, 02:57 AM
Phew, so it's not just me! My eyes have leaked recently with Rachel Getting Married, the ending of Gladiator, the ending of Bobby. It's good to feel emotions.

Imogen_Mann
02-18-2010, 04:26 AM
Difficult not to cry when watching 'Up' from Disney Pixar, when Mr Fredirckson looses his wife.

Tina2
02-18-2010, 04:29 AM
The first time I saw "What Dreams May Come" I cried throughout the entire movie.

Byanca
02-18-2010, 04:35 AM
I cry to sadness, those heartbraking moments. I don't brake down, but I can get shakes, even hulking. And tears running down the cheaks. Don't scream out load, maybe just soft gurgling sounds while I try to draw breath.

I like it, I feel much better afterwards. So don't try to stop this.

Shelly67
02-18-2010, 06:00 AM
Strange but true it seems that the things we observe , be it television programs or movies can move us to tears easily . Very easily . I think if you look at the flip side of this emotion , in true life most of us show a strength at times which draws respect . It is so evident that we are deep , gentle souls , very much " switched on " to life and I applaud that .... with all my heart .

As for me personally , as I'm aging the tears seem to flow easier than before . Tv shows where lost , parted people meet up again really hurt and I really go if I see anything towards cruelty - people , children and animals .
Sincere movies , like the end scene of Shawshank Redemption has me reaching for the tissue box .......... but then again so has the opening battle sequence in the original first Star Wars as the Imperial cruiser attacks the rebel runner .

I think it's something to treasure ...something to be proud of , after all it's a sign we are strong enough in person to show pure emotion .

Nicola2876
02-18-2010, 07:56 AM
I'm always doing it. It's my soft, sensitive nature you see:battingeyelashes:
Philadelphia had me sobbing like a child at the end! I even cried watching 50 First Dates at the weekend!:heehee:

erika130
02-18-2010, 12:11 PM
Oh yea, I cry here, could be a happy moment, a sad moment, anything, but if it gets me it gets me. I've always been sentimental, maybe part of my girl side who knows. I remember a while back, when getting into an argument with a friend, she would always say "You're acting like such a girl" !
Go figure :D
:hugs:,
Erika

KimberlyJo
02-18-2010, 12:25 PM
I especially tear up during the father-son scenes.

OMG Father/ Son scenes kill meeee, lol. I can't help it lol. I have 2 young sons. Adam Sandler's "Big Daddy" wrecks me, lol.


Difficult not to cry when watching 'Up' from Disney Pixar, when Mr Fredirckson looses his wife.

Practically EVERY Pixar movie has at least one scene that pulls the tears out of my eyes.

The whole scene in Lord of the Rings - Return of the King where Aragorn gets crowned absolutely and utterly destroys me. But the part where he says to the hobbits, "My friends. You bow to no-one." **SSSSSSSSSSSSSOB**:cry:

Stephenie
02-18-2010, 12:35 PM
I cry alot watching movies. Other night watched Casablanca. Wife always gives me funny looks so I try and hide it. But wish I could just let it go.