how long

[lori m crawford]

how long did it take you to fimley be you as a cd-ts or be just you i now some of you live or women but did you come to tht that was you not what you was born with as a boy or was crossdressing a thing for you know women do a lot not just being a women haveing kids takeing of them a husband an all i thank we as a cd-ts look more in to a real womens life is yes i do wish i wash a women but is so great or is being a man so bad we are bornd one other if like some have said is a womens life better than a mans we all know we are us wen to being what you are a thing that you wont to do i gees wen dose take over you an you have not a thing to do about it i am 57 an i dont no what i am or wear to go or what to be all i no is being crossdresses or trangernder has mees up my life my mom or no body did it to me i did i was born that way an tel i die i see you ladies that told so an frends an had good diles well wen i did the laft me no mare frends as for as me i live in a world of my one if ther is one

[NathalieX66]

10 years ago I rarely ever saw transgendered people in public the way I see gays & lesbians. Somehow I came to the conclusion that transgenderism was not really valid because I saw so few people the either crossdressed or made that journey across the great divide. Gays & lesbians live freely in communities, big cities, and have enough bars & clubs to justify their existences, and they are as visible as anyone.

Must be in my head.

That's why I gave it up then .

I have actually seens transsexuals, and while they may have made the transition via hormones & surgeries, the skeleton they lived on was the same.

And worse, the crossdressers that I saw in the internet seemed more amateurish than the transsexuals, therefore seemingly less genuine. was I really that crass & judgemental?

what I did not accept was the fact that , in every single instance, all these people were being themselves, and these aspects could not part from themselves ever....at all...myself included. The aspect of gender dysporia vs. gender preference, which seemed arbitrary to me, vs. fetish, I could not understand. ...so which is it?

So it took me a little while to find my way back, and now here I am.....being myself.

[ArleneRaquel]

I have dreamed of being a woman as a an adult since the age of 8 -10. I live as a lady 24/7 and have done so for 6 years. :battingeyelashes::devil:

[lisalove]

Let's see, I was 6 when I started with panties. I went 24/7 at 18, so that would be 12 years it took me to be me and care what anybody had to say about it.