Checkin out the girls!

[Jamz1b]

What goes through your mind when you see a beautiful woman?
For most guys I would assume the thoughts of sex are very strong. How ever for me, all my life it has always been desire to be like her at least in look.

Do many of you feel the same way?

Any thoughts as to what it might mean?


My own thought is that it just means I have a little bit more of what ever it is that causes feminine feelings. Its not a cloths thing, as I think about early time periods where the men wore tights and wigs and heals and frilly things, I still envy the girls.

Again any thoughts as to what all this might mean?

[MonicaJean]

Absolute adoration of the women! How they dress, how they do their makeup, nails, what type of shoes they are wearing, etc. The female body is the single most beautiful thing God ever created.

[Loni]

yes there are those i would like to woo.:eek:

but i adore how they look, the clothing, how it drapes them with grace, all the shoes, the walk, and the faces. just so pretty.:daydreaming:

hard to not just want to be in there dresses.:heehee:


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[jenifer m.]

i always look at what they are wearing first,then look at all their fetures,then think sexual things so i get what you mean sorta.even a less beutiful girl dressed the right way can be a turn on for me.

[Stina84]

When I look at a sexy woman I admire her beauty long before I even start thinking of anything sexual. Then I look at what they are wearing and how they did their makeup and nails, what accessories they are wearing etc and starts thinking about whether it would work for me.

And then I envy them for having small feet if their shoes are cool (it is simply not fair that I can't get any cool shoes in my size:Angry3:)

[thechic]

I check out what they are wearing and how it looks, would it suit me.or i wish i had there body.

[connie23]

I like to look at a beautiful woman and admire their choice in shoes. I look at someone in Starbucks and I rate the quality of their total look. Can they pull off a nice pair of boots with a form fitting skirt. I really appreciate thigh high boots that look stylish and hope someday to wear such an outfit myself in the very same store. I think a woman in tall boots that looks confident and in control.

[Shayna Ashley]

When I see a beautiful woman I check out her outfit, hair. I try to learn how she dresses so I can improve how I dress.

[Missy Tanya]

I hate to say this. But we just returned from a memorial service. It was for a old co-workers son that passed away. So here is all these grieving people and me checked out all the pretty womens, hair and outfits.

As you can see, my mind wasn't there, but wishing I could have been dressed pretty. But not the time or place, for sure.

I find that I'm checking out women everywhere I go. The wife thinks it's funny that I drool over their cloths, make up, and hair. She has caught me soo many times watching women, it's a good thing she know's why I'm looking. Or I would be in the dog house more than the dog!!!

Tanya

[NikiMichelle]

As a guy I love to check out the girls...it just feels great to see a well done up female.

As a CD I love to check out the girls...it just feels great to see a well done up female so I can say to myself "I want to look like that and will try".

:D

[suchacutie]

I have a terrific and supportive SO so I look at a beautiful woman, immediately prefer my wife, and then try to figure out why she is beautiful and if I can learn anything from what she does!

really easy!

:)

tina

[Sandygal]

When I see a pretty lady, the first thought that goes through my head is. 1.She really looks good in that outfit 2. Nice hair and makeup 3.I so wish I could look like that.

[kellycan27]

I'd rather check out the boys!:heehee:

[Kathi Lake]

I'm with Michelle. Guys are lumpy, bumpy, angular and just not built right! God did much better with His second try - woman. I admire them for their beauty, their grace, their softness (both physical and mental/spiritual), their clothes, their hair, their skin, their smell, their . . .

:)

Occasionally, I get a huge twinge of jealousy that I can't be that way. I think, "Wow, she's pretty! Why can't I be pretty?!"

Kathi

[docrobbysherry]

However, NOT too old to figure out what I find ATTRACTIVE in them.
Then, try to have Sherry imitate whatever it was!:D

[Barbara Dugan]

when I see a beautiful woman I pay attention to her overall look but mostly the way she walks that is the only interest I have on women.

