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Koka
02-21-2010, 12:23 PM
Hello Everybody!!

I am so excited !! - Last night me and my wife were talking about getting a standing closet for our room as we need the extra space and then the conversation deviated to the different kind of dresses and out fits a girl can wear for a night out. Personally I have been dying to explore the night life but I have not done thinking that she would not like the idea and because I don't know any girlfriend like me willing to go out a night in New York City. I have mentioned it to her some times but I ended up telling here that I was not ready to do it and that I prefer being out during the day by myself. However, last night I innocently asked her if she would be ok if I would like to go out at night with another girlfriend and guess what, she said, "absolutely not", in fact, she said that it would be interesting knowing and talking to another "girl" like her husband. I asked her "are you sure?" and she said "Yes" and then she said "are there any gilrs like you in New York, have you ckecked the online forum you visit? I was "frozen", but inmediately said, "yes off course but we have only exchanged messages" and then she replied: "as long as you feel fine and it is not forced, I think you shoud do it, you are crazy anyway and it does not surprise me that you want to do it, as I have always told you,with you is 100% or nothing" I replied, "thank you baby, let's see if I do it one of these days"

Isn't it that great? - Now I need you girls in New York to advise where to go, a place safe and CD friendly and if I can meet you one of these days. I love to have my first night out!!!! and.... what shoud I wear?:daydreaming::daydreaming::daydreaming:

Kisses

:bye:

Koka

mklinden2010
02-21-2010, 12:35 PM
Yes, that is great!

I think you'll find out there's more to do, and more help offered, from more sources than you can think of, than you'd believe at the moment.

Once started, the next thing you'll find out is that you need to "pick and chose" your outings so that you still have time for a home life.

Have fun.

Loni
02-21-2010, 01:16 PM
make it one night out infem.

AND three nights out with the wife....and not mic e dee's

very good dinner and a show..

.

jennCD
02-21-2010, 01:25 PM
You're lucky, Koda! Very cool... tho I can't say I know anyplace here firsthand since I've never been out myself, but it is NYC after all :)

:)
jenn

boy2girl31
02-22-2010, 03:56 AM
When i last went to NYC I just followed the list given at newyork.gaycities.com

It may not be exactly what you are looking for as you have a wife so are not gay but it is a good list where you do not have to fear being in CD mode. A lot of the clubs are great and if you let ppl know you are married and not into hooking up they mostly respect it.

Good luck.

Fab Karen
02-22-2010, 04:14 AM
What do you mean if you do it one of these days?
As for what you should wear, put together an outfit that will have your wife saying she wants one like that. The nightlife is for being Fab, dress to impress.:)
Let us know if you need any advice on an outfit.

Koka
02-22-2010, 09:16 AM
Hi Fab,

You are right - I want to look Fab! - What are your recommendations? I am thinking a suoer hot dress or may be a nice mini skirt and sexy and cute blouse. I am not sure???? - But I still need the most important component... I need a girlfriend in New York willing to "hold my hand" and bring me to the night life.... I hope I find her soon.


Kisses

Koka

DonnaT
02-22-2010, 04:00 PM
http://www.transeventsusa.org/empire/

gigiluv
02-22-2010, 05:27 PM
I envy you. I live in a rural area (very very rural). For me to go out on the town would certainly cost me my life. Maybe someday . . . :daydreaming:

You go girl, have fun.

gigi

Alice B
02-22-2010, 05:32 PM
As I have recently learned it is great. A few months ago my wife responded in the same way and told me it was OK to go out at night to a local bar that CD's attend. Since then I have been out several time and have had a great time. Your wife is special, sohave fun.

jayme357
02-22-2010, 05:55 PM
Try cdidotorg.tripod.com. This is the website of Crossdressers International in New York City. They are a very active and supportive group that helped me make my first foray into the real world.

Fab Karen
02-22-2010, 06:24 PM
Hi Fab,

You are right - I want to look Fab! - What are your recommendations? I am thinking a super hot dress or maybe a nice mini skirt and sexy and cute blouse. I am not sure????
Kisses

Koka
Yes, either of those. Dresses are easier, you don't have to find the right blouse/top. If you find some new outfits, show me some pics, I'd be happy to help pick something to wear, including shoes.

I suspect you'll soon have a bunch of N.Y. girls wanting to hold your hand as you put it.:)