[VeronicaMoonlit]

Occasionally, I get a huge twinge of jealousy that I can't be that way. I think, "Wow, she's pretty! Why can't I be pretty?!"

Kathi

Aren't you pretty? Do you feel pretty? Don't you try to be the least bumpy and lumpy softest, most graceful you?

Veronica Rogers

[Kathi Lake]

Aren't you pretty? Do you feel pretty? Don't you try to be the least bumpy and lumpy softest, most graceful you?

Veronica RogersAs long as there aren't many mirrors around, yes, I do feel pretty. :)

I try to be the best, softest, least bumpy and lumpy (except, you know, where I should be bumpy :)) girl I can be. It doesn't always work. And it is work! That's what gives me the twingies - women can look beautiful just by being them. Beauty is endemic to women. They can just sit there and be effortlessly stunning. Sigh.

Kathi

[Nataliebabe]

Well, before I met my wife...wow, I gotta b@#$ her! She`s hot! oh wow, nice dress, I love those legs and her panty hose. her make up is just perfect. Looove that shade of lipstick. I want to be her, but I want to get her in the sack too! :eek.

I love women! I love to watch them. Their style, their grace, mannerisms, etc. One of the sweetest things that I have seen is a well kept woman with a beautiful smile on her face having a good time...just being happy.

[sueann]

all the time

[Angie G]

Sometime I think both ways. After all I'm not a real girl.:hugs:
Angie

[rachellegsep]

Check list:
Shoes: mmh I like those wonder where she got them & do they have my size / yeucch have you no taste :yucky:
Outfit: those colours work well together
Makeup, Hair & Gromming: How does she get that look / nice colour lippy or nail varnish. You need to sort out you chapped heels if you want to wear sandals.
Smile , posture, self confidence & attitude:

Then back to male mode : nice cleavage and pins to heaven :drooling:

What I have noticed though is how women assess & check out other womens
looks. They are far more judgemental / critical of each other than men. Maybe she each other as competition ? Just an observation maybe a GG can enlighten me.

Men don't check out each other. He could be wearing orange Bermudas, blue paint splattered t shirt with black steelcap work boots and no guy will think twice. Of course he could go to the mall like that with his wife though :chatterbox:

[Caitlintgsd]

Lol.. most of the time when I notice a woman the thought that pops into my head is "I wonder if that comes in my size..."

[Alexei]

Well, like many guys I picture her with her clothes off.


And on me.


Maybe that last bit isn't as common. :heehee:



Seriously though, I have a habit of staring at girl's clothes, and trying to hide the fact that I am staring because it is really hard to convince an angry woman that "I wasn't looking at your breasts, I was looking at the clothing covering your breasts!"

Just tonight I was on the train and a girl wearing an outfit I liked sat in the seat across the aisle and her reflection in the window was perfectly lined up with where I was already gazing. Then a fat man sat between us. :sad:

[Rianna Humble]

When I look at a girl,I definitely check out her outfit, hair etc. Then I think whether the look suits her and afterwards whether it would suit me. Several times I have had to stop myself running up to a girl in the street to ask where she got her top / skirt / coat / whatever and if she thinks they do it in my size. Just lately, I have asked some of the girls at work where they bought something, but haven't had the courage to follow through and ask if they would have it in my size.

For a very long time, when I know a girl even slightly, I have complimented her on her hair if she has changed the look. I used to do this when I was in denial too. Several times, I have been thanked for noticing.

[Kara Connor]

I seem to get a dual reaction: "wow, she's beautiful" and "love the outfit, wish I could dress/look like like that" both at the same time. It kind of doubles the enjoyment but also produces a strange feeling of internal conflict. Still, it doesn't stop me looking :) Looking is all though, because I love my wife.

[SusanLCD]

The outfit is a strong part of the total impression, so, it's among the first things to get my attention. I'll look to see skirt/dress vs slacks/jeans and am pleased when I see it's skirt or dress. An average looking girl will capture my attention and appreciation if she presents herself well and dresses nicely. I find myself wishing I could do as well as she does. :daydreaming:

Despite my age, my next thoughts involve the sexual attraction. Girls stir my interests; not boys.

[prene]

My thoughts are:
What does it feel like to have that body.
How the hips naturally sway, how the extra soft skin feels on the their body.
How the breasts feel as they move with your every movement.
How at least I hear that their body is sensitive (breasts, . . everything)
What it would be like to feel those feelings how the clothes feel with that body.

The smell, soft skin, soft features . . . .

This is also why I dress.

[Gillian]

I have found my perspective changing from a "phoar she's hot" to the same as Prene and others to wonder how incredible it would feel to have those curves and wear those clothes so naturally and enjoy the experience living as that shape and person daily.

[Terri Semes]

I can't help but wonder what it would be like to have their body and clothing and also imagine what those clothes would feel like on me.

[tamarav]

My wife laughs at me for checking out a good looking woman, she knows that it is not sexual but envy that drives me.

Men are definitely not alone though, most women check out each other in their quest for checking off where they stand on the list of best looking women in that group. Watch a woman enter a room and look around. She is not generally looking at the men or searching for a partner, she is looking for the competition and placing them in order on her check list. It all boils down to which woman is the most attractive and therefore will attract the right man. Sort of a cave woman approach but we all understand it.

Men, of course, generally do the same thing to see which male is the biggest, strongest, tallest, whatever as their competition for that list of women. Then along we come and really confuse the issue. We just sit and gawk at the women, ignoring the male competition and fantasizing about the clothing and the hair and the makeup. Ahhh, what a life...

[NikiMichelle]

Well, like many guys I picture her with her clothes off.


And on me.


Maybe that last bit isn't as common. :heehee:



Seriously though, I have a habit of staring at girl's clothes, and trying to hide the fact that I am staring because it is really hard to convince an angry woman that "I wasn't looking at your breasts, I was looking at the clothing covering your breasts!"

Just tonight I was on the train and a girl wearing an outfit I liked sat in the seat across the aisle and her reflection in the window was perfectly lined up with where I was already gazing. Then a fat man sat between us. :sad:


Yes,yes, yes...been there and done that...still do....

[tgirl2b]

First I start at the shoes then work my way up very slowly, check out the clothes then the way she looks and i wonder if she's not one of us.

[Frédérique]

What goes through your mind when you see a beautiful woman?

It all depends what you mean by beautiful. Physically attractive? Pretty? Well dressed, well presented? All of the previous? I have a different take on things. Let’s see…:thinking:

The most beautiful woman I ever knew (and still know) has a poor personality, which diminishes her beauty quite a bit. It’s a shame. Her equally attractive older sister lived in the younger one’s shadow of success – thus deprived of light, she wilted and nearly died from insecurity (but her sister saved her). This older girl has a sweet personality and is quite “beautiful” in that regard. I often think about these distinctions, which may tell you that I’ve done a lot of looking and thinking about things in my time. The only kind of beautiful woman that impresses me these days is one that looks so “together” that I cannot keep my eyes off of her – it has more to so with comportment and presence rather than beauty, but physical beauty is part of the overall package. Queen Rania of Jordan is a good example of what I’m trying to describe – beauty that is deep, unassuming and somewhat humbling…:straightface:

[minalost]

The best place to check out women's clothing is on a women!
:D

[Lynn Marie]

I admire any woman well done up. Sloppy just doesn't do it for me. I'm a 50's throwback and I like that look. Most any woman in heels gets my attention, they just do such great things for the derriere.

[sherri52]

I'm a 50/50 girl. When I see a beautiful woman I want to look like her and wear her clothes or I want to be with her. My mind works both ways. Now if I could look like her and be with her, I would be in heaven.

[sonia_dargency]

What first catches my eye is the general demeanor, confidence, etc. that alone makes a women beautiful to me. Then I check out the outfit head to toes, like this don't like that - often I am envious, wishing I could dress like that or be pretty like that.

to enliven any interest beyond that, she must have a sparkle in the eye, something in the brain; idiots are dull.




What I have noticed though is how women assess & check out other womens
looks. They are far more judgemental / critical of each other than men. Maybe she each other as competition ? Just an observation maybe a GG can enlighten me.


True,

I am not a GG but I know that for a fact, competition is on big time. women dress to impress other women, attracting men is a side effect. A women will notice if another women wore the same outfit twice regardless of the elapsed time between the occurrences.

a men can wear the same shirt every Monday and no other guy will have clue.

[larry]

1 Is she classy ?
2 is she a CD ?
3 Any chance she could be my girlfriend ?

[Debra Jane]

My reaction has been the same all of my life...

Admiration,

Wonderment,

Envy,

= AWE.

And then it's always "I want to be her".

:daydreaming:

[dana digs sweaters]

My wife laughs at me for checking out a good looking woman, she knows that it is not sexual but envy that drives me.

Men are definitely not alone though, most women check out each other in their quest for checking off where they stand on the list of best looking women in that group. Watch a woman enter a room and look around. She is not generally looking at the men or searching for a partner, she is looking for the competition and placing them in order on her check list. It all boils down to which woman is the most attractive and therefore will attract the right man. Sort of a cave woman approach but we all understand it.

Men, of course, generally do the same thing to see which male is the biggest, strongest, tallest, whatever as their competition for that list of women. Then along we come and really confuse the issue. We just sit and gawk at the women, ignoring the male competition and fantasizing about the clothing and the hair and the makeup. Ahhh, what a life...

You nailed it honey!:clap:

[Patty]

Clothes then the face, eyebrows, hair, nails and if the toes are painted.

[Starling]

...Guys are...just not built right! God did much better with His second try - woman...

Well, that's the Bible version. It's genetically pretty clear that humans are all female until they get whooped with the ugly stick.

:heehee: Lallie

[Tina P Hose]

When I see a beautiful women MY Brain's top 5 Thoughts
5. I want to have sex with her.
4. If only I could look as good as her.
3. I wish had that outfit.
2. The sex thing again.
1. I hope nobody can read my mind as I am checking her out.

[ReineD]

women dress to impress other women, attracting men is a side effect. A women will notice if another women wore the same outfit twice regardless of the elapsed time between the occurrences.

This needs correcting. :)

It's true that women check each other out. We do this to establish our pecking order, much like males do in the gym. We want to check out the competition. And yes, some of us remember outfits, but lots of us don't. Lol. I might remember what I've worn on certain occasions, but I never remember someone else's clothes, unless she's a good friend and I've seen her wear the outfit dozens of times. Or I see a woman who has an outfit I'd give my right arm for.

We most certainly don't dress to impress other women the way we wish to impress men, although on occasion I've dressed with the object of marking out my territory. ;) In other words, "Hands off, he's mine. And I've got the booty to claim him!"

I'd better stop now before I divulge all our other secrets.

EDIT
Ooops, Tamavav, I didn't notice that you're already said this. You nailed it!

[StarrOfDelite]

The best thing about being a sexually omnivorous transvestite is that I can look at both women and men lustfully and critically. I do imagine what a pretty woman would look like naked while at the same time thinking whether I like/dislike her hairstyle, whether her shoes complement her outfit, and whether her makeup goes well with her complexion and hair color. I also look at men, only the good-looking ones, puh-leeze, and wonder what they would look like naked, whether their personalities would be romantic or rude, and especially with the business-suit type, thinking that it would be fun to get inside the protective armor, and whether they are the kind of guy who would be interested in a gurl like me.

[ladyz]

envy for me comes too mind also if the girl has any fashion know how at all ( so many real girls dont ) lol.i admire the beuty of the female form and wish i could be her. i always laff to myself when i see visible panty lines yuk! lol

[Yvonne York]

Yep envy first. I long to look like the prettiest shapeliest girls!